Rain

It's a lot ik 💔

Its been a very very long path

Doesn't know what LGBTQIA+ is

Knows only what gay and lesbian are and I guess I supported it I never thought about it but I never thought bad about it. Also my "Ew love is disgusting it's like a virus" phase but I didn't know what was aromantic

Started to like a girl (Also the same girl I like now I never stopped) - "Am I lesbian?!" So I guess I was a questioning lesbian

Did some research and came out as Bisexual (But I liked girls more) and I was a proud bisexual for a good 8 months

Did some more research to find out about the other labels and came out as Pansexual :D I actually thought I was set.

A lil bit of questioning if I was trans ftm. Was questioning my gender for a good 1 or 2 months before finally coming out as Gender-fluid :D And was a proud Pansexual Gender-fluid for a good 4 months

Came out as Transmasc (This was actually pretty recent like around April or May)

3 DAYS AFTER COMING OUT AS TRANSMASC I came out as Panromantic Asexual :D

And that's me now :D An EXTREMELY PROUD Panromantic Asexual, Transmasc, and Gender-fluid person (They/Them) :D

Homophobic (yea idk, my childhood was weird as shit and me and little me do NOT align on like anything) > she/her straight + ace > she/her lesbian + ace > she/her pan + ace > she/they pan + ace > she/they/he pan + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he (identified as trigender) abrosexual + demiromantic + ace > she/they/he abrosexual + aroace > they/them lesbian > they/them bi > they/them pan > he/they aroace > he/him abroromantic + aroace > he/they abroromantic + aroace > he/they (with neos) abroromantic + aroace spectrum

:D yea idk a lot of these were weird in-between phases but like… had their time

clueless (and mind you raised muslim) -> oh cool gay people. Anyways -> oh no oh no best friend is hot oh dear… lesbian? -> wait but . men. -> men sometimes? -> omnisexual -> maybe some gender stuff -> nope nevermind -> ah sure why not

oh also new Tay loredrop lol

This is mostly guesswork and what little I remember, such is ADHD

Started knowing LGBTQ+ ppl exist and are cool(fav aunt is enby(dw they're okay with being called aunt) and aroace) -> nonbinary bitch -> nah defo a girl but also like girls I think? -> but girl doesn't feel right... -> she/they and people are gross -> no actually i love people romantically if I know them well, I think I just don't like mankind in general, sex is still super gross though -> WHAT THE FUCK IS MY GENDER -> I love everyone but cis men. Based. -> I haven't got a clue what I'm doing and quoiromantic is close enough to that so -> ooh neopronouns nice nice stealing those -> I think I'm girlflux -> nah nah am I demigirlflux? -> oh, nebularomantic! That's more like what I experience -> am I agender(still questioning) -> ✨️To Be Continued™✨️

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Didn't rlly care Abt it but was chill if u were lgbtq++ any/all pronouns I nevered cared Abt them ➜ bi curious ➜ bisexual ➜ pan demisexual ➜ omni demi ➜ ooooo did a lot of pride flag searching cuz the flags are freaking awesome and became Aego, cupio, and myrsexual ➜ Monoflexable, Lotusromatic ➜ Omnipanflux ➜ OMG CASSGENDERRRR any/all pronouns perfect label!!!!! ➜ oh wait I feel boyish genderfluid ➜ androgynous genderfluid faesari ➜ apagender any/all ➜ semifictoro ➜ still questioning Lithosexual and aroace

i said aroace seven times

The US Government is currently trying to pass an incredibly dangerous national law for trans youth called HR 2616.

This bill would ban all Federally funded schools from teaching about gender identity or sexual orientation, prevent teachers from using the correct pronouns and names for trans students, remove books with any trans representation in them, and even go as far as to prevent teachers from acknowledging trans identity AT ALL.

Any school that does not follow this will lose all federal funding. This bill would also require teachers to forcibly out trans students to their families, which would be fatal to any trans student with a transphobic Family or just hateful family in general. Trans people are already a group that already has some of the highest rates of being victim to suicide, domestic violence, and sexual assault.

