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How to get what you want from men
Women are powerful. That’s what I’ve learned from a lifetime of socializing with just about every type of female — from exotic dancers to socialites to successful businesswomen.
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Hi, I just found your blog and I’m already obsessed
I saw one of your previous asks and you mentioned prostitution being legal in the Netherlands. Which city is the wealthiest?/which one would you suggest finding a wealthy generous man.
Also, how do they feel about women of color over there?
Thanks in advance ❤️
Hi, sugar! Sorry it took too long to reply.
The wealthiest city in the Netherlands is, by far, Utrecht. There are a considerate amount of private school, besides the capitals of the provinces where properties are more expensive and therefore the demand for wealthy people to live in those towns and cities is even higher.
North-Holland, where Amsterdam is located, South-Holland, where Rotterdam and The Hague are located are also the richest provinces there.
Basically, the richest cities in the Netherlands to living in are the ones close to the biggest cities, making easier to commute to work in those big companies and organisations that are in the bigger and populated areas, but living in a more spacious and exclusive area.
This is not exclusive to Dutch people but also many ex-pats and politicians or company owners from other countries that reside in the Netherlands or have a second residence in some of these cities. CBS can help you with that ;).
I am not pretty sure about that, since I'm not a woc, but European men generally tend to like "exotic" women and considering there are many VIP people from around the world living and working in the Netherlands, that will be no issue.
To your success,
~ Bleuet 💸💖
People are shaming this young man on social media for giving his gf a black card. This is why men who have it like that barely have social media or bother to post about their chivalry. It’s the principal behind a man taking care of a woman so that she is less stressed and more present for the relationship. Real men help their women help them. Whether she goes on shopping sprees or just purchases her essentials is nobody’s business but theirs. He can clearly afford her spending and they’re obviously mature enough to talk about his bandwidth.
As he should. Stop dating men who can’t take care of you, or won’t take care of you.
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Helloooooo, could do a breakdown of the feminine archetype Ingenue, I'm really fascinated by it !
The Ingenue
Your unexpected mix of girlish charm and womanly sensuality enthralls.
Your potential to captivate could be the wiggle in your walk, the impish sparkle in your eye, or your rock and roll lifestyle. Whatever your signature trait may be, your natural, unaffected charm makes men swoon. With the magnetic lover as your dominant archetype, you possess an uninhibited sensuality. Your secondary archetype, the maiden, imparts a life long effervescence and receptive spirit. Together, the juxtaposition of womanly sex appeal and girlish innocence tantalizes your admirers.
Master captivation by activating magnetic inner lover, and your receptive inner maiden.
Consider Marilyn Monroe’s voluptuous curves and her signature walk, both a contrast to her breathy, baby doll voice and exaggerated naiveté. Or consider Rihanna’s brazen sex appeal, with her devil-may-care attitude. She resembles a rebellious teenage girl; dark, spontaneous, open and liable to do or say anything. In the art of seduction, such paradox is irresistible. Maiden women are tasked with evolving into the mature aspect of their archetype.
You appeal to a man’s procreative and paternal instincts, stimulating both his libido and his inner protector. You also give men the emotional spice and unpredictability they crave.
You are endearing, delicate, and refreshing. Your energy exudes an open, impish quality with a strong yin overcurrent and a yang undercurrent. When you dress, you draw toward flouncy dresses, soft textures, frills, and delicate accessories. You move through life with a girlish charm, reminiscent of the prototypical ingenue. People lower their guards when they’re around you. You embody a blissful world full of hope and an escape to a carefree time that is uncomplicated by worries.
Your anti-seductive qualities:
In their child or core state, women influenced by the “maiden” archetypecan be so receptive that they can be malleable, and prone to co-dependent relationships. With maturity, they learn to assert their identity and desires, and their receptiveness evolves into higher levels of intuition, emotional depth and creativity. This feminine journey will play out again and again in the lives of maiden women until they evolve–though some never do.
In their queen state, they can be mercurial, mystical, and deeply connected to their emotions. Consider Marilyn’s darker side, the private anguish and depression that haunted her off screen. Ironically, that touch of madness added to her allure. She never fully learned to cope with her dark side, but most maidens, as they mature, reconcile both aspects of their personality, a breakthrough that usually follows a significant physical or psychological loss.
