Ruler of my own Wonderland

So listen, I know Obi-Wan has a lot of fans who will endlessly talk about how perfect he is and that he invented perfection. However, I would like to put forward that the Jedi in general some other Jedi also are perfect and invented perfection. Here is a very small number of them.

Luminara Unduli

She makes sure she’s prepared, loves her padawan, and is very good at staying focused. She also is good at accepting reality and growing as a person. Have I mentioned that she’s also just really nice? Plus, she pulls off black better than any Sith.

Kit Fisto

He’s cheerful, loves his former Padawan, and is very good at puzzles. He is also good at accepting reality. Did I mention that he’s also very kind? Plus, you can’t deny he has a good smile.

Mace Windu

He is dutiful, focused, and patient. He is also cool and composed. Did I mention that he’s also super nice and kind as well? And you can’t deny the coolness that is purple lightsaber.

Yoda

Possibly the most perfect of all. He is wise, humorous, and kind. He also loves teaching, his grandpadawans, and teaching his grandpadawans. Did I mention that he loves all the Jedi and loves teaching them? And there is no denying he is a great frog grandpa.

That makes them perfect to me.

Katooni is perfect. She’s like a mini Katara, an adorable bossy little mom friend I’d die for. I love her.

Zatt is perfect. He’s a tiny freckled nerdy Baby-Anakin and I love him.

Petro is perfect. He’s another baby Anakin - not the nerd part, just the reckless, cocky part. I love him.

Gungi is perfect and his lightsaber is super cool and I want a Jedi Wookie hug. I love him.

Byph is perfect and he makes the cutest noises and he’s an awkward duckling and I love him. 

and a good fledgling mentor. It also seems like she’s a high contender for a future spot on the council considering how often she seems part of their meetings. 

And mentioning Aayla, it would be amiss not to also bring up her Master, Quinlan Vos:

Just like Cal he has the power of psychometry, making him very good at information gathering missions and undercover work. 

Jedi Master Depa Billaba 

(Great warrior, better mom)

The Jedi who went to war, suffered a terrible defeat, spent six months in coma and then went back to fight again because no matter how difficult the task, a Jedi always serve the greatest good. 

Member of the Council, Kanan Jarrus’ Master, Mace Windu’s Padawan and the only other Jedi who is proficient  in Vaapad. Just like Master Jaro Tapal, she gave her life for the Padawan to live. 

Also likes plants, know how detonate explosives safely and is Obi-Wan’s friend. 

The lightning? The breathtakingly gorgeous features? The thoughtful expression? The tasteful tunics, traditional and serious but elegant and comfy? Amazing. Adi is a super badass fighter and she’s fun and she banters with Anakin and she’s super caring with Eeth (they’re bff, fight me). She’s got a cousin in the order too. I’d have wanted her to train Katooni. 

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And my own Addition!

He is beauty, he is grace, he will kick you in the face.

Agen loses his Padawan on Geonosis and instead of letting despair and darkness consume him, he continues to fight for the Republic and dies trying to protect it from the Sith. His lightsaber changes colors because he is able to save his own Padawan’s kyber crystal and engineers his lightsaber to switch between the two crystals. When he goes to fight Palpatine, he uses his Padawan’s blue crystal. You can all cry now.

Also he cares so much about everyone and he always tries to help, even when it leads to disaster. He’s the happy-go-lucky, cuddly padawan every creche master would probably love to have (and in my head he’s Yoda’s favourite)

And while we’re at it, let’s add Elzar Mann because my boy is absolutely perfect in every way

Not only is he an absolutely amazing fighter, he managed to resist the pull of the dark side even as it threatened to swallow him. Also 1/3 of the epic Firebrands triad.

First, the other two Firebrands because they are collectively Jedi perfection incarnate along with Elzar. Where you find one, you will find the other two.

Avar Kriss. The Hero of Hetzal, Marshal of Starlight Beacon. She sees the Force as music, she has the unique ability to connect other Jedi through the song of the Force. She is one of the most well known Jedi of her era, thanks to her role in saving Hetzal from the Great Disaster. She is basically a Jedi goddess, I don’t make the rules.

