To my fellow disabled selfshippers: You deserve love
♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) helping you keep up with your mobility aids
♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) tracking when you next need to take your meds
♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) taking care of you on your lowest days, when flare-ups feel like they'll never end or you can't get out of bed
You're not "hard to love", "a bother", or anything like that. They love you, romantically or otherwise. They want to see you comfortable and happy. You don't have to be miserable all the time. You can make cute scenarios that include your disability, add it into your sona's lore, and think of ways they'd lift your spirits or stand up for you. They love you, not in spite of your disability, but because it's part of you
This especially applies to selfshippers with conditions society likes to ignore. NPD, ASDP, schizophrenia-spec disorders— ones so bad you need constant bedrest, aids, or caretaking. They'll never judge you for any of it. They'll make accommodations for you anytime. They want you to feel loved
You deserve to feel loved
I love you /p

















