Since I don't wanna derail that excellent post about Cho, not even in the tags, there's one point I wanna talk about: how fans allow Harry(and Rom) be all moody and broody. Oh how I wish that were true, if there's a single most misunderstood protagonist it's Harry, and if there's single most disliked best friend character then it's Ron. Like the amount of fans calling Harry whiny is staggering honestly(especially in ootp), and well as for Ron, well the existence of Ron The Death Eater fanfic trope speaks for itself. Honestly so much of HP fandom just straight up dislikes its charactersāhence all the fanon stuffā, except for villains and antagonists(well sans Umbridge, she's universaly disliked, though of course part of how she's disliked is very much steeped in misogyny; like no, she's not worse than Voldemort, and people who truly think that are...really something), those characters are often very well liked, even the ones who do have very dedicated hatersālike Snape for example, he's both very liked and very disliked in fandom, and funnily enough many from both sides very much don't understand his character, but that's a whole 'nother topic.
(It's really sad, Cho's story arc, and by extension her and Harry's arc, like they were always kinda doomed to fail. They both liked eachother, but were dealing with way too much for two teens, and at the end of the day, they just didn't fit. Frankly I don't think they had much in common to begin with; Harry had a crush on her from afar, which meant he didn't know her much so he had a certain image of her, and it seems she too liked him from afar, and in ootp he was the only person who she thought would understand her, and like thing is Harry did understand what she was going through, he just didn't know how to deal with his own trauma let alone deal with her own struggles, plus they both have different approach to griefāhe shuts down, and she wants to talk about it, not a good combo. Sorry this kinda got away from me lol, oh but I could talk about Harry and Cho for hours.)
I don't have much to add to this; I agree with all of it, every word. Fandom is ridiculous and generally speaking doesn't make a good argument for HP "fans" being all that literate. I think a ton of people read the books once, maybe watch the movies a few times, and then just adopt all their opinions from what's common in fandom without giving it any further thought, although they'll fight to the death, insisting their right about their bullshit.
Not that I'm bitter. XD
I love your observations about Harry and Cho as a couple and I was thinking the exact same things during my recent listen to OotP. They don't have anything to talk about, they have no chemistry. They just don't work as a couple. And you're spot on about their different ways of grieving an different emotional needs at that point.
The way that so much of HP fandom latches onto the baddies, many of whom are explicitly bigots, while simultaneously demonising Harry and Ron, fascinates me, as the same people are so often kind of hysterically left wing and anti-bigotry in their vocal politics. There's a hell of a lot of confusion there.






















