Apologies in cash pls

Learning how to thread your eyebrows.

Learning how to tint your eyebrows. 

Learning how to do at home lash extensions. 

Learning how to do your own gel nails.

Learning how to do your own acrylics.

Learning how to wax your body hair.

Learning how to do a full sew in with closure.

Learning how to install your own braids.

Learning how to install a closure wig.

Learning how to exfoliate your own skin.

Learning how to improve your posture.

Learning how to microneedle your skin.

Learning how to edit your Instagram photos. 

Learning how to build a capsule closet.

Learning how to dress snazzily.

Learning how to walk in high heels.

Learning how to choose a perfume. 

Learning how to choose lingerie. 

Learning to improve and work on your femininity.

Learn about interracial dating. 

Learning how to improve the way you speak. 

Learning another language.

Learning about real estate. 

Learning about investing.

Learning how to get a job as a flight attendant.

Learning how to improve your cursive writing.

Learning how to improve your handwriting.

Learning a new makeup style.

Learning a natural makeup look.

Learning to use a claw clip for hairstyles. 

Learning how to curl your hair.

Learning to do a sleek low bun. 

Learning how to straighten your hair.

Learning how to do a Dominican blowout.

Learning how to apply false eyelashes.

Learning how to apply self tanner.

Learning basic sewing.

Learning how to begin Iyengar Yoga.

Learning how to treadmill productively.

Learning to have toned ballet legs.

Learning how to work towards a toned body.

Learning how to make your bum bigger. 

Learning how to understand ballet.

Learning how to understand operatic film.

Learning how to follow a simple ballet.

Learning daily etiquette.

Learning dining etiquette.

Learning how to walk elegantly.

Learning how to emulate Miss Universe. 

Learning about plastic surgery.

Learning how to bartend.

Learning how to open a bottle of champagne.

Learning how to make a cucumber sandwich.

Learning how to make a fresh mimosa.

Learning how to serve tea.

Learning how to tight line your eyes.

Learning how to microblade (NOT AT HOME).

Learning how to choose a designer handbag. 

Learning how to choose designer jewelry.

Learning how to rush a sorority.

Learning about equestrianism.

Learning the basics of skiing. 

Learning how to sail a sailboat.

Learning how to golf.

Learning how to play tennis.

XOXO,

Renata.

I learned how to write in Cursive and Calligraphy.

Did you know that before Meghan Markle became the Duchess of Sussex, she was employed by Paper Source in Beverly Hills as a calligraphy teacher and a freelance calligrapher? I thought that learning both cursive and calligraphy would put me on a different level because all of the women I've ever admired write in beautiful ways and they send gorgeous cards to the people they care for. When you write to any of the monarchies, you always receive a beautiful card back from them to thank you for your beautiful letter, even though I'm nowhere close to that, I want the people I care for to know that I care for them and appreciate having them in my life.

I also invested in really very nice stationary so I can sit down at my desk and write heartfelt cards that I can send to the people I adore. A 'thank you' text just doesn't cut it for me, I think that it's low budget and tacky, there's nothing like taking a beautiful and handcrafted card out of your mailbox and I want people to know that I think they're special. Calligraphy is an old art that's still taught at the best of schools and I've always wanted to expose my classiest side to the people I interact with and so I took advantage of my time and learned how to write.

How to copy HRH Meghan Markle's handwriting.

I learned how to cook splendid European food.

I bought the Julia Child cookbooks and went to town. I can cook Thai and Brazilian food easily and I know how to make some Kenyan dishes, but I learned how to make European dishes. Julia Child's book 'Mastering the Art of French Cooking' is absolutely amazing. I love making beautifully prepared meals and I love that I can be counted on to make nice meals when I'm asked to, there's nothing like pouring myself some chilled Möet, putting on my apron, standing in the kitchen, and making a delicious and beautiful dish for a candlelit meal.

