I know it's been said a billion times and we'll probably say it a billion more but it always bares repeating because it just keeps fucking happening.
If your "allyship" of trans people is contingent upon their behavior, you are not an ally. Misgendering someone as a "punishment" for something they did tells every trans person you talk to that you do not see us as the gender we identify as. You are admitting you only humor us so long as we behave to your standards. If you want to be an actual ally, you still have to gender people correctly and use the correct pronouns even if they are an objectively awful person. Do better.
This is transfeminism!






