Until you evolve, your frank sexuality and receptive energy will be a blessing and a curse. Men will be drawn to your vulnerability and authenticity. Your lack of defenses will put them at ease, but you may be attracted to dark, emotionally unavailable, or even abusive men (consider Rihanna’s relationship with Chris Brown) and you will struggle with boundaries. Love addiction and codependent behavior is also common with this combination. Regardless of where you are in your journey, your natural sensuality is the essence ofyour charm.
The dark side of this archetype is defensiveness, unsophistication, and people-pleasing. If you haven’t mastered the art of leveraging your Ingenue energy, you may find it challenging to let go and harbor porous personal boundaries.
Basically, the ingenue archetype represents the unique way that YOU captivate. It is the sizzling interaction of your naturally magnetic dominant feminine archetype, the 'lover', with the receptive energy of your second archetype, the 'maiden'. When you are aligned with both of these energies, you feel good, and you attract without effort. Develop your natural charisma, by fully activating your inner maiden, and your inner lover together.
To your success, ~ Bleuet 💸💖
I'm not sure how to explain this but Ana de Armas in the Deep Water trailer and most of her photo shoots has "hot young 2nd or 3rd wife" energy and it is goals. I really want to give off the same vibe with my look and the way I carry myself.
An ask after my own heart!
I watched (and re watched) that movie for her only. The way she looks and carries herself (for the most part) is everything!
One of my favorite things about Ana De Armas is that she makes shorter hair look so sexy and sultry. Contrary to popular belief, but not everyone looks better with longer hair. I love to see women sporting styles that actually suit them so don't feel obligated to wear long locks. If you've always wanted to try shorter hair, go for it! It might make you look sexier.
She wears a lot of black! Mostly sultry dresses that can be dressed up for an evening out or down for an evening in. Tasteful cleavage. Tasteful amount of leg showing. Dresses that show off her figure without being vulgar.
If she isn't wearing black, then she wears neutral tones. That's something that I noticed a lot in the movie. Lots of black or variations of brown. And when she isn't dressing like a sultry wife, she's very put together and reserved. Even her hair will be pulled back into a bun with a few fly always. Trench coats, dress pants, cardigans! But there will still be something extra. The sweater will have the sleeves pushed up or that long dress + sweater combo will be paired with sexy heels.
Her jewelry is very simple. Unless you can afford an actual Cartier love bracelet, look into an impressive dupe. Her rings are basic gold or silver bands and she's not one for gaudy jewelry. She likes for the focus to be on her clothes and body tbh.
https://youtu.be/QwC55QL3B3A
Because she likes for her clothes and body to be the focus, she keeps her makeup fairly simple too. No heavy eye shadow or contour. The makeup is very natural looking except for 2 things. Lips and lashes! Ana has gorgeous eyes and they really play with that by packing on the mascara and making sure those lashes look luscious. Buy some falsies and/or invest in a really good mascara. Rosy lip products too! I'm a sucker for a nice deep berry lip color because I think it looks great against my darker skin but it really stands out on skin like hers.
As for how you carry yourself, have confidence. That's the first key.
Melinda (Ana's character) is very confident in herself. Both in her looks and her personality. She's sure of herself and even confidently told her husband that if he were married to anyone else, he'd be bored. She knows that she's attractive in both mind and body, and she knows how to have men eating out of the palm of her hand if she desires it. Her husband was willing to give her free reign in their marriage just so they'd stay married hello!
She's bold! She has no problem being the center of attention and will happily start playing the piano or get on the dance floor if it'll bring her joy. Because she was bold, and feeling secure in her relationship with her husband, she was also bold in her "extracurricular activities" too. She felt no need to hide or feel ashamed for what she felt she was allowed to do.
She's all about experiences. Melinda had a lot of lovers and lot of culture and that was because she traveled and talked to people and tried new things. She was taking piano lessons and going to fancy clubs and trying new restaurants. She had many paramours throughout her life and we saw that they were happy to come back into her life. She was very set on living her life to the fullest.
In a nutshell, she's "untamable". She's that woman that men have to have even if for the sole purpose of trying to lock her down. I mean, that's basically what happened with her husband. Possessing her was more important to him than having her respect 💀 Who cares if she made a cuckold out of him? It's his ring on her finger 🤷🏾♀️
Take this advice with a grain of salt please because if you're familiar with the book, Melinda's antics is how she winded up dead!
Friendly Reminder:
A man doesn’t have to love you, like you, respect, or even find you attractive in order for him to insert his penis in your vagina. His animalistic urge to ejaculate is enough for him to justify having sex with you.
