How much does high body count matter to you? Or how much do you think it should matter if you’re taken/not dating.
For the sake of the poll, assume that lesbian = gold star homosexual woman. I’m wondering how other radfems feel about this because in libfem spaces every woman acts as if a body count doesn’t matter. But in lesbian/bi spaces, people seem to care a lot.
High body count here is 10-15+ sexual partners by the time you’re 30.
It’s a dealbreaker (heterosexual)
It’s a dealbreaker (bisexual)
It’s a dealbreaker (lesbian)
I don’t care (heterosexual)
I don’t care (bisexual)
I don’t care (lesbian)
I only care if it’s with the same sex (for heterosexuals) or the opposite sex (for lesbians)
I’m bisexual and it makes a difference to me if it’s same or opposite sex partners
Nuance
How much does high body count matter to you?
It’s a dealbreaker (heterosexual)
It’s a dealbreaker (bisexual)
It’s a dealbreaker (lesbian)
it matters but is not a dealbreaker/nuance (heterosexual)
it matters but is not a dealbreaker/nuance (bisexual)
it matters but is not a dealbreaker/nuance (lesbian)
I don’t care (heterosexual)
I don’t care (bisexual)
I don’t care (lesbian)
I only care if it’s with the same sex (for het) or the opposite sex (for homo)
Option 11 (I’m bisexual and it makes a difference to me if it’s same or...)
Not a radfem/lean / results
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Not gonna lie if you bring up body count we are not compatible. If you think a woman is dirty after you touch her you need to look at your hands.
As a heterosexual woman I do care but I define high differently. If it's something crazy like 50, but I do not mind 10-15. According to that definition, I got a high body count myself lol but I don't think that it's actually high
