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hey! im aromantic and i have a boyfriend. yeah. im one of those partnering aros, there ARE aros that date. that being said…
STOP USING US AS AN EXCUSE TO ELIMINATE AROMANTIC AND ASEXUAL REPRESENTATION. WE DONT GET A LOT OF THAT. ITS NOT HARD TO HEADCANON THIS CHARACTER OR THAT CHARACTER AS ASPEC EVEN IF (OR ESPECIALLY IF) THEYRE IN A RELATIONSHIP. QPRS EXIST FRIENDS EXIST. THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER OPTIONS.
this has been a PSA, thank you.
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Being “accepting” of romantic asexuals but not sexual aromantics is just repackaged purity culture.
Every so often you see some aroallo* on here saying that the aro and ace communities should be separate and I just. Have you never actually talked to an asexual? Have you never had a single conversation with one about your aspec identities?
Like, obviously there's the fact that so many people are aroace and so the two communities would still have a lot of overlap no matter what, but even if you're talking about people who are just asexual, we both say and feel the same exact things, just about romance instead of sex. Honestly sometimes it feels like I have more in common with alloaces than aroaces because we both have the same central frustration of "why the hell has society decided that these two things have to go together? Why is only wanting one such a hard concept?" They understand the struggle of how hard it is to find people who are willing to do one thing with you but don't expect you to do the other.
Like, I have had a conversation before with someone who was like "I know this is going to sound super weird, especially from someone who is ace" and I got to say "oh my god, no, not only is that not weird, I've done the exact same thing before but with romance." That's so cool! It's great that we can do that!
Whether you're aro, ace, another aspec identity (because let's not forget about atertiaries), or some combination of those, we all share the same frustration of "why is all media so obsessed with this one thing?" We all can't easily explain our identities to other people. We literally feel the exact same ways, just about different things. The aspec experience is the same across all identities, it's just in different fonts.
Saying we should be separate is like saying that lesbians and gay people shouldn't be in the same community, because lesbians know nothing about attraction to men and gay people know nothing about attraction to women. People have said that too, and I hope you all know how ridiculous that is. It's ignoring the common ground of being attracted to the same gender instead of the one you're supposed to be attracted to, and it's also ignoring how much defining those identities as not liking men/women is going to alienate the bi/pan/etc people who also share most of the same experiences.
Anyway. Hi aces. You are very cool. If anyone doesn't want you sitting with me, I'll make them leave instead.
*(Full disclosure that I'm sure there are aces who say this too, I just don't see it because I don't follow ace tags)
They always think that I am you and you are me. But we're not the same.
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yes asexuals can fuck but we need to not forget that allos can possibly not fuck ? entirely too many times I hear people saying "lol you're probably ace" to people that are literally just celibate . like guys . please . stop acting like the asexual = no sex i thought we were far past that guys
theres so many reasons to be celibate from religious to health (both physical and mental) and all the way to just not wanting to and it can very much have nothing to do with attraction
(not to mention it feels weird to see as a celibate aroallo but that's a separate topic)
I feel kinda bad for straight aro or ace people cuz I feel like aromantic and asexual are kind of niche labels. Or even the idea of split attraction in the first place. Most of them probably don’t even know about those terms at all. You only really know them if you’re in queer communities and even then a lot of queer ppl don’t rlly understand them. Thinking about the heteroromantic/heterosexual people who would benefit from these communities and feel left out for reasons they can’t describe. I’m lesbian and aro and I felt so left out among my gay friends when I was younger for sure 😓
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
sex repulsed aces are valid