A man praising your sex / vagina isn’t a compliment
I “kEep hIm cOmiNg bAcK”
I “gOt tHaT wEt WeT” is
basic 👏🏽 bxtch 👏🏽 energy 👏🏽….
The Insider’s Guide to Fragrance
When I started my femininity journey, I had no idea where to start. I remember watching all these videos that talked about femininity and external part femininity and they all mentioned one common point: fragrance.
I started studying fragrances and getting familiar with different notes that are in some of my favorite fragrances, and the most popular fragrances around the world. I learned that not every fragrance is going to match your body chemistry, so it really is a trial and error process, but it is so worth it.
Men literally become intoxicated by the smell of a woman. There is so much power in a fragrance that in my opinion, it is something that cannot be skipped.
I discovered that warm notes agree with my body chemistry more than anything so ambers, pink peppers, vanillas, and other woody, natural, sweet notes.
I’m the type of woman who loves smelling good all day, and I love for my scent to stay with a person even after I’ve left a room. Pre-quarantine, I loved giving hugs (I still do, but I’m cautious and respectful of people’s space) and I was always complimented on how amazing I smelled.
I want to share some of my favorite fragrances I have in my collection, as well as the videos I watched to learn about fragrances. I’m not going to lie, I do not mind investing in my fragrances at all! But I do have some more budget friendly scents if you’re just starting in your fragrance journey.
Before we begin: Ladies, let me know what some of your favorite fragrances are. I’m always open to adding to my collection.
Some tips to smell good all day:
- Layer your scents. If you can find a fragrance that comes in a balm, lotion, or skin creme, you increase the longevity of that fragrance on your skin. It also makes it easier to reapply as needed through out the day.
- Go for Eau De Parfums (EDPs) over Eau De Toilettes (EDTs). EDPs have a high scent concentration than EDTs, so if you’ve ever wondered why it seems your EDT fragrances seem to just disappear off your skin as soon as you put it on, that might be a reason. Make the switch, you’ll get so much more out of your scent.
- Refresh your scent every 5-6 hours. The only perfume I have ever worn that lasted through a whole gala, and a shower was L’Heure Mysterieuse by Cartier. (Seriously, that perfume is no joke. I’ve only ever worn it once.) Now, most other perfumes won’t be as strong and will need reapplication throughout the day. I made a point in my first tip to get your fragrances in lotions, but I also recommend getting your fragrances in smaller sizes if available. If your desired perfume doesn’t already come in a smaller size for purchase, just purchase an atomizer and you’ll be able to fill it with your desired fragrance.
My favorite fragrances in my collection (over $100):
- Si Passione by Giorgio Armani
- Black Opium by YSL (I know it’s pretty common, but it is still a favorite)
- Good Girl by Carolina Herrera
- Angel by Thierry Mugler
- By the Fireplace by Maison Margiela
- Jasmine Musk by Tom Ford
- Santal Blush by Tom Ford
My favorite fragrances in my collection (under $100):
- Hypnotic Poison by Dior
- Bronze Goddess by Estee Lauder (my favorite fragrance for the summer time, it’s mouth watering)
- Secret Genius by Pinrose
- Gilded Fox by Pinrose
- Very Sexy by Victoria’s Secret
-Tease EDP by Victoria’s Secret
My favorite fragrance YouTubers to watch:
- Eva Monoroe
- Cheraye C Lewis
- Edwige A La Mode (not a fragrance YouTuber, but I love her collection)
- Karina Waldron
- Mila Le Blanc
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6. Furla
7. Marc Jacobs
8. Gigi New York
9. Ralph Lauren
10. Tory Burch
11. Dooney and Burke
12. Polene
Tip: Buy designer vintage or secondhand, I specifically recommend Fashionphile as they are in direct affiliation with and backed by Neiman Marcus, have accurate authentication and have layaway. Poshmark and EBay can also be good if you’re looking for something very specific you just have to know what you’re doing. But for a very doable price you can get all real leather, excellent condition 💼
I’m adding Kate Spade. Her bags are so girly and fun but also quality leather
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Life is for being soft. She said what she said 💅🏾

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Lets discuss the 4 Feminine States (Some dating coaches call them "Feminine Flavors") that Renar describes. I think there is a lot of wisdom in it.
