y'all, how do you deal with aphobic people?
I just went through the most exhausting debate online. It was my fault, I should've just blocked all of them from the beginning.
I swear if I get one more reply, I'm deleting that comment altogether.

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y'all, how do you deal with aphobic people?
I just went through the most exhausting debate online. It was my fault, I should've just blocked all of them from the beginning.
I swear if I get one more reply, I'm deleting that comment altogether.

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You gotta love how people insist that asexuals aren't oppressed in the slightest.
The main argument being that we won't get killed in foreign countries. That "coming out" as ace isn't a big deal, because nobody cares.
But I tried to subtly come out to my family and now my mother is insisting that I'm broken and require counseling. Surely, I must be keeping some traumatizing secret from them and that's why I'm ace aro. Can't simply be that that's who I am, it's that I've been traumatized, or persuaded by the lies of the world!
It's absolutely unnacceptable that I don't want to be in a relationship - it's impossible.
Worse than that, they think I'm going to ruin my little sister too! They think my mindset is too dangerous to keep around my younger sibling. They want me to limit my contact with her. My sister's been interested in boys since she was 4! I'm not going to pull her into asexuality or aromanticy! We're simply on different paths, I don't understand how they can genuinely believe this.
So, okay. Yeah, we won't get killed in some places for being ace, but we sure as hell understand the isolating feeling of being the "broken" one. The "corrupted" one. That member of the family who just doesn't quite fit right. To be forcefully cast away from the inner circle to the darker part of the family so they can pretend doesn't exist because you don't shine with the same light that they do.
Despite everything, I won't change. I'm an asexual aromantic and proud to be that way.
Someone: omg they're so hot!!
Me, an asexual:
kill yourself ace freak
anyway cishet aces aren’t lgbt die about it
you really gonna reply then block me so I can’t see it? coward ass bitch
The OP of that acephobic post ladies and gentlepeople! What an example of human decency. I can only dream of being this good of a person.
If it makes you feel good about it, OP, I didn’t know blocking you meant you couldn’t see my replies :/ I just thought it would keep you from sending me death threats but YIKES, it didn’t work!
Worry not tho! My reply was basically me calling you a cishet, because that’s what you are. I don’t care if you don’t think you are, because it doesn’t prevent you from calling aces that aren’t cishets as such. So, yeah, it looks like that’s what we’re doing now, calling ppl cishets regardless of their sexual and gender identity. Hope you’re super proud of that.
aces who aren't l,g,b, or t aren't lgbt
hi, have you heard of the LGBTQIAA meaning one A is for Agenders and the other is for Asexuals/Aromantics. Wowza, what a concept.

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You can say that you’re only trying to exclude cishet aces from the community, but when LGBT people are making jokes about aces/telling aces not to express their pride because it’s rude to people who aren’t ace, you’re pushing trans/gay/bi aces out too.
Warning: Rant
So, after making a comment on a post about LGBTQA people in history and checking back at other reblogs... Yikes. I was definitely reminded why I rarely venture into that territory although I personally believe Aces belong with the LGBTQA community. So much hate on Asexuals... Like, I already get erased or hated by straight people. I honestly have given up on personally being included anywhere because it feels like about 80% of people think I don't belong in their community. At least on Tumblr. Like, guys, FACEBOOK was more accepting. Granted, I could hand pick that only my friends saw it... But still. I feel like hiding my asexuality until I can feel out how someone would react is... Kinda the point of having a community? Like the LGBTQA? I just don't have the energy to deal with all the hate most days. I dunno peeps. Just kinda seems against the whole pride spirit to turn around and say Asexuals don't exist or are intruding for insinuating that somebody might be ace.
I'm so sick of all the ace hate all over my dash. If you don't think aces belong in the LGBT+ then unfollow me right the fuck now.