Stellan Gios, High Council member. Patient teacher, renown for his dueling skills, and the face of the Jedi Order. Literally. Also, he is basically Elzar Mann’s husband/keeper (and Avar’s as well though they weren’t on the best of terms at the time.) Also, he is Space Jesus 1.0

Master Silandra Sho, aka Rooper’s mom. A kind and patient teacher to her Padawan Rooper Nitani, she carries a shield as she fervently believes that the role of the Jedi os to defend. She is absolute perfection.

Barriss Offee. Luminara’s padawan, and Ahsoka’s friend. A wonderful and sweet girl. Extremely smart and competent. She loved studying. Was daring and Selfless. A genuinely wonderful Jedi. She deserved better from the narrative and the story she was given, and I refuse to accept it.

HIM! Mr. SCREW the damned rules, I’m doing what’s right.

The man who should have trained Anakin.

And I mean…

Bastila Shan. Why? Cause she’s fun. A lil uptight in certain areas, very unsure of herself, but a great character in KOTOR nonetheless.

And of course. I’d be remiss if I didn’t include one of my favorites.

Yes, he’s the Broly of Star Wars. Yes Cal Kestis is, in many ways his better to me. Yes, he only turned to the light at the end of his game and his clone did the same. I do not care. Galen Marek will always have a place in my heart.

And of course, I can’t forget the OG WHO NOBODY HAS PUT ON HERE I THINK.

As much as people forget it, Tarre Vizsla IS a Jedi and he is AMAZING for managing to balance being a Jedi And a Mandalorian long enough to be Knighted!

And Cin Drallig!!!! The Battlemaster and Jedi Chief of Security of the Temple!!!! He had to be taken down by Anakin ‘Darth Vader’ Skywalker HIMSELF during Order 66!

-Is a Whipid, giving him a super cool and unique warthog-yeti design.

-Had lessons with Obi-Wan when they were padawans

-Fought alongside and learned from many of the great characters listed above, during the Yinchorri Crisis and the Clone Wars

-Never even came close to going to the dark side DESPITE feeling so hurt and enraged over the death of his master

-Is so cool that even 2003 General Grievous couldn’t kill him

-Is one of the first ever Star Wars characters to be introduced in a comic, but be adapted into animation.

-Not only survived Order 66, but even managed to rescue a group of younglings to escape with him, protecting them all the way through and continuing their training.

-Part of the reason he survived is because his officers respected him so much they literally commited treason by keeping his survival a secret from the Empire

-Was alive before the Phantom Menace and lived through the Clone Wars, Galactic Civi War, and was still alive long enough to talk sense into Cade Skywalker, a far descendant of Luke and Anakin’s, becoming one of the oldest Jedi to live in that era.

-A joke that his “Freakin’ Sweet Hat” was the source of his power became an internet meme way back in 2007, and it became so popular was even acknowledged as an in-universe rumor.

-And, his greatest feat of all, he is so powerful that he broke the fourth wall and literally killed one of his own artists! (Okay, that one is from a joke comic that was not meant to be taken seriously, was still funny though!)

He also says she was a Jedi nomad, rarely coming to Coruscant, instead “fighting for peace and freedom across the stars”

And she never needed to use a lightsaber!

She’s said to be very powerful in the Force, but gives up her life to help Obi Wan escape with a vital antidote

Dad Plo Koon and Mom Shaak Ti are a free-thinkers who love and care about the clones and are gentle and kind, unlike those OTHER cold unfeeling Jedi.

Hot Kit Fisto and Hot Aayla Secura are sexy and aren’t afraid to show it, unlike those OTHER prude celibate Jedi.

Quinlan Vos is rebellious and sassy and Does What He Wants, and the Council probably hates him for it but he doesn’t care because he’s such a badass who breaks the Code all the time.

Qui-Gon Jinn is a maverick who disobeys the Council and breaks the Code all the time to do the Right Thing instead of what the Council wanted, and is better than all those OTHER Jedi.

Depa Billaba is wise and loving, unlike those OTHER unloving Jedi.

Obi-Wan Kenobi is sassy and dramatic and flirty, unlike those OTHER stoic fun-hating Jedi.

'Cause he's too much of a badass for them to handle! Jokes aside, this is a subject I came across a few times. If I had to guess why?

1. "Mace was a jerk to Anakin!"

A lot of people see Mace as "always being antagonistic towards Anakin". When - if you look at the facts - that's not really true.

In Episode I, sure, Mace initially votes to not let Anakin into the Jedi Order. But shortly after, when it's put to a vote a second time, Yoda is the only one still not wanting Anakin to join.