The Girl
The Lover
The Homemaker
The Queen
I replaced the MISTRESS with HOMEMAKER as the former term is a misleading translation. The QUEEN is basically the same archetype as the BITCH, that is described a lot in modern dating advice books.
EMBODy ALL 4 STATES
A man dreams to find everything in one woman, a lover, a homemaker, a queen, and a girl.
These are four basic manifestations of the feminine energy, the four basic states of woman
In a wife men wish to have the full package: a passionate homemaker, an inspiring muse or an unapproachable queen, an enthusiastic girl, and an ardent lover.
The man longs, even if unconsciously, for the satisfaction of all his needs: mental, emotional, physical and sexual.
On the physical level he expects for a woman to take care of him, to feed him with tasty breakfasts or suppers, to keep order in the house, to support and calm him during difficult moments. This state of woman is called THE HOMEMAKER.
Simultaneously, on an emotional level, he would like to see a helpless girl requiring his protection, a girl who admires him and enthusiastically listens to his every word.
A girl who recklessly trusts in his talents, is glad of his successes, appreciates his efforts and gifts, even the simplest ones.
On the psychological level the man expects cleverness and erudition from a woman, with the skill to conduct intellectual conversation, who will be well informed about his business and its problems, who is able to direct and inspire him, be interesting and independent, creative and unpredictable. He wants to see in her a queen or a muse.
But all these are nothing compared with what a man expects at night. That’s why people say: “A night bird gets more food than a day bird”.
A passionate and skilful lover, perfectly managing her intimate muscles, knowing all the secrets of the art of love, the secret points on a man’s body, she is one who isn’t afraid of any forbidden caresses, and receives unlimited authority.
A man can never be sated with such woman, and he is drawn to her again and again, he thirsts for her and aspires to spend every night only with her.
Men are at all times intuitively drawn to those who unites these different manifestations because they felt that only such a woman can raise a man, help him to find power and integrity.
Only when a woman joins a man on all four levels is he filled with energy and is ready to accomplish anything.
Only such a woman can help a man to win the world, which he will then be ready to throw at her feet.
If a woman embodies all these states, she closes the circle of feminine power and, as a symbol of it, she usually gets a wedding ring as a gift.
During courting a woman should pass through all four of the states we which talked about: a girl, a lover, a queen and a mistress.
A man checks how well she knows these levels, whether she can subsequently satisfy all his needs.
In the state of the lover, the woman attract the most attention.
A lover attracts but if you spend the night with a man, you remain just a fling in his eyes.
To marry him, it is necessary to pass on to the state of a queen and to awaken the man’s instinct as a hunter.
And after he has won you, you become the obedient girl allowing him to take all the responsibility.
Only after you become engaged can you show what a remarkable homemaker you can be.
If you break this sequence, the relationship either quickly comes to an end, or lasts without any result. If you do everything correctly, you will close the circle of feminine power.
If because of some event, or your own beliefs or education, the woman concentrates on one state, for example homemaker, and forgets about others, the circle of feminine power is broken and the man begins to search for one who will satisfy his other needs, one who can give him a lover, a girl or a queen.
A woman dedicates herself to the household, to the education of the children, and at the same time to the education of her husband. In preparing breakfast, lunch and supper she forgets how to be a passionate lover or an enthusiastic girl.
She forgets that though a man may appreciate a homemaker and is grateful to her for the cosiness she provides, he does not desire her at all.
Everything is fine in moderation, To keep a man always with you flared in passion as in the first years, it is necessary to constantly change yourself, to live in all four states.
The Queen or the bitch is a recent development. Successful, self-sufficient, able to reach her goals.
There are hundreds of books on the theme of how to become a bitch. But it shouldn’t be forgotten, that the bitch only is one of the states.
A bitch attracts, but men marry the girl.
When the state of the girl dominates, everyone around is surprised why such a lovely, kind and proper girl is still alone, forgetting, that it isn’t the girl that originally attracts men, but a passionate lover.
Or on the contrary, someone likes to be independent and free, to make the decisions herself, to be in a state of the bitch. In some way this state is the optimum to drive a man out of his mind, but, having achieved what he wanted, a man expects for the tigress to turn into a tender kitten and if this doesn’t occur, he, unable to stand the pressure, disappears.
It is best to build relations according to the script of marriage. It is possible to transform a potential husband into a lover or an admirer at any moment but it's almost impossible to transform from a homemaker into a wife. (--> aka don't play home until he has committed to you with a ring)
The 4 Elements
🍂The element of Earth, strong and intrinsic, gives a woman calmness, practicality, validity and reliability.
