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No proship/comship/darkfic/neutral/anti-anti/anything like that. It's absolutely not allowed or tolerated, I don't want those circles anywhere near me, I will block any on sight

Don't use this platform to hate or harass. Don't namedrop anyone you don't like, don't try to hurt anyone's feelings, and especially don't use the inbox to spread bullying or harassment

No transphobes/racists/homophobes/TERFs/exclusionists either. If you're in any way against minorities, leave. No radqueers, zoos, or RPF either.

Vents and gushing are 110% allowed, along with anon signoffs!

Please keep F/O names out of the confessions! This is to benefit non-sharers and prevent them from feeling uncomfortable. Nicknames, emoji stand-ins, or anything else like that are allowed though!

Feel free to ask me any questions or correct me on anything I may mess up on! I'll try my best to be as careful as possible with confessions, but don't be afraid to inform me of any harmful content that might get it

The confessions posted are not automatically my views, or necessarily things that I personally am in agreement on. I try to be as objective as possible and filter out content appropriately, but the confessions that do get posted are wholly the view of the senders

I'd prefer if words like "simp" or other examples of appropriated AAVE not be used in confessions, largely because of how the community has massively misused them appropriated the terms

With all that said, please feel free to come in and confess to your heart's content whatever may be on your mind as a selfshipper :D

Important notice: as of recent I've allowed NSFW/suggestive asks to be submitted on this blog. They will be tagged appropriately, however I strongly implore minors to stay away from those posts at all costs, or even refrain from interacting in general if it makes you uncomfortable. Again, they will be tagged, but I'm very strict about minor safety and this needs to be considered before following and interacting

(Also I want to clarify that the siblings are NOT TOGETHER. I DO NOT MEAN THIS IN THE SENSE THAT I SHIP THE SIBLINGS TOGETHER FOR THE LOVE OF GOD I'm only shipping them with ME. I shouldn't have to specify but I feel the need to because I want to be as clear as possible so there isn't any kind of misunderstanding here 😭)

Not only that, she's not so popular...there's like....barely any doubles.

And if there are, all our ships are canon, because, again, each story she's in is basically an alternative version of her.....and all are canon in the same universe!! So we're all just shipping with a different character. SO ALL OUR SHIPS ARE CANON!! Because different headcanons and interpretations... one simply can't be non sharing of her I fear, that's basically impossible

Aaaaa I hope I explained it clearly it's so messy but I just needed to say it out loud I like talking about her

Hmmmm self shipper joy, have a good day my fellow weirdos (in a very positive way) 🫂

the first example that comes to mind is the lolcow-esque culture on there and how people froth at the mouth at the chance to be cruel, harass and cyberbully you if you do something they deem “problematic” (which can be as simple as expressing discomfort with doubles) like it genuinely disturbs me how so many people crawl out of the woodworks to be evil toward people. obviously i’m not going to name drop but there’s a literal thirteen year old who, by his own admission, is mentally unwell and has been hospitalised, and instead of trying to help or showing sympathy or concern, they literally just troll and hate and flood his comments with vile shit. and they justify it as “he’s problematic” when really he’s just showing symptoms of being an already mentally ill young person who is under intense online scrutiny and is constantly being hounded by virulent, transphobic trolls who delight in being wicked to him.

that and self ship / oshi culture is blended together so if you don’t have a shrine or thousands worth of merchandise then some people genuinely think that you’re “not a real fan” or “don’t really love your f/o” and there’s an intense push of people trying to be “THE ___ yume” or “___ number one fan!” that part of the community is incredibly competitive. and yeah, i know that’s the whole point of oshi culture, but not every self shipper is also part of oshikatsu stuff, so to see people genuinely think that if you don’t have a massive dedicated shrine and lots of merchandise then you don’t really love / aren’t dedicated to your f/o is really hurtful to people who don’t have the money to invest in stuff like that.

and there’s so many pointless rules and bad takes if you even breathe the wrong way people will jump you. if you’re a minor you can’t have a crush on an adult character, that’s weird (no it doesn’t matter to them if you make your sona the same age.) if you’re a minor you can’t have a crush on a character who’s the same age as you, that’s weird. you can’t selfship if you have an irl partner, that’s cheating. you have to ask your irl partner for permission to like a character. just genuinely the worst takes you’ve ever seen in your life.

(and the nonsharing discourse is something else entirely so i won’t even get into that. it’s about as bad as you’re imagining.)

-🖍

Make that f/o MLM‼️

Make that f/o WLW‼️

Make that f/o bi, pan, omni, poly, etc‼️

Make that f/o transfem‼️

Make that f/o transmasc‼️

Make that f/o nonbinary, demigender, genderfluid, agender, etc‼️

Make that f/o ace/ace-spec‼️

Make that f/o aro/aro-spec‼️

T4t selfships, queerplatonic selfships, ace but not aro selfships, aro but not ace selfships, poly selfships, aplatonic selfships, I WANNA SEE THEM ALL

My main f/o is from this fandom I've put my family in and he's kinda the only character I've been monogamous with (as in not shipping with other characters from that source) because usually I'm a sucker for polycules with my f/os

Now, I've been feeling very conflicted about still having feelings for the two previous characters for months because I don't wanna interact with their source but I feel like I never stopped loving them

So now I decided to put them in my main f/o's source and have a polycule with them and I'm so happy I did that because not only do I get to interact with them again but my husband also gets more love which is awesome for him!!

even if i am nonsharing with them i don't mind doubles interacting as long as you don't talk to me about it. if it shows up on my dash, that's fine. you didn't force it to show up on my dash. i can handle it. but dude.

having friends of mine confess that they're literally SCARED of even posting abt their selfships because of me hurts so fucking bad man.

-🌀🎭 (hope that's not taken)

-🧢🐻 (if this combo isn't taken already)

And worst, you can't really openly hate it without being called a snowflake cause "Bestie, it's a series full of murderers, their relationship being toxic is the least of anyone's worries".

Ughhhhhhhhhhhh