Implying... that Mace was cool with it!

Hell, there's even a non-canon comic that covered this, with Windu actually arguing letting Anakin into the Jedi Order against Yoda because he thinks Anakin will bring Balance to the Force.

In the comic, he also suggests giving Qui-Gon’s lightsaber to Anakin.

In Episode II, he's actually defending Anakin. He and the Council are confident in Anakin's ability to have his first solo mission, praising Anakin's skills and - in a deleted scene - even reminding Obi-Wan to have more faith in his Padawan.

Finally, in Episode III, at a first glance, it looks like Mace is indeed written in a way that makes him antagonistic to Anakin (the same Anakin who turns to the Dark Side in the same film, so maybe his instincts weren't so off after all...)

A lot of people say "he says he doesn't trust Anakin!" and I've already covered what that's really about here:

TLDR: he says he doesn't trust Anakin when he's 1) on a secret mission 2) with Palpatine. Which makes sense, because Anakin isn't exactly subtle and he has an emotional attachment toward Palpatine who everyone can see has Anakin wrapped around his finger.

Also, if you wanna count it... the novelization of Revenge of the Sith justifies this by the unbearable stress he is under.

A stress due to the Clone War and his whole Order being drafted into being warriors when they're supposed to be diplomats, thus causing hundred if not friends of his comrades to die (and don't even get me started on how hard the loss of clone lives must weigh on him).

Jedi of the Republic: Mace Windu writer Matt Owens seems to echo this sentiment:

"The Jedi are like atomic bombs: they have so much power, but they really don’t want to use it. Mace is a masterful warrior who doesn’t relish fighting. Such use of his power goes against his code, but if he doesn’t use it, what will become of the Republic? As a member of the Jedi Council, he is under pressure because he is a leader. He’s forced into an uncomfortable situation where he is doing something he doesn’t entirely agree with for what he believes is ultimately the greater good. But he has to be sure of himself because he has so many others looking to him for direction." - Matt Owens, Star Wars Insider Special Edition, 2021

So it's not personal toward Anakin at all, but Anakin's whining and making it all about himself certainly isn't relieving the stress.

But hey, let's suppose he is a dick to Anakin in Episode III (he's not, but let's go along with it).

That's still one movie out of three. So if there's a change in attitude toward Anakin from Attack of the Clones to Revenge of the Sith...

... what spurred it?

What event would make Mace go from telling Obi-Wan to have faith in Anakin to having him be adversarial toward him?

It would've been nice to see that in an episode from The Clone Wars, which partially exists to fill in the gaps between AOTC and ROTS.

I mean, was there a time where, for example, Anakin prioritized saving Ahsoka over a bunch of people in a building, leaving Mace to do it himself?

Still, we get moments between them, and they're not all negative:

They have fun banter, at times, right? But then we hear Dave Filoni say that Mace had an issue with Anakin from day one.

"You see, Mace Windu’s the guy that tells little Anakin ‘no, he will not be trained’. You cut to Anakin and he’s like, ‘What??’ There’s this look on Anakin’s face like, 'I’m gonna remember that, you’re a negative, why are you doing that?’ So you have to look at it, the Jedi are - though they mean really well for Anakin – they’re always telling him 'no’. They’re always saying 'no, you’ll be expelled, you’ll have to leave the Jedi Order’. [...] So when you get to that point-- all these things I’m talking about get you to that point where Palpatine’s on the ground and Mace Windu has a lightsaber at his throat and he’s saying “he’s the traitor”. So Anakin’s there and he’s choosing between the guy that’s always told him “no” - that, while he respects him and [Mace’s] not a mentor, but he’s a fellow Jedi - and the father figure [of Palpatine] who holds the key possibly to immortality and you saving this person you love in Padmé." - Dave Filoni, Rebel Force Radio, Star Wars Fan Days III, 2009

So... I honestly don't know who to listen to.

If we're meant to see Mace as "negative toward Anakin" then the episodes failed to convey that properly.

If we're not, then why is Dave Filoni saying the above?

Same thing goes for the recently-published novel Brotherhood, written by Mike Chen.

Like, I want to give the novel the benefit of the doubt and say "yeah, but we're only seeing Mace through Anakin's eyes, so of course the opinion is biased and exaggerated." But then I hear Mike Chen say stuff like this...

