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Name ~ skye
Gender ID ~ gnc trans man
Pronouns ~ he/they (it) depending)
Sexuality ~ demi aceflux
Disorders ~ ocd, bpd, audhd, bipolar disorder, mdd, panic disorder, osdd, gad, cptsd, ppd, pmdd, psychosis
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Flirting/fake flirting ~ no
DNI ~ minors, sanist, terfs, ableist, bigots
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i really really hate how normalized it is to tell people to kill themselves
Your OCD awareness/advocacy should not stop when people have “unsavoury” obsessions. People with pOCD, zOCD, harm OCD and moral scrupulosity OCD deserve to have a place in your advocacy too. It’s a mental health disorder, it’s not going to be sunshine and rainbows.
The O in OCD is for "Ohhhh god oh fuck why why why why whyyyyy holy fuck oh shit oh christ oh god oh fuuuuckkkkk"
i seriously wish people were nicer to us with ocd. do you know that a single intrusive thought can ruin your LIFE? one single intrusive thought can put you in a spiral for months sometimes even years and you'll lose track of time due to ruminating. you could be enjoying your day and having an amazing time and all it takes is one intrusive thought to ruin the entire day and make you have an anxiety/panic attack for days and even months on end. people end their lives because of this disorder. i lost a family member due to this disorder. i wish people would take this more seriously
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I HATE MORAL OCD. well i shouldnt say hate thats a strong word. and i dont want to sound like i hate people WITH moral ocd because i dont of course. i just hate having it. but i shouldnt think that, i do like having morals, its just stressful to be thinking about them so constantly and scrutinizing every little thing i do or think. but really thats the least i could do so i should at least try, right? just because i suffer from— no, struggle with moral ocd doesn’t mean i should just stop thinking about things all together, thats not what im saying and i should make that clear, but i
I DESPERATELY needed someone to tell me this as I grew up in leftist online spaces. So now I am going to tell YOU:
If you
Check what you sent over and over to make sure you didn’t say a slur instead of “hello how are you”
Fear that someone will find you thinking not-leftist-enough thoughts and will call you out and ruin you
Feel you have to make your intentions clear and over-explain your actions
Find yourself consistently resisting the urge to engage in reassurance-seeking WRT being a good enough ally to marginalized people
Stay up late endlessly debating political ethics in your head
Have a set of actions that you take after discovering you made a morally wrong decision so that you can atone, which you rely on for reassurance that you are not a bad person
Would rather not make a decision at all than make a decision that is the lesser of two evils, but is not morally pure
then I am gently, but firmly, requesting that you look into moral scrupulosity OCD.
love your friends, let your friends love you
there you go dear internet stranger, proud of ya for making through this year
at this time of year you might be tempted to create new rules for yourself, if you do, make sure that they are designed to serve you, not to punish yourself for imperfection.
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Hey do you know what rumination is?
Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.
Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.
Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.
I'll say it again:
Rumination is a compulsion.
Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.
I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.
And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.
Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.
Like this was genuinely life changing for me.
Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:
Defining Rumination
How to Stop Ruminating
ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination
What to Do When You're Triggered
i dont care what your event is. i dont care about your past. i care about who you are now. "but i did x, y, z!" i dont care. you're not doing x, y, or z now. you deserve to move on and live your life. you can't control what happened but you have control over whatever you do and say now. you've punished yourself more than enough and you deserve to give yourself compassion and rest.
Hey you. Trans person with intrusive thoughts. Yes you, the one who's scared they'll "prove transphobes right" about being dangerous when you get thoughts you hate that almost physically hurt to think about.
I love you. You're not a dangerous beast, you're a person, and I love you. You are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are not "what you really believe" or "what you actually want". In no way, shape or form are you a bad person because of thoughts you cant control. You deserve to be safe and feel safe. I love you.
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I'm very tired as of writing this so I may sound incoherent but
It's good to encourage people with ocd to keep fighting, resisting their compulsions and getting exposed to their triggers but uh. I feel like sometimes people forget that exposure supposed to be gentle. I don't think it's good to encourage people to dive head first in their triggers. Like that can be deadly. You're supposed to take it step by step. Yes, this will be uncomfortable, but it's not supposed to make you feel so bad that you want to die!!
It's ok if you aren't ready yet to meet your triggers face to face. Block that tag. Don't watch that movie. Leave that conversation. You deserve love and compassion whether you're getting better or not at all. Please take your time and take care of yourself.
I hope you don't mind me putting it out here, I think this is an important addition
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