the weirdest thing about nonbinaryism is that people will get told they dont ‘look nonbinary’ because theyre just wearing plainclothes and dressed comfortably. instead of like. idk gothic eyeliner or fangs or a cape or flowing, long, gorgeous hair,

i got distracted. anyway why did we make nonbinary the third gender where everyones supposed to be sexier. its funny and like in theory correct but what about the normal people. what about the sweatpant wearears

sorry for adding a comment on your post but literally this. i want nonbinary to be boring. i want it to be mundane. i dont want people to look at me and go wohhh so androgynous swag. i just want people to go oh thats a person. stop elevating us higher thn others bc thats just othering us more. can we support nonbinary people who dont want to be special hot and sexy tiktok stars or whatever

actually thank you you made me realize this was because ive been on tiktok too much

Also we should perhaps let nonbinary people be fat

We literally don’t need to make you confused about what potential gender we are based off of how we’re dressed, projecting your gender assumptions because I’m dressed “masc” or “femme” does not change that I’m non binary and I literally always am whether I’m wearing a 3 piece suit, a ball gown, or my fucking sweatpants because they’re fucking comfortable and I don’t project my gender on my clothes!!!!!

I love nonbinary people. I love us for refusing to put ourselves neatly into boxes.

yall joke but this is actually a serious conundrun with cladistic-based classification

What if Bird and reptiles are two different things that came from the same thing

But don’t turtles and alligators have more in common with modern reptiles than modern birds have in common with modern reptiles? I’m not trying to contradict, I’m trying to understand. Mammals and reptiles have a common ancestor as well, but we do not make them the same group.

don’t throw reptiles against the wall? please? some of them are small and delicate. you could hurt them.

IIRC the fish thing is so frustrating that scientists have decided fish is just not real cladistic grouping at all

hey could we go back please to the bit where the closest relative of Birds is Crocodiles? bc I am alarmed

This entire post sums up everything we’re not allowed to mention in our Vertebrata classes because the last time someone started that argument they had to break up a fistfight.

*runs in ten minutes late with a plucked chicken* BEHOLD A LIZARD

you could have left the feathers on this time tbh

It was already plucked. They just STOLE IT from philosophy 101.

reblog to thank ur mutuals for providing enrichment to ur enclosure

Don’t assume you know me based on 8,000 confessional posts.

I discovered the ruse a bit faster than the former but she ALSO pulls clothes off the hangers by trying to “climb” them so she can sit on the top closet shelf.

get her a cat tower, she wants to be tall

“this makes me personally uncomfortable”, “this seems in poor taste”, “this is somehow harmful but presumably because you’re misinformed” and “this is actively malicious” are all different things. remember that

“this makes me personally uncomfortable”: the work has something that is awkward or triggering to someone, but nothing problematic “this seems in poor taste”: the work is fine, but it’s about something that maybe shouldn’t be joked about/the work has bad timing with the release lining up with a tradgedy similar to the events of the work like the episode tentacool and tentacruel from pokemon “this is somehow harmful but presumably because you’re misinformed”: the work unintentionally has some negative shit in it caused by a lack of knowledge, i.e. a cis person’s trans headcanons accidentally reinforcing negative stereotypes “this is actively malicious”: the work was made with the intention to cause harm

#this post needs to be mandatory viewing because the critique of work always being this black and white like… #‘the artist made a joke in poor taste therefore they are clearly an unapologetic violent fascist’ is like holy shit #please learn how to have a normal discussion  about problems without it being 0 to 100

My heart hurts

your paper is very sleepy

cat or ferret, cat or ferret- Nice.

me giving relationship advice: communicate or end it

Interesting; I didn't know this was a thing.

How relaxing it would be, what an immeasurable relief it would be, to not have beauty constantly expected, demanded, enforced. To just - exist, without the insistent demand that my appearance match others’ ideals, without being sanctioned for not fulfilling those ideals. Existing as a person, not expected to double as a work of visual art that exists for public consumption and public critique.