Festivals are not for the faint-hearted. Although I havenât been to many and ones Iâve been too were only a day long, they are not easy. You have to push through crowds, deal with rude people and stand on your feet for hours with the hopes of a catching a good view of your favorite bands. It sounds like a lot of work but is it worth it? Completely.
This past weekend, I headed up to Jacksonville for a festival that my friends and I had been anticipating for many months: The Big Ticket Fest.
Getting early to Metropolitan park, there were already huge crowds formed waiting to get inside of the park. There were strange bag regulations and as my friend and I came back from putting her bag in the car, I noticed crowds were flooding in so obviously we shifted our way inside them to enter quicker than other people waiting in line. Yes, Iâm that asshole but no one noticed anyway.
Entering about an hour earlier allowed us to scope the area and plan out our day. Waiting for my friends, I relaxed in the cold weather while shazaming songs that X 102.9, the radio station hosting the event, put on.
As my friends finally arrived, one decided to go her own way and endure the tough journey of staying front row for 10 hours in the main stage without foodâŚ.or her respirator (read on about that.)
Waiting at the Jagermeister stage, the announcer finally introduced Borns. I had checked Borns out only a few days before and wasnât sure of how he would sound because usually people with high vocal ranges donât sound as great in person. He proved me wrong.
Borns had a graceful air to him as he sang and swung around stage with his microphone and played poppy guitar riffs. There was something about him that reminded me of Michael Jackson. Â Possibly his jawline or the way he smirked as he sang and looked at crowds but it had everyone around me swooned as they raised their hands to sing every chorus along with him. His band, which included a girl drummer (yeah, I did have to mention it haha) complimented him so well dancing just as much as he would and grooving throughout all the songs.
A young couple next to me along with others had a âmysterious fogâ , as Borns put it, around them which had them dancing in ways Iâd never expect out of a indie pop performance. Whether grooving to âPast Livesâ or finishing his set with âElectric Loveâ, Borns kept the crowd singing along (whether they knew the words or not) as if he were our groovy 80s pop gospel choir director. Â
Ending his performance, we were all sad that he had to go because it didnât seem like it was enough time (which is normal considering itâs a festival). Loitering around for three hours, we waited for Pvris by the lawn.
Considering Iâm 5-feet-tall, concerts are usually tough when Iâm in the back. Their lead singer had a beautiful voice which kind of reminded me of  Hayley Williams from Paramore. There was another couple in front of me which motivated me to keep on dancing to Pvrisâ dark, electronic rock (a genre I didnât think to ever be danceable).
The day sort of drifted through until we collectively decided to go back into the crowds to hand my friend her respirator. People wouldn't budge...even when we showed them it and everyone left but me. Staying there while another performance was going on in the other stage was hard but then became easy when The Neighborhood took the stage.
Ever since I can remember, I never really liked this band and thought it was beach hipster bullshit. But when they took the stage, I was changed. Well, sort of. There was something about Jesse Rutherford, their lead singer, which I liked in his stage presence and the way he carelessly meandered through the stage yet still sounded so good along with the electronic guitars and sort of bounce the drummers gave the crowd. Although I tried throughout, I was never able to move forward much except when people felt bad that they wouldn't let me see the stage. Still, the bandâs music kept me dancing and sort of in a trance where I forgot that I was midst of kids drinking energy drinks for their first time and annoying girls who kept dissing everyone on stage instead of enjoying their time there.
No matter what song they played, they had changed my thoughts on them which may have never happened unless I sticked around and now, I canât get enough of âDaddy Issuesâ and  âCry Babyâ.
After their performance, I attempted going forward one last time and no had luck. Being around squads made me miss my own so I went back and found them lying in the grass as the sun was starting to set.
We started to get inside the crowds as the announcer came out and I couldnât see much except lights which came out everywhere on stage and heard a super peppy voice that slurred every last word it spoke. Walk The Moon had come out and drove everyone wild. People around me, including myself, couldnât stop jumping and hopping catching a view of them as they danced their asses off on stage while singing and playing their instruments. The girl behind me never stopped to catch a breath of air as she sang every lyric word for word except to tell her friends to not judge her because sheâs a neurosurgeon in the daytime and can do whatever she wants.
