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Realizing I thrive when I’m around people who mirror back to me my lifestyle, hobbies, ambitions, education, and even aesthetic has been one of the most freeing experience I’ve had lately. Being mindful of the places you frequent is key to be in close proximity with your peers.

Trying to go and do things that “seem” correct because others do them but that contradict your nature is a recipe for disaster. Relationships are inherently exclusionary. That is a feature, not a bug. Become picky but not complacent in your pursuit of the right ones because your life satisfaction hinges on them.

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Some of you are not introverted, you’ve just been forced to shrink yourself and second-guess your existence in the context of groups, forcing you into isolation, social anxiety, and a visceral rejection of the very thing that ignites your soul: meaningful relations with other human beings.

Understanding this is crucial to shed that shy and rigid mold you’ve inhabited for so long. Your nervous system needs to be retaught to not fear being perceived or in companionship with others. You need to overcome past shame and embarrassment . You can’t afford to keep looping into the same cycles that are limiting your ability to build meaningful connections and live a more full and engaging life.

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Life seems to be moving fast because you live a monotonous reality. You need to escape the trap of the mindless routine before it consumes you. The last thing you want is to blink and realize you’ve lived a good chunk of your life in ways that blended all days together with a complete loss of time. Your life needs excitement, activities, quests, challenges, novelty on a daily basis. Life is not happening in your bedroom, head, or you phone. It is happening outside. Go live it, now.

#things ive learned #growth mindset

The moments of pain should be used to as a catalyst for good. Let anger drive you to work harder for the things that benefit and passionate you. Let disappointment make you more disciplined in avoiding the things that keep you distracted and separated from the path to greatness. But don’t let them extinguish the flame that drives you to show up for yourself everyday. Regardless of the actions of others you still owe yourself the best there is to to offer.

#things ive learned #growth mindset #healing #alchemy

There are parts of you that will only come alive around the right people and circumstances. Parts that you had no idea existed within your personality and that can give you a lot of clarity as to the things you truly want out of life and reshuffle what matters most to you.

There’s a thrill to discovering yourself.

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There is no greater teacher to someone who is deeply intuitive than life. Theory will never properly substitute experience. So many of you would be better served by spending less time dwelling in theory or trying to rationalize your way out of issues, and more time simply living life with an open mind to receive wisdom that only a lived experience can provide.

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I’m done intellectualizing my life. I’m ready to feel it. I’m done living in my head. I’m ready to simply embody and be. I’m allowed to be human. I’m allowed to be imperfect. My worth is not defined by anything external to me or the things I’ve gone through. My worth is inherent because I exist.

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6 years ago I lost my spark and went through immeasurable hardship and trauma trying to return to the version of me who used to command rooms with her aura alone and had unwavering faith in God and her own abilities to reach even her wildest dreams. There were many moments where all I wanted was to give up and where I didn’t see any light at the end of the tunnel. Moments that allowed fear and desperation to torment me to no end.

This summer I have finally recovered that spark back. I’m anchored again in my feminine, faithful, expansive, unapologetic self. I’m never going to take this version of myself for granted again. It feels so good to be back.

#growth mindset #healing #hopecore #things get better #faith journey #things ive learned

Take a moment to pause. Close your eyes and sit still for a few minutes. We live in an overstimulated world. The kindest thing you can give to yourself is the gift of a quiet and sound mind, intentionally.

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I'm doing it scared, but I'm doing it.

#reminder #keep going

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pposhspice

Ladies make your own money and instantly your self esteem and standards will increase.

hermajestyimher

I can't put into words the high and immediate self-esteem elevation that comes from knowing that you are financial free, intellectually capacitated through higher education, and building a top-tier reputation. It gives you something that your nervous system can't argue against: proof that your competency and capabilities have real impact in your life and the world around you. Understanding that you have options and agency will make your self-concept evolve much more than any form of affirmations or visualizations will, and as result, everything else begins to fall into place because desperation, inferiority complexes, and other forms of mental roadblocks become automatically lifted.

#things i've learned #education #levelingup #growth mindset #level up journey #healing

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dafancyuhinspiration

I've yet to come across a "feminine energy" influencer that effortlessly embodies femininity and doesn't behave in try-hard and awkward ways about it.

All the goddesses I've come across in my life aren't sitting in their cars yapping endlessly at a camera or writing essays policing how other women choose to express themselves and trying to dictate what constitute as "real femininity" and what doesn't. They simply embody their feminine essence because that is what comes naturally to them. It's an expression of their inner being rather than a conscious performance. They are their own muses before they are anybody else's and their self-concept is entirely rooted in self-assurance and confidence. They don't need to be taught how to express something that is at the core of their being. They can appreciate the beauty in other women without feeling threatened by it or by putting those other women on a pedestal, because they view other beautiful women as their peers, not as above them. They aren't forming weird parasocial relationships with celebrities or well-known online personas because they find enough fulfillment in their own lives and are fully satisfied and content with the body they inhabit. They don't fall easily into far-right and hateful pipelines because at their core they aren't bitter or angry at the outside world since they are not at constant war with themselves.

Insecurity is loud, confidence whispers. You can obsesses over "feminine energy" all you want, but if your approach to it is not something that you've cultivated through real self-love and self-discovery without trying to outsource your sense of self to others, people around you will still pick up on the insecurities, forcefulness, and performative act. Essence and aura are not something you can rationalize your way into. You must grow into them through experience.

#things ive learned #growth mindset #rant #femininity #should I make a longer Substack post about this?

thesophistiicate

i wish more women knew beauty is an energy. it’s not about fitting the beauty standard so much as it is that tender care for your body and effort put into your outward appearance (hygiene, grooming, personal style and having fun with it) creates a magnetic energy. it tells people to regard you as important because you prioritise time and energy spent solely on yourself. it doesn’t even have to be about appearance at all if it’s not of interest - notice the same energy in people who are very skilled at something, who took the time to be great, who invested into themselves through passion and self-respect. sometimes fitting the beauty standard does help our goals, but you’d be surprised how little it can matter once you focus your energy on how you present yourself regardless of the standards. move from a place of pleasure and passion and watch it all come together.

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Everything is spiritual and romantic in my world btw

#My life is deeply intense and I like it that way

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