Julia Child is a genius and the pride of the cooking world, her recipes are easy to follow but the meals end up being intricate and delicious and gorgeous. All of the men I've known appreciate a beautiful meal and they love when I take care of them and make a beautiful dinner, they don't tend to like my ethnic food and so I've found European food that they do enjoy and that I enjoy making. I usually only cook when I want something but learning how to cook beautiful food, knowing which wine and desserts to pair with it, and knowing how to set a table and serve a meal made me seem so much classier and more cultured and like I was a lady raised in society.

An episode of Julia Child's show where she makes lovely desserts and exhibits the beauty of her skills.

I worked on my conversation skills.

I took a course at Oxford and then I began watching speeches given by world leaders to work on the fluency of my English, my conversation skills, and my small talk. I prefer speeches from female leaders so I can work on my accent and the way that I speak and I find that speeches from women like Meghan Markle, Princess Anne, Princess Diana, Queen Letizia, and various UN General Assembly speeches from women serve the purpose very well. I worked on making sure that my speech flowed smoothly and that I was able to easily transition between topics and points of conversation without too much difficulty for me or for the person who I was conversing with and make myself heard.

A key part of this was also learning locations, Punta del Este (Uruguay), precise places in Monaco, hidden gems in France, lodges in Germany, Glastonbury, NPR and the BBC, the stock market, skiing vacations in the Switzerland, Yachting in Monaco, and vineyards in Italy. Knowing about horses, poker, polo, art, history, the best boarding schools, sailing, I learned about all of the places where I knew the extremely wealthy to go and the activities that I knew the younger wealthy men (and their fathers) to partake in. I've always hated a conversation where I'm off to the side and unable to participate because I'm not cultured and educated enough to, I've completely changed that by learning about all of the things I felt I needed to know to speak successfully.

An example of Queen Rania speaking beautifully and fluently with her lovely accent during an interview.

I added languages to my repertoire.

I've spent a lot of time around boys with fathers who are worth major money. I live on the same floor as a boy with a father worth $1.8B and I know one of the Princesses of Saudi Arabia. The one thing that both of them have in common is that they speak different languages fluently and that they're good at them. I decided to go on Duolingo and pick up Hebrew and when I found that I enjoyed it immensely and I was good at it, I began taking classes through my university and at a synagogue local to my university in Boston. I'm also converting and it's made my life much easier because I've found that I pick up conversational Hebrew easier and I enjoy it more.

The best boarding schools in the world teach their students languages and knowing how to communicate in different languages makes you seem high class and fancy. World leaders and the beautiful and cultured women and wives I've met know many languages, wealthy men want beautiful and cosmopolitan wives who are educated and knowledgeable about many things, they want women who they can show off and brag about. Knowing languages makes you seem very educated and like you have a privileged, cultured, and cosmopolitan background. The people I know from real wealth make it a point to know and speak languages that they've worked to learn well.

Foreign language films, shows, movies, songs, and other forms of media are a wonderful way to begin learning and comprehending another language.

I invested in magazines.

I'm currently subscribed to the Tatler, Condé Nast, National Geographic, Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, The Wealth Collection, Bespoke, Sur•La•Terre, Portfolio, Prestige, Elite Traveler, Vanity Fair, Town & Country, and the Robb Report. I read and enjoy them all but I've found that The Tatler Magazine is one of the most important magazines I have ever read and I truly believe that it keeps me completely up to date with who's who and what's what in society and it has helped me in my journey towards leveling up immensely. The man I met and who I love dearly is also, incidentally, subscribed to the Tatler magazine. Magazines are cheaper than books, accessible online, and easy to read and enjoy in one sitting.

I've been to the homes of many very wealthy men and they all have subscriptions to magazines, I personally use magazines to read, keep me up to date with what's happening in society, and to make myself seem more cultured and involved in society. I don't read the common gossip magazines and I focus on articles and bits of knowledge that I feel will aid me and help me in my journey, not hinder me and make me feel like I'm not evolving and becoming more high class and cultured. One of my best friends keeps a copy of the Tatler on her nightstand and she's married extremely well and she believes in using magazines, that's why I've started.

One of my favorite online magazines, The Cut. 

XOXO,

Renata.

An Exfoliating Mitt.

An Exfoliating Scrub.

