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#hockey (you’ll never guess what this one is for!

#forehead kisses for everyone i’m fond of hope you’re doing well!#babycat #if the men find out we can shapeshift they’ll tell the church #power of agency; agent of what #teeth do not shine in the absence of light #hockey #a very specific aesthetic #i’ll tell you stories bruised and blue / of drum machines and landslides #madman reese and the band #i want us both to eat well #a real good example of a dude i thought i was attracted to before i realized i just wanted That Gender as part of the arsenal #construction zone: human in progress #every day is a new day to cry over how beautiful laura jane grace is #i store pieces of my psychological damage in various characters like horcruxes #my zach tag should just be i am smitten. he’s not wife or gf material i just have a soft sunbeam cotton candy color twitterpated crush #a cathedral of deadbolts &c #praxis praxis praxis #my final boss form #do not ask me who i am and do not ask me to remain the same #that which resembles the grave but isn’t #the romance of it all #hyperreal post scarcity dragonhearted singularity #please pardon our sillage #the sea hates a coward #down on the pharm #bitches love boundaries (it’s me i’m bitches)#a former theater kid capricorn with great hair a dramatique homosexual and a wry tired bisexual with expressive eyebrows walk into a bar #that lucifer line abt the sunsets you old bastard &c #dani and i both waging our quiet little wars on god (c’mon out fucker we just wanna talk)

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prokopetz

"You can't ship those characters because they have a problematic height gap" well, strictly speaking we can't ship one of them. The other is well within the size and weight limits of most domestic parcel couriers.

#i’m in this post and i don’t like it #🧁

seemsdykely

icu, eyeball throbbing and neck stiffness. you stop that.

seemsdykely

having a body is so tiring lol

#maybe it’s ’having a body with a condition’ but this is the only one i’ve ever had so 🤷#vision changes are happening i’m fucked i fear

icu, eyeball throbbing and neck stiffness. you stop that.

#and four four four for my headaches

soundcarvings

How do you learn to stand up for yourself and advocate for yourself?

I think self advocacy (with respect and tact) just comes with age. If i respect the person across from me, and simultaneously myself, then i have to assume in good faith that they can handle my truth. And that I can handle my truth, as well as the possibility of it being taken the wrong way. I don’t give anyone the power to destabilize my life. I have autonomy over my self expression, and I operate from a place of assuming other people do too. Even if they don’t, my ability to operate from this foundation gives them permission to do so too. My top values are integrity and sincerity. This builds trust with people.

#praxis praxis praxis

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exhaled-spirals

« In all imaginative writing sympathy for the subject is necessary not because it is the politically correct or morally decent posture to adopt but because an absence of sympathy shuts down the mind: engagement fails, the flow of association dries up, and the work narrows. What I mean by sympathy is simply that level of empathic understanding that endows the subject with dimension. The empathy that allows us, the readers, to see the "other" as the other might see him or herself is the empathy that provides movement in the writing.

When someone writes a Mommie Dearest memoir - where the narrator is presented as an innocent and the subject as a monster - the work fails because the situation remains static. For the drama to deepen, we must see the loneliness of the monster and the cunning of the innocent. Above all, it is the narrator who must complicate in order that the subject be given life. »

― Vivian Gornick, The Situation and the Story: The Art of Personal Narrative

#[strange laughter]

sonimage1965

Joel Meyerowitz

Provincetown, USA（1977）

altcomics

David Hockney

jess-abides

This is it, this is the one

a-bowl-of-soup

"i asked chat gpt-"

well I asked the Glow Cloud (all hail) and it emitted a low whistleing and dropped a lizard on my head.

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hthrrloooo

#this sweet baby!!#i love cats

polls-by-fip

im curious about a specific generational divide

regardless of you being queer or not, did your parents ever gave you the "if you turn out to be gay it would be fine" talk, before you ever had the chance to say anything on your own about that?

gen z, yes

gen z, no

millenial, yes

millenial, no

gen x, yes

gen X, no

baby boomer, yes

baby boomer, no

Remaining time: 4 days 6 hours

because it happened to me and im wondering if this was a product of the ongoing cultural change around gay issues. before i ever had the chance to say to my parents "i am this" my mom was already sitting me aside to tell me "if there is anything you want to tell me, i want you to know ill accept you no matter what"

#i was specifically told the opposite of this regularly #i assume partially because i never passed very well #but also i don’t think what all is up w. my family of origin can be blamed solely on their generation lol

nosferaboo

New normal for me ✨🖤

Something I was really vulnerable about was becoming an ambulatory cane user. I think it really came from a place of accepting that it is a part of my life now and I will have a new normal moving forward. I won’t always have to use it. But between my hyper mobility issues and blackouts from dysautonomia it’s a safety measure that I am going to take.

disabilityaidpositivity

Certified mobility aid positivity post!

[ID: A person with white face makeup, black lips, and sharp black eyeliner, bald, and wearing elf-like prosthetic ears. They are dressed in a dramatic black and white gothic outfit with a black corset belt, a voluminous black skirt, and a black and white vertically striped blouse. They hold one side of their skirt out with one hand and a black cane in the other. The background is comprised of tall modern buildings, trees, and a cloudy sky. /end ID]

#a very specific aesthetic

divorcedwife

studying history is like. here's to another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be. thank you women who fight for abortion and contraception and independance from men for another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be

tehamelie

To another day of not waking up pregnant or turned into a giant cockroach

divorcedwife

so many perils out there…

#love being sterile best birthday gift i ever got myself

sonimage1965

Douglas Trumbull and the exquisite Tyrell Building model for Blade Runner (1982).

#i want more life fucker

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eroscestlavie

Honestly making new friends in my late 20s early 30s has in some ways been indistinguishable from dating except the courtship period is not romantic or sexual. I think people need to revisit the art of flirting in a friend way…like presenting your best self to a person and genuinely glowing when they return the gesture. And letting people influence and change you and getting excited when you have a chance to talk to them. That’s what makes getting to know someone fun in the first place…everyone in those advice threads about how to befriend people is basically describing how to have Coworkers not friends. “Go to a bar and hang out and start a conversation” you can do this but you have to follow up the first encounter with putting your best foot forward instead of just listlessly hoping for the social approval of the other party!!!!

#yeah!!!

urgetocreate

Jeremy Miranda (American), Day Light Savings, 2022, Acrylic on board

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