#safeshipping

Your F/O(s) will always love you! even when you don’t really love yourself at the moment..

When you think horribly of yourself, or that you don’t deserve their love, your F/O(s) won’t ever stop loving you— they’ll do everything in their power to prove your thoughts wrong!

When you spiral, they’ll be there with you until you feel better about yourself again. Like a lighthouse, they’ll guide you back to shore. <3

The selfshippers who can't tell anyone about their f/os.

The selfshippers who cannot buy merch from their f/os and are only content to watch from afar.

The selfshippers who keep their relationship with their f/o a secret, for various reasons.

The selfshippers who want to talk about their f/o constantly but can't, they have no one to talk to, the people around them wouldn't understand.

The selfshippers who want to shout at the void how in love they are but their situation won't let them.

The silent selfshippers but with a beautiful lore with their f/os in their minds and hearts.

Getting home after a long day or just being able to let yourself wind down and enjoy a calm afternoon with your f/o… One thing's for sure in both of these situations: you feel right at home in their arms.

It started off with you laying together, deciding to get cozied up while catching up with you favorite show, of doing a quick rewatch of some of your favorite movies, but the way they kept on rubbing your back and lovingly placing kisses to the top of your head just make everything feel so warm and relaxing.

You couldn't help but nod off in their arms, and they didn't mind whatsoever! In fact, getting to see you this at ease while being close to them makes their heart feel soft and warm, they just want to make sure you're always able to feel this safe and loved when they're around.

If they need to get up, they'll wait it off for as long as possible, your rest is their number one priority right now, besides… You just look so cute! How could they ever get themselves to bother you? It'd be like taking a cat off your lap while they're napping, outrageous!

The show/movie quickly becomes background noise to them, getting to hear your steady breathing and watching your cute expressions is far more fascinating to your f/o! It makes them wonder what you're dreaming about… They'll make sure to ask about it later.

Once you manage to wake yourself up, they'll hold on to you just a bit tighter, they want to stay as close to you as possible! They ask how you've slept in between peppering kisses to your face, as well as cooing about how adorable you looked.

As you ramble on about your dreams or how well rested you feel, they can't help but let their smile grow wider and wider. They can't wait to spend the rest of your lives together, with many more calm times like this.

Selfshippers who ship solely for fun and don't take it serious are awesome and valid and epic

Selfshippers who genuinely believe they're in a relationship with their F/O(s) and take it serious are awesome and valid and epic

Both of these are true

Peace and loves

I’ve been looking for a smaller, slightly simpler selfship template to fill out, but none of them really fit the bill. So I made my own! Completely free to use as long as you leave in the credit :] No need to tag me or add credit in your tags or anything, just keep my little credit at the bottom and you’re free to share and use it til your heart’s content!

[“Pro/com/dark”ship please DNI. Don’t steal my template, either. If you do, you openly admit to being unoriginal and predatory]

My examples under the cut :3