A Dry Brush.

Bio-Oil.

A Faja.

Nałęczowianka Water.

From the top:

Exfoliate with your Mitt and Vitamin C scrub.

Once you're dry, use your Dry Brush to exfoliate your skin before briskly rubbing in your warmed Bio-Oil.

Get in your Faja and drink a gallon of water per day.

Repeat every day and be consistent with the routine.

XOXO,

Sotheby's Art Courses:

A client of mine paid a several thousand dollars to put me through the art courses at Sotheby's. I've been in love with art and museums since I was a very little girl and knowing everything about art and curation has been such an experience for me that I've just loved and loved. There's nothing like feeling like an expert on things and I do love art. Knowing all about art is an opportunity that makes me seem much classier and like I've grown up in proper society and around the knowledge and classiness that comes with knowing art and the great artists.

The Short Courses at Sotheby's are a month or longer, they're online, and they can do with all sorts of things, some of my favorites are: Careers in the Art World, Introduction to Contemporary Art, Running a Contemporary Gallery, Art History: Key Concepts, Introduction to Curating, The Art of Collecting, Art History, Determining Value: an Appraiser's Perspective, Introduction to Art and Finance, and Art as a Global Business: Dynamics of the Art Market. There's a very large variety of courses.

Free Art History Course if you're baroque or making it by on a budget.

Ballet Classes @ NYTB:

I've been in love with ballet since the day I was born and my teenage years were completely ballet based. My little room in my dorm had Balanchine, Baryshnikov, and Polunin on the walls, Julian McKay is there now. I have a drawer filled with leotards and Capezio pointe shoes still, I'm fluent in French and Russian because I was trained in the Vaganova method and I didn't want to miss a single moment or word that left my instructor's mouth. Ballet defined me for so long that I can't let go of it even today because I love it and I could never leave it behind.

I continue to dance, I go up to New York City once biweekly and I stand at the barre once more and let my body free. I start to ache and I feel my joints begin to feel stiff. I don't actually go to a class, I have private lessons with a Ukrainian who whips me into shape and makes sure that I haven't forgotten a single thing from my training, dancing and knowing the basics of dance is, in my opinion, absolutely essential to leveling up. There are so many things that dance will help with: posture, self esteem, gait (the way you walk), and dancers are so beautiful.

Dancing your way to savings for a rainy day? Here's some free ballet.

Etiquette Classes:

Etiquette lessons are absolutely essential to leveling up and I truly don't believe that any woman can succeed in leveling up UNLESS she's had some sort of etiquette training. No wealthy man wants a woman who doesn't know the basics of etiquette and politeness. It's just a fact. Every woman I've ever met that's married an extremely wealthy man has gone through etiquette training and knows her Amy Vanderbilt, there's absolutely no reason why you should not know etiquette and some men consider these unrefined manners and lack of restraint as a dealbreaker, no successful and established man wants a woman who could potentially embarrass him and who he can't take to a wide variety of places.

Taking intensive etiquette classes brushed up my skills, polished me, and made me able to go into every social interaction with absolute confidence. Etiquette classes were also the thing that helped me refine my speech and my accent to the point where I can speak clearly and concisely but without slurring and dipping my words and letting my Portuguese sneak into my English. The more time I spent learning how to compose myself and hold myself with grace, the more I found myself being invited places and being asked if I wanted chances to go places that I could've never dreamed of being invited to and on vacations that I could've never dreamed of.

One of my favorite femininity and etiquette youtubers with some of the best videos out there and descriptions of how to level up, become high class, and truly make it in high society.

Sommelier Certification:

I took sommelier classes so I could know wine. It was a complete spur of the moment decision and, as a devout Moët girl, it's something that I've really enjoyed because it's afforded me more opportunities and it's fully opened doors that have already been halfway opened for me. I've never really been one who enjoys wine (I look at the pictures on the bottles and choose the prettiest) but when a man asks me a question about the vintage of the bottle I'm serving him and I can answer correctly and with detail, well, it gives me a clear opportunity to enchant him.