This bill actively makes teachers put those innocent children at such a big risk. This bill has rapidly passed the house this week with support from all 209 republicans, as well as 8 democrats. But, it's still being voted on in the senate, which means there is still time to help stop this.

To help stop this, you can visit 5calls.org (look up 2616 in the search bar), one of the most top issues filed Oppose Attacks on LGBTQ+ Students. Once you put in your general location, it will pull-up contact information for your senator, and give you a script for calling them.

If you are a minor and/or do not feel comfortable doing this, PLEASE repost this on here, or any other platform you are on/can find! This needs to be heard and fought against.

Thank you for reading this, my lovely people!

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I’ll start first: I am actually married. Irl. I have a husband. I know it’s surprising considering the Tumblr spouses, but my husband thinks it’s funny.

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and i am doing art and music for gcse

I have a Level 1 qualification in Ballet and I have vasovagal syncope :P

I was also the most calm person in the ER.

I have a desk from my grandmother that is from the 1920s-ish?

One of my ear canals are notably smaller than the other. It makes it harder to clean, and it kinds hurts sometimes, but otherwise it has no effect on my life and I didnt even realize until a few months ago.

I unironically thought undertale took place in hell. I didn't figure that out until at least four years of knowing the game existed, when a friend was speaking about the game and I mentioned that. As it turns out, "the underground" is in fact, just a place underground.

When I was 13 I used to go to the master bedroom and hide my parents' lube. I didn't steal it for myself or anything, I just threw them behind their dresser because I really hated the possibility of getting another sibling and that was the best way I could think of preventing that.

three random facts:

1) i once stole a weed-related product from right behind an empoyees back and i had to go in my tiptoes to reach over a transparent plastic divider to get it. i have never been caught and that might be my riskiest sticky-fingered stunt yet. i keep a mental catalogue of surveillance in stores, on streets, etc. oh and for some reason i tend to sneak up on people unnoticed even though I don't mean to and it seems crazy sometimes -- like I'll be in steel-toed boots and embodying a large sillhouette and regardless only be noticed when I'm within like 3 feet of someone. this is of course an incredibly funny nature to employ for sibling-scaring purposes and trickery.

2) i have known my partner since we were 6 years old, longer than I've known my own sibling. she has seen the absolute worst of me and the best. she has helped me survive innumerable times. and though we have our problems, i am so lucky and glad to have her in my life. she is the only person who can make me laugh with little effort. being in her company makes me feel at home no matter where we are or what we're doing.

3) i have managed to gain around 20lbs give or take within approximately 3 months (though i suspect i am losing some of the weight unfortunately due to stress and the other factors that make it difficult for me to eat properly... I'm hoping I'll correct course on that by mid-July and am looking to gain another 5-10 lbs from my starting weight along with the existing 20lbs i may have lost some of. also my new brand of protein powder is total garbage and i will never get it again, I'm going to go back to the one i liked before hopefully even if it's on the pricier side)

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2. I planned the murder of a girl who hurt my bestie when I was in 1st grade with said bestie, we even thought about how to get rid of the evidence {cut the corpse up, burn it in the shady ass peice of land near our houses and launch the remains in a homemade firework}

3. I like to make things that remind me of my friends but I'm usually too scared to show it to them ;-;

My sense of direction is apparently very good (or so I've been told)

I never speak in public, like, at all

I only drink, and only ever will drink water

2.) i accumulate various things that i love inexplicably and they currently include a sloth plushie, a turtle on a necklace, a ring that is plain metal with black flame on the sides (its also like seven or eight years old) a green hoodie/jacket and several other knicknacks

3.) idk im not v interesting but ig i very much like physical affection? or I am actually pretty good at archery?

1. I used to kayak a lot as a kid with my parents. Basically my whole summer as a kid was at the lake just kayaking or stand up paddle boarding

2. Despite what many might believe at one point i was really religous and went to church every sunday with my dad and even gor confirmed into the church (methodist version of chosing jesus since we get bapistized as infants)

3. I couldnt read till I was 8

i used to have a H U G E frozen hyperfixation 😭

bendy. and short. meaning i can squeeze into shady places.