🔥The element of Fire is hot and pulsing, it makes a woman unpredictable, passionate and sexual.
💧The element of Water gives a woman emotionality and spontaneity, playfulness and softness.
🌬The element of Air makes a woman self-sufficient and persistent, independent and logical.
Every woman has two elements by nature (Mine is Fire and Water, what is yours?)
But a woman isn’t obliged to live only the life that is given to her at a birth. She can strengthen those energies which are less prominent in her.
Through connections with the elements a woman finds a new state of integrity and power.
The woman becomes an embodiment of perfection only after she finds the power of the four elements.
Only woman has ability to take energy from the world, dissolving in the elements and filling herself with them; man is deprived such an ability.
That is why, since time immemorial, men have aspired to meet a woman in possession of all the feminine energy in all its manifestations: sexual, emotional, mental and physical.
They wanted a woman to fill them with their sexual energy, to listen to their doubts and inspired them to great deed, to give relaxation and care during moments of rest, to decorate their lives with dance, music, and verse, to admire with them and their deeds.
Women can also take energy from each other. They find girlfriends on the basis of this principle, gathering to form the circle of feminine power.
Therefore, as a rule, they usually have a circle of four friends: one of them is sexual, a second is clever and judicious, the third is emotional, and the fourth is thrifty and practical.
Women possess the ability to strengthen each other if different energies are revealed in them.
The Exchange of Energies
In the state of the lover we give him energy, and he should return it to us in the form of gifts, money, a social status.
You should never sleep with a man without receiving something in exchange. It deprives him of force, and you loose energy.
There is a rule of ten percent: all money invested in a beloved woman, comes back to a man tenfold, allowing him to grow and prosper.
If you sleep with a man, he should compensate your energy by giving you gifts, jewellery, money and, most importantly, a position in a society, a position as his wife, allowing you to pass into the state of a girl.
A man becomes a husband and returns us energy when we are in the state of a girl.
It sometimes happens that you give a man not only feminine energy, but also just spend your power on him: feed him, take care of him, and make decisions for him, without demanding anything in exchange.
But such self-sacrifice turns against you because the only man to whom you can devote yourself and give your all is a son.
If you will behave like this with a husband or a lover, he too will feel the mother in you, and it’s very dangerous for your relationship.
He will respect you, but will cease to desire you, because it’s impossible to sleep with his mother, there are the interdictions of incest. In this case the man will start to avoid intimate relations with you.
Men like to sponsor little girls, to buy them gifts, to carry them in their arms, to indulge them. That is why the state of the girl is very important.
However even the naive girl soon begins to bother, starts to irritate. It’s impossible to forget about the state of the queen when you are independent and free.
The man has to feel that you are one step from leaving him.
A woman should inspire a man, but at the same time to be interesting herself.
So, in the state of the lover you give energy, in the state of the girl you receive it, in the state of the homemaker you give again, in the state of the queen you receive.
But don’t forget that by giving a man energy, you take a risk. If the man is married, your energy promotes the prosperity of his family.
Thanks to you he earns more, develops his business, builds the patrimonial nest. And what do you receive? Nothing.
The long-term state of the lover in an affair is very destructive for a woman, it doesn’t matter if is she married or free.
If you are married, your energy goes to prosperity of another man instead of your husband. So you make the decision about where to live, in a palace with a husband or in a hovel near to the palace of the lover.
And if the wife has a lover? Then her energy goes to that lover, and the husband starts to be pursued by troubles, financial loss, missed opportunities, etc.
She reproaches her husband without understanding why the lover prospers while her husband becomes poorer.
There are very few women in the world whose energy is enough for numerous men.
If you know how to take energy from the elements, it’s safe for you to have lovers, but nevertheless it isn’t necessary to tempt fate!
This part resonates with me a lot. Most of my youth, I spent in the state of the girl and everyone wondered why I had no boyfriend. The Girl alone is mostly invisible and doesn't attract. The lover came with age and confidence, the Queen/Bitch came with Shera's wisdom and gold digging practice and I only showed my fiancee my homemaker side after we where engaged. (He said it was the best surprised how good I cook, he didn't know I could cook at all, up until the engagement we either ate out or he cooked for me)
The circle of feminine power by Larisa Renar. Im reading it now and it’s totally changed my energy. It’ll add an extra spark your femininity!