As they led one song to another, lead singer Nicholas Petricca, preached to crowds like if he were a youth pastor, telling everyone to be there for one another and love each other no matter what and began to sing âDifferent Colorsâ as the stage lit up like a rainbow. I couldnât help but jump like a maniac and sing along with my friends when all of a sudden after only about six songs, their performance was done. It felt way too short and got me way too hyped in a short span of time. It was the greatest tease of the night because I knew right after that Iâd have to see them again as soon as they come near me in a next tour.
Knowing Twenty One Pilots was coming soon, my friend Maria decided to try and push to the front to get my other friend her respirator and a good spot for the concert. It didnât work for her at all and she even had a bit of a fight with a group that didnât let her pass as they played some charades app in a circle with plenty of space to pass through.
Getting back, we didnât know what to do until a mom overhearing suggested getting to security in the front so they could help us. We both went forward and after explaining our situation to security, they escorted me in front of all the crowds between the stage and barrier until I could reach my friend. It felt awesome being in that forbidden space that only security stands by for a few minutes until finally I stood up on the ledge and immediately saw my friend who had an amazing spot for the rest of the night although she had to fight the tough hours standing.
Going back, we started searching for the fifth spot we stood in the whole day and got a nice side view from the right side of the stage as Mutemath played in the other stage.
There were all sorts of people around us ranging from parents and their young kids to college students who came down from Georgia or 20-somethings doing something fun for the weekend. All came together to enjoy the shows and wind down before the start of a new week.
Since we were around the back, we decided to lay again even as Of Monsters & Men came out to play knowing they would be a band you can sing and relax to while listening. Although I do not enjoy their new album as much, I still enjoyed their music throughout the night and vibed off of it well while sitting next to some other young college students. As I stood far back trying to see them when I stood up, I wondered why the crowd was huge until I remembered that the festival was sold out. By this time at night, everyone was only looking at the main stage and it was packed like sardines in a tin can.
Barely seeing anything, I was a bit disappointed but cast all my worries away as soon as the moment I had been waiting for months had come at last and Twenty One Pilots took the stage.
Hearing a whir come through the speakers, I jumped high and saw a glimpse of Tyler Joseph and Josh Dun as I began my attempt to rap along to âHeavydirtysoul.â It was horrible but I didnât care and neither did anyone around me since they were doing the same shit.
All of a sudden, I became a wild maniac jumping front, backwards and every which way as songs from âBlurryfaceâ played in the background. I was a straight up fool but couldnât help but feed off of the energy they constantly gave me with their incredible upbeat rhythm.
As âStressed Outâ began to play, my friend and I screamed to each other acting out the lyrics we could such as âbuild a rocketshipâ and jumped even higher than before to get a view of the stage. Everyone was in their zone and there was no judgement.
Kids wearing red beanies just like Tyler and Joshâs stood on their parents shoulders to get a better view as everyone screamed along to each song like there was no tomorrow. Regardless of being able to see or not, I was in another world at that moment and couldnât help but get in touch with the lyrics I had been hearing for months and started to cry as they sang the lyric âIâve been thinking too much, help meâ off of their song âRideâ which always got me so hyped. For the first time in a long time, I wasnât overthinking and just enjoying the fact that I was there with no stress next to my best friends making lifetime memories.
Other times, lyrics werenât even necessary to get me emotional. During âLane Boyâ, I couldnât help but dance my ass off with everyone around me as Dun smashed his drums harder and harder hyping everyone up. I donât know what song it was specifically but a Dad and I couldnât help but laugh at each other as we did the same weird piano move in the air.
Strumming his ukulele as crowds sang âyeah, yeah, yeahâ along to âWe donât believe whatâs on TVâ, Joseph ran around like a maniac jumping from on top of his piano and swinging his hanging mic as he ran from one mic to another.
This performance was one which I expected to be wild but it definitely surpassed all dreams I ever had of it making it one of the best I will ever experience. From the moment it began to the moment Tyler Joseph climbed on top of the large stages metallic bars overlooking crowds as he took off his blurry face mask while singing to âCar Radioâ to both performers standing on top of crowds banging their drums. No matter who we are, where we come from or what age we are, this was for us: the few, the proud, the emotional. It drove us wild and gave us memories we will never forget.