Becoming a sommelier isn't something that I'd ever consider a career and it's also not something that I would ever do as a hobby but it's something that's been useful to me and I've used my knowledge from the classes over and over again, I've also taken the opportunity to use the knowledge that I gained from the classes that I took almost every night when I stop by Whole Foods to pick up a bottle of wine. It's knowledge that is useful and that can be repurposed for a variety of situations and events and it's in extreme demand in private clubs and residences.

Information about sommelier classes so you don't wine at me for information.

Bartending Classes:

Bartending is an old friend, I learned bartending during my yacht days and I learned how to make specific cocktails at my private club, I took a bartending course so I could learn how to make specific drinks exquisitely and with absolute expertise. I want to be known as the girl in the club that knows how to make certain drinks and has a special and so got it into my head that doing a bartending class so that I can make a perfect Moscow Mule and a perfect Montenegro Sunset (my special, I created it <3). I love bartending.

Whenever I've been at a wealthy man's home, he's always had a personal bar and I've always been eager to get behind the bar and make him a drink. There's nothing like pouring out the liquids, salting the rim of a cup, squeezing a lime, and serving it up with a smile. There's nothing like club soda and red wine, and there's nothing like the thrill and intensity that comes with making drinks. Doing a bartending course just made me better at it and able to master drinks I couldn't make before. It also gave me the opportunity to make friends and level up at my club job because I'm trusted to make the best beverages.

Want to grab a gig bartending? Here's a video explaining the basics for any girl to understand.

You do not give a man the benefits of a wife as a girlfriend and expect him to propose when he has the benefits with no commitment. Play your part. Do not move in with him. Definitely do not split bills with him. Do not be his molly maid. He is a provider, no? So let him provide. Let him prove himself worthy to take care of you for the rest of your life.

💎 I’m not asking for too much, I’m just asking the wrong person.

💎 I’m not asking for too much, I’m just asking the wrong person.

💎 I’m not asking for too much, I’m just asking the wrong person.

💎 I’m not asking for too much, I’m just asking the wrong person.

How to be Confident:

tips and rules to apply and live by:

To really feel more confident and to get a clearer vision of how, establish what things in life your most confident version of yourself would have. What would they look like? How would they carry themselves or do things differently from you now? Create a vision board or write it down so you can understand what exactly you want and start working towards that right now.

Confidence is more than appearance. Which means if you feel you’re not enough, can’t achieve a certain goal, or succeed in life then that’s what your subconscious (inner critic) is going to keep feeding you. You have to feel, believe and know you can do anything you put your mind to in which, you can. Don’t let bad thoughts keep you from what you’re already destined for. Reprogram your subconscious beliefs. Try to be more optimistic.

Practice and preach self assured and positive affirmations everyday, multiples times a day. If you have to write them down on a sticky note and post them on a mirror or wall, do it. If you have to set some as your locksceen, do it. When saying affirmations, always say them in present tense. Examples; “I am successful in everything i do.” “There is power within me.” “I ask, I believe, I receive.” “My confidence knows no limit.” “I am beautifully made.” Being consistent in saying affirmations is steps of many to uplifting and boosting your confidence.

Stop comparing yourself to others, grow compare yourself to the person you was yesterday and how you can be better today. Everyday is a new day, a new start, use that to its fullest. Instead, look up to people that inspire you to learn and make you want to be your best self.

Have plenty of “me” time or moments where you spend time alone. Learning to be more comfortable in your own skin and get to know who you really are as a person is really important. It gives you time to learn how to be more in tune with yourself. Eat out alone, meditate, treat yourself to things that’ll make you feel better about you or at your best—skincare, makeup, clothes, plants, books. As well as taking needed breaks from social media. Which helps to clear your mind, give yourself a break and focus on tasks without distractions.

Speak kindly of yourself (reframe from negative talk), smile more, be kind to others, be softer on yourself and not to hard by focusing on solutions to problems and not all the bad of it. Stay away from negative people and things that could lower you vibrations or bring you out of character.

Don’t let outside validation value who you are nor seek it. Ignore outside opinions that don’t enhance your life.