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i have a double nationality (i ain't telling what countries but i guess you can figure it out...)

my parents forced me to do extra english classes when i was like 7 i hated it but now im really glad

if i wear glasses meant for my prescription i get a headache, so i always wear low prescription ones unless i'm going to a concert or doing something that will be more fun if i can see far away

i've only gotten two haircuts in the past 4 years and both of them were just trims so my hair is about hip length now.. i get a lot of comments and people asking me if i'm going to cut it (tbh i want to, i just can't find a good reference picture)

in 3rd grade i found a bunch of graphic novels that were actually shakespearean plays (i didn't even know who shakespeare was i thought it was the brand 😭) and i was obsessed with reading them at the time for some reason?? my favorite was as you like it

Ok mine is not that fun but. I’m lactose intolerant.

I also have an addiction to dairy, so, figure that out.

Ummm I also used to have a pixie cut! I’ve been growing my hair out for like, I think 4 years now? I do miss her every once in a while. Having a pixie is such a fun experience and so is growing it out

3 facts because I overshare:

1. I won a national physics competition

2. I hate physics by now

3. I bake really well

I tried to crochet and failed miserably last year and I got so sad cause my sibling tried really hard to explain it to me and I still didn't get it. I was really upset.

uhhhhh i hand sewed my entire nikolai vest bc my sewing machine wouldn’t work anddd i used to play the violin 👾👾👾👾

Not really surprising, but fun fact:

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always wanted to be a bird. This is not a bsd or Nikolai reference because I’ve had this thought since I was like, idk three? The feeling of roaming in the sky as the wind hit your face, I would love to experience it one day. Leaving all problems behind and simply flying, sounds so carefree and peaceful to me.

So please shove me into a suitcase and being me along if anyone goes paragliding. Or if you know black magic, please turn me into a bird for a few days.

Okay, so a lot of people probably know a lot of this but I do say things once and then just... never again lmao buut!! Imma ramble, feel free to read

I have an insane past that I'm still learning about to this day, I am pretty open about that because I think it helps others be more open and feel comfortable talking about things

I am very disabled, I use a wheelchair sometimes, a cane sometimes and a walker sometimes(all of these things im getting better at "letting myself" do(i struggle with the concept of just letting myself get hurt instead of using these))

I love space. Everything about it, seriously. If I could go into space and there's like... zero chance of survival, i would, just to see it, feel it, smell it

I love analyzing people and characters with comparing what they did in their lives, how they did it and who they interacted with and putting together a well thought out analysis of them. If I could do that for my career I would, just to study them

Oh and im very queer but no surprise there and I have almost no labels that I use confidently

And i have controversial takes on specific people and things that i, if asked, will never shut up about

Oh and I'd learn every language if possible, I'm working on three right now

Anywho~

I don’t have many followers but something that yall probably don’t know is that I had eye surgery when I was six years old.

Oh another thing is I am lowkey really scared of storms— it’s not that bad anymore but when I was little I would have really bad panic attacks and would unfortunately throw up anytime I would hear thunder. (It apparently stems from an event from when I was a baby where lightning struck a metal shed that was like ten couple feet away and it was really loud)

Despite being canadian, I cannot ice skate.

I also have a collection of like– 5(?) capes and I was in french emersion for 9 years so I’m okay at french but don’t know the grammar rules of any language.

As someone from a hot country that's regularly on fire, here's some tips:

WATER IS YOUR FRIEND! WATER! IS! YOUR! FRIEND! You can transfer SO much heat into this bad boy! You cannot cool down without water!

Wrists under the cold tap. Splash your face and the back of your neck. Fan yourself.

In some countries you can buy a little handeld fan with a water sprayer.

Damp tea towel around the neck. Stick an ice pack in there on hotter days.

Half fill a water bottle with water, stick in freezer. If you use a bottle with a straw, make sure it's lying on its side with the straw side up and out of the water. When frozen top up the rest of the way with tap water and off you go.

Desperate to cool off? Wet T-shirt. Sit in front of a fan. This will nuke it, just don't get hypothermia and don't fall asleep like this.

