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If you want to be married, what do you want to do with your last name?
I'm married - I have my partner's last name
I'm married - my partner has my last name
I'm married - I have a hypenated/combined last name
I'm married - I didn't change my last name
I want to be married - I'll probably have my partner's last name
I want to be married - my partner'll probably take my last name
I want to be married - I'll probably have a hypenated/combined last name
I want to be married - I probably won't change my last name
I don't want to get married
My marriage and or last name situation is more complicated
Remaining time: 3 days 21 hours
No judgement for anyone's choice! I'm just curious what folks think/have done in these situations. If you've been married multiple times, answer for your most recent/current one, or what you would do if you got married again.
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if you're looking for something to read that discusses the topics i mentioned in the chapter on malaysia from the ussr (until i can write down the name of it lol) i recommend looking for the other book i quoted "racism & racial discrimination in malaysia" by kua kia soong, it's a more recently published book so it should be easier to find a copy, i bought mine in malaysia so i know it can be found locally & the author is malaysian!
the author talks about the stoking of racism in malaysia as a colonial policy that the local bourgeoisie have continued to carry out post-independence because it benefits malaysian capitalism and imperialism as a world system, talks about how ketuanan melayu / malay nationalism has not improved the living conditions of the vast majority of malays and kept them in poverty and how much work malay capitalists have put into funneling any kind of malay class consciousness into reactionary ethno-nationalism to secure their own positions, the deep bonds our bourgeoisie have with foreign capital and how that has harmed working class malaysians, the scapegoating of indian and chinese working class malaysians and the opportunist capitalists among us, the split between malaysia and singapore being a failure to reconcile the contradictions of race and class in the region, the racism against migrant workers and refugees, etc. it's the first book i read about malaysia that made me feel less insane lol
me, 2 weeks into playing ffxiv: i dont respect any of these mfs whose names i cant even remember. i will probably uninstall later when i get bored
me, half a year into ffxiv: ok so the botanist questline in which the farmers at camp cloudtop get accused of heresy for infiltrating a non native crop into the country was PROBABLY a cover for house dzemael wanting to cause further stress on house haillenarte bc by destabilizing them, (the weakest link) this means house fortemps (powerhouse but kind of against the holy sees policies) will also be weakened by default. and fortemps controls the literal entry point to ishgard. its dangerous if they ever rebeled or revolted bc that can cut off ishgard from the rest of the continent. so it makes sense that the church would want them to have less influence or power overall, using house dzemael to do so bc we later know that house dzemael were the ones that tipped the fucking church abt the fucking vegetables. and house dzemael is the only house with active members that belong to the heaven's ward (grinnaux, violent guy whose murders were covered with coin & paulcrain, formerly of house fortemps. coincidentally the mfs who also arrest alphinaud and tataru of heresy)
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for those who want to know the url of the biphobe, it's @/nights-at-crystarium
after his blantant biphobia he has chosen to ignore people who have called him out and also has the audacity to act as a victim as if he is not the one who is outright hostile to bi folks. he also thinks if he grows big enough, his biphobia will be more acceptable.
For those who haven't seen the original exchange, here's the dogwater take from anon that kicked us off:
hApPy pRiDe 🏳️🌈😚 Here's to getting upset that other queers might imagine a fictional character with no established canon sexuality to be interested in more than just one gender.
Oh, and why not sprinkle some caaaaasual racism into it! Because fans "in Japan (and maybe other places idk)" might not recognize the same shitty gender-normative stereotypes as you. So true. We the Asians should def get a pass for homophobia because our cultures are just Like That™ or whatever the fuck.
Brother. Do you know any damn thing about queerness outside of North America? Yes, Japan (and maybe other places idk) has the same/similar cultural tells for queerness because (1) Western esp American media is a major influence on global culture, and (2) shitty gendernormative and sexist beliefs are worldwide and upheld to varying levels of severity.
Holy fuck. I know people of color don't exist in English dialogues about queerness except as window dressing, but please consider perspectives outside your own. Especially during a month that celebrates the diverse spectrum of queerness.
Anyway, here's the very questionable response NAC posted and is now crashing out over:
Even if they could relate to the anon's sentiments, their response is so fucking entitled and whiny. HEY, I'M THE VICTIM. I'M BEING OPPRESSED. WHAT DO YOU MEEEEAAAAN I'M BEING INSENSITIVE TO BI/PAN/OMNISEXUAL PEOPLE YOU'RE TAKING MY WORDS IN BAD FAITH.