Take steps in working on your presence and mimick the “confident posture.” If you walk and act like you got it like that, that’s what others around you is going to see as well as how you would feel. Examples; walk with your head held high, eye contact, compliment people, be more assertive and speak up and speak clearly when you talk etc. The saying “fake it to you make it!” is to act like something you are not, yet but you can become it if you put in the work.

Create personal boundaries, first step is to learn how to say no when you’re really saying yes. Challenge yourself everyday and push your self to grow. Set a small goal at first, achieve it and repeat. Getting out your comfort zone and facing your fears is the biggest goal of all and is very life changing. Accomplishing something you was scare to do and it turning out better than expected, is the most satisfying thing and raises your confidence times ten. Understand that once your mind is set on something, you can be successful at it everytime. Also understand that if you run into a setback, it’s only a matter of time before you bounce back.

Confidence is not everyone liking you. It is feeling good about yourself, not needing approval & knowing you’re the “it girl” whether someone like you or not.

I remember reviewing two popular books that could be easily be applied to an aspiring sugar baby (or any sex worker for that matter). I did say that I was going to review the many others in my repertoire BUT ain’t nobody got time for dat. So I will just list the books. This include books on power, manipulating men, sex, etc. ((In no particular order))

**Disclaimer: This is MY personal list of books that I own whether in book, kindle or audio form. This list includes sexually related books. No, I’m not saying as a (SB/Stripper/Escort/etc.) that you need to have sex. In no way am I insinuating that in this list. Just listing books that worked for ME in my personal life.** 

1. Women Have All The Power… Too Bad They Don’t Know It: Secrets Every Man’s Daughter Should Know by Michael J. Lockwood

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2. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey

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3. The Power of the Pussy: How to Get What You Want From Men Love, Respect, Commitment and More…What Do You Want? by Kara King

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4. A Gold Digger’s Guide (How to get what you want without giving it up) by Baje Fletcher

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5. Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby by Leidra Lawson

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6. The Art Of Gold Digging by Tariq King Flex Nasheed

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7. Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Relationships by Brandon Wade

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8. 6 Simple Tricks To CRACK THE MAN CODE And Get Any Guy To Open His Heart by Michael Fiore

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9. How to Snare a Millionaire NOW: A sequel to the Ultimate Guide on Marrying for Both Love and Money by Lisa Johnson Mandell

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10. Get Anyone to Do Anything by David J. Lieberman Ph.D.

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11. The Geisha Secret: Ancient Dating Rituals Proven to Win a Modern Man’s Heart by Hanako

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12. The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans

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13. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 1: The Foundation by Amanda Brooks

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14. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 2: Advertising and Marketing by Amanda Brooks

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15. The Attraction Factor - 4 Simple Yet Powerful Principles That Will Melt Any Man’s Heart by Bob Grant

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16. Marry a Millionaire - The Best Places To Find Rich Men by Coach Juliet

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17. How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes

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18. How To Develop Self-Confidence and Influence Peoplle by Pulic Speaking by Dale Carnegie

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19. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

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20. Going Down: The Instinct Guide to Oral Sex by Ben R. Rogers ((Yes, it’s written from the perspective of a gay male but VERY useful nonetheless.))

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21. Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex by Marcy Michaels

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22. The Power of Eye Contact by Michael Ellsberg

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23. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

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24. The Definitive Book of Body Language by Barbara Pease

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25. The Satanic Witch by Anton Szandor LaVey ((Don’t be fooled/scared by the title of the book. A very good read for women that would like to use their inherited manipulation skills))

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26. What Every BODY is Saying by Joe Navarro

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27. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini

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28. The Gold Digger’s Guide: How To Marry The Man And The Money by Ivana Rich

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29. The Fortune Hunters: Dazzling Women and the Men They Married by Charlotte Hays

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30. How to Marry Money by Kevin Doyle

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31. How to Marry Super Rich by Sheilah Graham

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32. The Guide to Becoming the Sensuous Black Woman (And Drive Your Man Wild In and Out of Bed!) by Miss T.

