trying to shop for cool boots when you don't wear heels is like being put through the meat grinder

< lrb most people in fandom don't understand nuance but i could talk about that debate for a long time because there genuinely is a lot of nuance to it when you actually understand topics like porn addiction, mental health, harm addiction, and what it means to be kink critical but no one gaf. not to mention most of the ""puritans"" these people are fighting are just teenagers reacting understandably strongly to something gross

ugh feminism has made me come to terms with most of my facial features but i have genetic SUPER dark circles that i've literally had since i was like 4. nothingggg makes them even slightly better except makeup they make me look exhausted all the time .. so annoying