Like, did you all know we can have very real conversations about gay erasure without throwing other people under the bus over personal player perceptions of a fictional character's sexuality? Mind blown.
sorry to keep harping on about this but this is what J thinks of queer creators in the community. what do we think he thinks counts as a queer creator. let's take a guess
The best man’s tuxedo had been tailored to be loose. Boxy. No tapering to give any suggestion of slenderness, sexuality. It was a bit of a joke, you see, giving a man’s outfit to this best friend of the groom. “Best man.” Clever fun to make those invited chuckle, and what of it that the bridesmaid was also fitted in a similar outfit. A matching pair. No sign of the underlying reason, the paranoia of a woman who feared any other upstage her. Ah, there’s the glare directed at me now. My first greeting from the jealous witch.
Jonathan’s brother-in-law played the role of the videographer. Delighted by my ensemble, he wasted precious minutes recording the dance of mirror-polished shoes, the flash of ankle high sport socks I chose with humour. It meant a hurried change in video cards during the main highlight of the ceremony.
Ask me if I felt bad.
Later, as the bride fussed over her dress while the photographer set up, I spoke to the bridesmaid about the weather. Was she aware of the drama? If she was, she was smart enough not to mention it. Jonathan came hurrying over. His wife, you see, she wondered what we had been talking about.
The photographer played his part, and once the bride had retreated out of sight, entreated me to pose for him. He adored my look. Perhaps he loved the genderplay. Marlene Dietrich in Morocco. I could see the way he came alive as he took his shots because I knew the same creative thirst.
The tuxedo was likely the most masculine outfit I have ever worn. People smiled and cooed and I was the belle of the ball despite it all. I loved it. Oh, the smiles were nice, of course they were. But the outfit itself was what I truly loved. As long as I can remember, dresses were only a nuisance. I hated lace and pastels and wished nylons to hell. Later, I began to enjoy some of the act of dressing up. But it was like play. Dresses were never me. I longed for jeans, t-shirts, thick leather belts, jackets with a lot of buttons and zippers. Deep dark colours, not bright.
Once upon a time, such preference would have been seen as abnormal. Now, it’s nothing at all. I can be comfortable, I can feel like myself and not someone wearing a costume. My rebellion is celebrated, if it's even noticed at all, while others pay in blood for the exact same fucking freedom—
Because I’m a woman wearing men’s clothing and not a man in women’s.
[Author's Note: The photograph above was taken in 2002. More than twenty years later, a woman wearing a tuxedo is still a celebrated fashion statement, while a man in a dress continues to be a target for violence.]
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i appreciate this, but in a world where your gay brothers and sisters are being actively punished if not outright killed for having sex—in a fascist society that is trying to make gay sex a crime and has successfully done so in the past, in ways that still harm us today—we have GOT to be there for gay sex and the people having it. it doesn’t make you any less gay not to have sex, but that’s not something bigots are going to take into account, and if they do, it only stands to make you “one of the good ones” and pit you against your siblings and loved ones. whether someone personally wants sex or not, i think we have a responsibility to defend the people who do just as much as the people who don’t.
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Anita Sarkeesian, feminist who interpreted media under a feminist lens. She did a series about video games and she was the subject of targeted harassment. That was the start of gamergate
Minor correction, the start of gamergate was based around a different reporter, Zoe Quinn, but they were both absolutely violently threatened over their involvement in video game criticism and development. A hate campaign was started by Quinn's ex-boyfriend when he wrote a post falsely accusing them of dating video game journalists in order to receive positive reviews on their own game, Depression Quest, which led other bad actors to accuse all women in the industry (Zoe identified as female at the time) of perceived sexual immorality. Anita Sarkeesian's brilliant Youtube series Tropes vs Women in Video Games (which everyone should watch, right now) sparked a particular nerve for criticizing popular games of killing and/or victimizing any important female character (there is a CHILLING bit that borders on ludicrous where she describes the plots of a seemingly endless parades of games as "In [title], [male player character's] wife dies, and you then have to rescue [his] daughter."). That series did actually make a huge change in the industry, especially when touted by progressive legacy developers like Tim Schafer (Monkey Island, Psychonauts), who went on to expand hiring in his company to front women and minority voices, but the shift didn't really show for a long time and echoes of the sexism that plagues the industry at its core are still rampant.
In all seriousness, if you live in the US and you aren't familiar with the misogynistic harassment these people in the game industry faced during Gamergate, you need to watch this series right now.
This was the beggining of the current form of the US fascist movement and it underpins the entire thing about it to this day. If you live in the US and Gamergate isn't familiar to you, you're missing critical history to understanding US fascism. I'm not joking even a little bit here, you will understand modern United States fascism so much better if you are familiar with Gamergate.
Not an exaggeration. Gamergate led directly to the redpill/incel movement, which white supremacists exploited and colonized. Not to say that most of the white men in those movements weren't already racist to some extent, but that wasn't an active part of their politics until white supremacist recruiters came along and convinced them that the women ruining their videogames were part of the conspiracy to destroy the white race.
That's a very brief summary but you can go back step by step over the past decade and see how they did it.
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