Cooperation and harmonic integration isn’t just some superficial thing. ⚡️🩵🌸 ⚖️
It’s a deep ingrained sense of connectedness.
Feeling seen/heard/validated by someone OTHER than yourself.
You see, humans are social creatures.
Meaning you would not even be alive unless mating occurred. A deep sensual connection of MERGING with another being. Letting someone inside your soul. This connection came about from primal instinct but also the ability to feel with another being.
You see a person and feel a connection to them. Why? Because humans recognize other humans (and sometimes we are fooled by the masks others wear, even ourselves)
We long for that feeling of being— together.
The problem is tho usually people need HARMONY. And sometimes conflict or traumas or obstacles or instances occur when you may become primal again. But not for sex, but with rage.
Your nervous system is remembering SURVIVAL.
SO, you fight and manipulate and lie and cheat and steal and withhold. Humans play “mind games” because like I said we are social creatures, we are physically and biologically designed to be attracted to each other. (And whatever you’re attracted to is just a reflection of your own SELF, in a different form ) ……
because see we may be attracted and repelled as well because the social energetic atoms bounce off each other. It’s like a natural mirror reaction. If i act sweet, my man acts sweet. If my man acts mean, i act mean. Does that make sense?
It’s a mirrored reaction of fear, conflict, doubt, losing “control” .
We value our relationships and that doesn’t just mean romantic ones.
Mother-child, grandparents-grandchild, aunt-niece, best friend-best friend, lover-lover.
You have many social connections and some are joyfully high vibe and love/support while others can be tense, problematic, aggressive, resentful, rude etc. This is because people usually project and meet you where they are in their own way of the world. Meaning they cannot perceive past their own way of thinking seeing applying and understanding in a more open natural way. I understand sometimes it’s extremely difficult to trust people and connect because your nervous system remembers a time where you were once vulnerable and not cared for. Abandoned. Neglected. There is such a deeper way of thinking for life and living, and this is how I think. This is what I think about all day. 🌀 🌸🫠⚡️✨✨👀🫶🏻❣️