"And, like, [Anakin’s] constantly pulled in every direction and the finally, when you go from that to Revenge of the Sith where it’s like “hey, my wife is going to die unless I listen to my cool uncle, who has never been mean to me” and then you have Mace Windu who’s like “TAKE A SEAT, SKYWALKER!” y’know, it’s like who’re you gonna listen to? It really makes sense, it feels very organic, from that perspective." - Mike Chen, Beyond the Blast Doors, 2021

... and it's clear my arguing "unreliable narration" would just be me expressing a headcanon.

2. "Mace represents everything wrong with the Jedi"

Then, another argument I heard once is that he embodies everything wrong with the Jedi Order. As said in this comment here:

Wow, that's a whole bunch of hate hurled in Mace's direction.

Also inaccurate.

The fact is, Mace is - like most Jedi - a space shaolin/buddhist monk. He's incredibly wise and spiritual as heck. But when it comes to it, he's a no-bullshit kind of guy, especially when considering the Jedi being forced into a war.

As Samuel L. Jackson put its:

"Mace is a voice of reason. He thinks before he speaks. He's pretty calculating, mostly even-tempered, and he's not to be trifled with. He knows that the war is coming and he has a pretty good idea who is behind it. [...] Mace Windu has known Obi-Wan Kenobi for a very long time. Mace was a contemporary of Qui-Gon Jinn. He understood his faults and admired his qualities and can see that Obi-Wan has taken on some of Qui-Gon's strongheadedness by wanting to train Anakin Skywalker." - Samuel L. Jackson, as reported in Star Wars Insider: The Skywalker Saga Collector’s Edition, 2021

That doesn't mean Mace isn't compassionate or empathetic. On the contrary:

Here’s Mace taking down a criminal who was using child soldiers.

See that teenager who shoots at him in the final panels? At the end of the comic, he tries to have her freed.

Then, here’s Mace going out of his way to save a Twi'lek girl.

And this post, right here, lists a ton of examples of Mace putting others before himself in The Clone Wars.

Oh, you wanna go Legends? Let's go Legends.

Here’s Mace before and after saving an old lady from thugs.

Here’s Mace being kind to a starving Sith worshipper who tried to start a mob to kill them, choosing talk and mercy over violence.

Here's Mace praising Anakin!

One time, Obi-Wan almost died on a mission. Mace stayed by Anakin's side the whole time Obi-Wan was undergoing surgery.

Here’s Mace calmly agreeing to disagree with a Jedi who thinks the Order shouldn’t have joined the Clone War.

Hell, here’s Mace being nice to animals.

Mace Windu embodies everything right about the Jedi Order.

3. Misc "arguments"...

A number of silly, small things I hear sometimes:

"Oh he called her 'citizen' what an asshole!" He refers to her the same way she referred to herself. Ahsoka's been gone for months she doesn't have context and letting her into the fold in that particular instant would spell disaster. It's not personal, Mace even gives her a respectful nod before the call ends.

Then there's:

"Mace never apologized for the way the Council treated Ahsoka!" Because Plo Koon apologized on behalf of the whole Council.

“You have OUR most humble Ahsoka.” Plural. He’s speaking for all of them, nobody contradicts him, thus showing they agree. It’s a 22-minute TCW episode, they’re not gonna have each Council member apologize individually. It’s common sense. I'd also hazard that the "this was your real trial" line lingered from the first draft of the script as originally, Ahsoka didn't leave the Order at the end of "The Wrong Jedi" and prolly got promoted to Jedi Knight.

Also:

"Mace Windu once believed himself to be the Chosen One, he was jealous of Anakin!"

Uh... I'm just gonna post this one again...

Then there's this one I read which just made me cringe:

*sigh*

Yeah that TOTALLY sounds like something Mace “You Can’t Kill The Zillo Beast 'Cause It’s An Innocent Living Creature” Windu would do.

Intentionally leading his Jedi brothers to slaughter is so typical Mace “Get The Men To Safety While I Risk My Life For Them” Windu behavior.

So, why do some fans not like him?

I honestly dunno.

The only other reason I can think of (like the other Jedi, he's not as flawed as Anakin, some see him and the Jedi as holier than thou, he's nothing like Luke Skywalker) is explored more in detail here:

@smhalltheurlsaretaken said:

I think a big 'problem' is that it's Samuel L. Jackson *specifically* playing him, and people have that idea of Sam L. Jackson in their minds that's very informed by his other roles and pretty antithetical to Mace... but this isn't a Tarantino movie or Marvel or snakes on a plane. It's Star Wars and he's a warrior monk.

