Iniciating my blog diary during Ace Week felt right to me, since one of the main reasons why I decided to create it was to talk about my ace experiences.
I found out about my asexuality almost 3 years ago and I love how much I've learned about the spectrum and myself during this time.
Remember ou are valid no matter what people say, aphobes, gatekeepers or whatever. The only one who knows what you're feeling and can tell if you belong in the community or if you are in fact ace is yourself and if you consider yourself part of it and no one can say otherwise.
You're not broken, you're not missing out on anything, you don't need to be "fixed" by the right person, and you're not less loved (considering any type of love here). You're amazing and a wonderful person!
If you don't use split attraction model, you're valid
If you're aroace, you're valid
If you're aceallo, you're valid
If you're demiace, you're valid
If you're greyace, you're valid
If you're m-spec ace, you're valid
If you're trans ace, you're valid
If you're non-binary ace, you're valid
If you're mlm ace, you're valid
If you're wlw ace, you're valid
If you're het ace, you're valid
If you're oriented aroace, you're valid
If you're aceflux, you're valid
If you're somewhere on the acespec and rather not use the term asexual, you're valid
If you're quoisexual, you're valid
If you're abrosexual, you're valid
If you feel tertiary attraction, you're valid
If you're aegosexual, you're valid
If you're freysexual, you're valid
If you're cupiosexual, you're valid
If you're akoisexual, you're valid
If you're in the closet, you're valid
If you're questioning, you're valid
and there's so much more in this gigantic spectrum who are also super valid. I just love so much all the possibilities and different people that this spectrum embraces, all the divergent people and experiences, it's incredible!