Cold showers are also your friend in summer. Some people get psyched up by these. Personally, I sleep like a baby, so I'm good to have them before bed. Just keep in mind that it takes a bit of time for the cool to circulate, so your body will tell you that you're colder than you actually are. I find that when I have cold showers I need to step out of the spray when I think I'm cold... I'll just wait, and thirty seconds later the temperature has evened out and I actually need to step under again. Rinse and repeat until you maintain coolness even after stepping out for a bit.

If you can't do cold showers, turn the cold shower on anyway and just stick your arms under. When they're cold, lift your arms up above your head. The sensation of cool blood draining into your body is fucking weird and kinda unpleasant but less unpleasant than being hot.

Feet in a tub of water with ice. Blood naturally flows to your extremities when hot, so take advantage of this. If you don't have a tub of ice water, sticking a wet rag on your feet in front of the fan works too, it's the less powerful version of the wet T-shirt.

Drinks lots of water but make sure that water has electrolytes as well. Stay in the shade.

Keep air circulating. Fans don't actually cool rooms down, they just help transfer heat from your body to the moisture on your skin or the air via evaporative cooling.

Block north facing windows early in the morning so the sun doesn't get in. If you're in the northern hemisphere, this is opposite for you. Keep in mind that if your home is brick, the bricks will still heat up and slowly release heat into your home even after the sun goes down so this will only do so much.

If it's hotter inside than outside, close all your windows but two, making sure they're on opposite sides of the house/unit you're in. Point a fan out of one window, making sure that the doors between the rooms with the open windows are all open. This will help create a mini pressure system in your home, pulling cooler air in and pushing the hotter air out via the fan. Bonus points if you can get that fan high up where the hot air rises; even within a single room the top is much hotter than the air by the floor. Adjust the amount of open windows based on how many fans you have, but generally you want more windows with fans open than windows without fans to keep the pressure correct.

Obviously, use your common sense for these. Not everything WILL work for you, just use the stuff that does and adjust what needs to be adjusted. Some of these will be impossible to use in the workplace but others you can still use. Others are best used at home. If humidity impacts your ability to use any of these, get a dehumidifier if that's an option, or use more ice instead of evaporation.

Close off rooms you don't need if your house is large and all the cool air is getting too spread around from where you actually live. No doors? Get insulating curtains and spring-loaded tension rods to hang up in doorways and keep the cool air where you need it.

Once your house is as cool as the outside, turn as many fans as you have inwards in the windows to pull in a ton of cooler air-- and then shut all the windows before the day starts getting hot again. Keep windows shut and shades/blinds closed-- don't open the windows again until it's hotter outside.

Instant cold packs. Keep a few in your bag when you are out and about, then crack & apply one to the back of your neck once you can sit and rest somewhere in the shade. A frozen bottle of water is a great and reuseable cold pack to carry with you and put on the back of your neck-- wrap it in a small towel and put it in a ziploc so it doesn't melt all over your other things.

An umbrella is a parasol. A parasol paras (stops) the sol (sun). Portable shade if you have to walk around in the heat.

Get a hat with a brim and wear it, who cares if you're a hat person, keep the sun from cooking your brain and your skin.

A lightweight long sleeved shirt is sunblock. Lightweight pants, too.

Electrolyte drinks too expensive? Hydrate homemade-style: 1/2 tsp. salt, 1 tsp. sugar or honey, a splash of bottled lemon juice or coder vinegar per 16 oz. water. Bananas and oranges and watermelon are also great options.

Big bandanas are both handkerchiefs for blotting sweat and makeshift hats and sunblock for your neck/head. You can get a dozen for cheap at an army/navy or uniforms/work clothes store and online at (ptooey) amazon. And you can wet them in sinks/at water bubblers to apply cold to your skin.

If you can afford it, Mission neck gaiters really work-- wet & twist them, then wear. If you have to work outside they really do cool you down for hours.

Finally locked in and tried a Ryland Grace tile please everyone pray to the kiln gods that this piece comes out good and not like booty fart

Reference image under the cut! It is not mine, I found it on Pinterest and edited it to be high contrast 🩷