The whole zen thing is pretty unprecedented in his career and I think people have been trying to reconcile their idea of a brash uncompromising rude man of action (and VERY American roles) w/ mace, and it doesn't work, and they interpret so much of what he does through that filter.

Sam L. Jackson doesn't usually play super empathetic or emotionally open guys? Well, now, Mace can't possibly understand Anakin's feelings or be interested in understanding them.

As if Sam isn't a spectacular actor who can pull off any role - even the zen head of a space order of warrior monks.

This point is one that stuck with me a couple of months ago from this post and I can't believe it never crossed my mind to include (considering how much time writing this took...!). But the above tags also go hand-in-hand with the following ones:

@bailorganamybeloved added:

Black men are always perceived as more aggressive, especially dark skinned black men. That's why nothing he does is taken in good faith by a majority of SW fans.

Totally. And if people project the "angry black man" stereotype on Samuel L. Jackson when he is clearly playing a warrior zen monk, when he doesn't say the word "motherfucker" once or is never nowhere near as loud/angry as his characters in other movies... there's the racism, right there.

@acewizardinspace said:

Yeah, lets be real here for a second we know why people don't like Mace in particular and it is racism. Plain and simple. And it is something we have to acknowledge so we can better stand against it. People are going to claim lots of reasons for disliking Mace. They might even believe that is the 'truth' behind their dislike. But in a racist society, we all have certain predispositions that we need to be aware of and constantly challenge so we can be better.

I don't believe he would be so hated if he was white. I just don't buy it at all. If he was white, he would be the guy who 'sensed something wrong with anakin' or 'did his best in a bad situation' or 'the bad ass who did what he had to do like any good action star'. But because he is an unapologetic black man with strong moral convictions who does not bend to the white protag's wishes...

And you can make a lot of arguments like "well he didn't have enough screen time to show his caring side so of course--" "So of course" what? Of course people jumped to the LEAST CHARITABLE view of his character? Yeah, buddy, that is racism.

And he got a lot more screen time in The Clone Wars to show what he is really like, to show he GOT ALONG with Anakin (because this is all some care about... clearly if you don't get along with Ani you are EVIL. ugh). Yet people nitpick that show to find reasons to hate him. Why? Do I need to say it? It is racism.

Mace consistently tried his best. He failed to save the galaxy because someone was plotting against the jedi for years THEN he was BETRAYED. He almost won if Anakin didn't stab someone who trusted him in the back for his own self interest. Mace didn't just fail. He almost had the bastard and I will be forever angry about that.

Great meta op. Sorry I went off in the tags. I just have Thoughts™ lol! When will this fandom stop hating the black man for not changing his whole life and culture to better suit 1 white fascist (who could leave whenever he wanted to)?

First of all: wonderfully put! And actually I'll add one more thing that just crossed my mind on the subject of "Anakin betraying him for his own self-interest." Another argument used a lot is:

"Mace had gone off the deep end during this scene, he had fallen to the Dark Side and was about to go against the Jedi way, Anakin trying to save Palpatine was the "Jedi" thing to do."

No. Just... no. Mainly because the creator himself makes it clear that Anakin's saying "he must stand trial" isn't about the Jedi Way or due process, he doesn't give two shits about all that stuff.

"You can see now, that it's very clear that [Anakin] he wants [Palpatine] to go on trial so he can pump him for information about how to get these powers." - Revenge of the Sith, Director’s Commentary, 2005

But also because every point Mace makes is accurate.

You wanna arrest Palpatine? He's got the courts and the Senate in his pocket, he can bribe OR Mind Trick (being the most powerful Sith in history) his way out of jail, and Mace doesn't even know this but with one phone call Sidious can just butcher the whole lot of the Jedi by uttering three words: "Execute Order 66".

He's not "gone off the deep end" he's making a rational cohesive argument.

Which brings us back to what @acewizardinspace in space was saying about how, if he was white, people wouldn't project the "he's turning evil" narrative and instead would probably be interpreting the scene how it was meant to be interpreted:

Okay.