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33. How to Look Expensive: A Beauty Editor’s Secrets to Getting Gorgeous without Breaking the Bank by Andrea Pomerantz Lustig

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34. How to Marry the Rich by Ginie Polo Sayles

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35. Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money—That the Poor and the Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki

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36. From Ramen to Riches: Building Wealth in Your 20s: Or Spending, Saving, Investing and Managing Your Money to Get Rich Slowly, but Surely by James Wood

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37. Wealthy Men for Money or Love 21.2 Century Guide for VIP Escorts and Single Women by Jessica Diamond

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38. The Princess Plan: Shrink your waist. Expand your beauty by Dr. Jennifer Hanes

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39. How To Get a Rich Man by Donna Spangler

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40. Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Getting Duped into the Romantic Dream-and How They’re Paying For It by Daniela Drake

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This is the Magical 11/11 & 11:11 Post

May you receive what you wish for with live, grace, & wade and keep your heart and mind open.

Likes charge,

The Sugar Daddy Formula - Taylor B. Jones

Smart Women Finish Rich - David Bach

Smart Girls Marry Money - Elizabeth Ford and Daniela Drake

Solving Single - G.L. Lambert

Men Don’t Love Women Like You -  G.L. Lambert

The Art of Seduction - Robert Greene

Ho Tactics - G.L. Lambert

French Women Don’t Sleep Alone - Jamie Cat Callan

Your Inner Fox - Marilyn Greenfield

Why Men Love Bitches - Sherry Argov

Why Men Marry Bitches - Sherry Argov

The Power of the Pussy - Kara King

Style: The Modern Lady’s Guide to Elegance and Charm - Eliza Chamber

Too Pretty to Pay Bills - She Ra Seven

How to Marry the Rich - Ginie Sayles

Rich Sex - Ginie Sayles

The Seduction Mystique - Ginie Sayles

The Unicorn Delusion - G.L. Lambert

The Gold Digger Guide to Seduction - Eve Rabi

Parisian Charm School: French Secrets for Cultivating Love, Joy, and That Certain je ne sais quoi - Jamie Cat Callan

This is my current reading list. One thing I will say is that if you read all of these books you will be overwhelmed with different perspectives and sometimes even contradictory methods on seducing and sugaring. My tip is to find what most appeals to your capabilities and personality and utilise that instead of trying to use every single technique.

Also, I was able to download some of these books as PDFs by using the website: https://8freebooks.net/ 

Some of the others e-books I purchased using my kindle unlimited 30-day free trial.

Basically, don’t go spending your money when most of these books are free online!

Hope you find this post useful girls and remember - “reading is fundamental”!

Reinventing yourself is quite an enjoyable process actually, it’s all about having the right mindset. I always see us humans are canvases that can be modified at any time. The things that happened to us in the past and the identity we are attached to are all concepts in our mind that can be detached from us or molded to your likings, like in the case of developing a new identity and sense of self.

Visualize the process of reinventing yourself as an evolution: what would the improved version of yourself do? How would she behave? talk? What type of activities would she engage in? What type of people would she allow in her life? How much money would she make? Etc. You must be specific, I would recommend making a list and letting your brain storm all of your most desired personal goals into it. Then become intentional in recreating those same qualities in your day to day life, doesn’t matter if you have to “fake” it, research has shown that your brain often times cannot differentiate between what is real and what isn’t, so embodying a certain type of mentality about yourself will eventually become second nature and internalized as who you are.

I would also study people who possess the qualities I long for attaining and reading or listening about what they have to say. For this process removing all distractions that may be counterproductive to your goals is imperative, most specifically social media. If you love the way a supermodel like Naomi Campbell carries herself in the way she walks, study her catwalk and practice it, if you love the way Marilyn Monroe used her feminine allure to captivate the public then study her interviews and mannerisms, if you love the way a certain businesswoman was able to build an empire for herself and created financial independence or influence, then listen from her interviews or books about how her mindset is set up or the habits that might’ve helped her to get to where she is. You don’t have to try to be someone else, just take the best attributes of different people and adopt them in a way that suits you.