1) Mace wasn’t being a dick. He reminded Ahsoka that - as a citizen (she called herself that just a minute ago) - she’s not entitled to know all of the council’s secrets. (Even if she was still a jedi, they don’t need to tell her everything)

Yes, he was a bit short with her, but he’s also dealing with possibly unseating the elected leader of the republic and with the headache that is Anakin Skywalker. Not to mention the war that’s killed thousands of jedi at this point.

2) Even if he hadn’t said anything, who knows if Ahsoka would have told them what she knew?

3) And what good would it have done? This scene is maybe 10 minutes before Anakin returns with the news that Palpatine is Sidious. Even if the jedi put together all the info and realized this, the most they could do was what they did anyway: send some masters to deal with it. Only now Anakin is still there, and we have no idea what he would do. Would he help them? Would he listen to Palpatine, as he did in canon? Most likely he would hesitate and stay out of the way until Mace “subdued” Palpatine, and then the exact same thing (or something similar) happens. And then the jedi die anyway.

“Master Windu called a former Padawan the C-Word”

“In what world would Master Windu call a padawan a cunt”

If you’ll all pardon my Americentrism for a moment, the amount, visibility, and flamboyance of Pride merch available in clothing, home goods, and comestibles stores is a DIRECT reflection of how safe it is to be queer in public in the United States.

How? Simple. Out groups aren’t profitable. If you’re not “acceptable” in the current social climate, big franchise businesses will not market to you. (Prime example - Look how quickly Target dropped all their Pride merch after having been wall-to-wall rainbows every June for almost a decade prior.)

Sure, capitalism sucks and being viewed as an exploitable marketing demographic isn’t a fun concept.

HOWEVER.

The grim truth is that being normalized enough to be considered profitable by corporations IS A GOOD THING in terms of the barometer of social acceptance.

Same thing goes for smaller businesses that throw kitschy Pride events or even just put a token rainbow flag in the window or somewhere inside the shop. That’s a level of acceptance that DID NOT EXIST thirty years ago, and I can tell you because I was there.

The fact that we can scoff and bitch about being an exploitable marketing demographic nowadays means we have made GIGANTIC strides since the 1990s. It also speaks to the fact that the drive and the conversation surrounding LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance are continuing. And getting louder.

You can be cynical about it if you want. But I will take a store that puts out lip-service rainbow merch over a world that pretends we don’t exist any day of the week. Because that will always mean something.

Yet, when they start being included, they are like “well, that’s just capitalism taking advantage of us, so it doesn’t count.” Like, you can’t use your EXCLUSION from something as evidence of general societal marginalization and then claim that once you’ve started to be included, it is politically meaningless. You don’t really get to have it both ways. That’s moving the political goal posts.

I get that we shouldn’t consider Target pride merchandise as like the pinnacle of queer politics or even the pinnacle of queer inclusion. I get that inclusion in capitalist intuitions is a very ambivalent form of social progress. But the truth is, capitalism is a big part of what creates our social reality right now (unfortunately).

Capitalism makes TV shows, and movies, and books, and ads, and greeting cards, and toys, and clothing, and, and…

When every single aspect of commercial social reality excludes queerness, that DOES create a real sense of social alienation. I don’t love that capitalism is responsible for creating so much of our collective social reality. But granting that it does, I think we’re forced to accept that our inclusion in it IS politically and socially important.

I’m not polyamorous, but I am a part of the LGBTQ+ community. I used to think polyamory wasn’t lgbtq+. But I was wrong. Here are some things you might not know.

In many companies, you’ll find pride initiatives and they’ll welcome people from across the spectrum.

But if they find out a married employee has another SO, even if it’s an open polyamorous relationship, they can fire that employee. Even companies with non-discriminatory policies.

Can you imagine coming out to a family that accepts you for being bi/gay/ whatever, but won’t accept that you’re polyamorous?

Can you imagine seeking a community and being shunned by the people who preach acceptance?

Can you imagine being shunned by people in every community?

Can you imagine everyone assuming you just want sex rather than a fulfilling relationship with more than one person?

Can you imagine not being able to date your partner without someone assuming you’re cheating? And them assigning you a moral failing that you didn’t earn?

Poly is like a sexuality, to my limited knowledge. For instance, I couldn’t choose to be poly because i’m just not. But you don’t choose who you fall in love with. And some people fall in love more than once.

Nigerian Pride 🏳️‍🌈🇳🇬