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@possumjerky
I went to the doctor yesterday, she told that I was biologically a useless lesbian, yeah sorry that's just what my chromosomes/gametes/endocrine system says. Yeah apparently. She said my brain sex is being too scared to talk to pretty women.
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I need to spend 3 more weeks playing synthesizers uninterrupted
Jetta Jem and The Holograms Stimboard
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World can't end before December
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THEYRE INCLUDING DEBORAH
Likely as the rival character! Ahahaha! Yes!
watching massive franchises bomb at the box office while Backrooms has made $212 million on a $10 million initial budget has brought me hope for the future of cinema
audiences do NOT want Star Wars slop, audiences want a movie made by a guy who really wanted to make a movie
I'm looking at you specifically here, Star War
They’ll give us everything but what we want (the Lando movie)
can we get one day a year where it's just trans women on earth
Unironically that would be so wonderful. I might even go swimming, and I definitely would go to bars or similar spaces I'd be too scared of otherwise.
Transmisogyny so deeply effects the ways in which I am interpreted in social spaces that its (incomplete, admittedly, given internalized transmisogyny would still exist) removal from those spaces would instantly change my behaviour. Even things like grocery shopping and my job would be just a joy if transfems were the only people who I saw.
I would really like to go out in a cute bathing suit and enjoy a pool or beach.
One of the ways transmisogyny manifests is in default-uncharitable interpretations of ambiguous meaning.
Last week I was at a meetup where I was the only transfem. I checked the groupchat when I arrived and there was a message from the organiser: "We have a newcomer called X, can you look out for him if you get there first?" I located X, introduced myself, sent a message to the chat say, "I have located X," and continued to talk to him until the organiser arrived. When the organiser arrived, she was not happy with me. It turned out my phone had autocorrected, "I have located X," to, "I had located X," which the organiser interpreted as me passive aggressively telling her that I had already done the thing she was asking about. Her conclusion: I was unreasonable and aggressive in responding to her reasonable request. My explaining what had happened didn't convince her otherwise.
A different occasion last week: in a local trans groupchat, a trans man sent a link to a drag event happening in our town. A few people said they were already going, some said they might go. Then a trans woman replied saying, "Thanks, but I don't really like drag." Her tone was immediately called into question. Her words were assumed to communicate: "I think you are a terrible person if you like drag," even though she never said that. Several non-transfems who had never even heard that drag might not be universally-beloved by everyone were upset to discover that fact. A trans woman simply saying she didn't like this thing became A Big Deal.
Meanwhile, at a different event again, a trans man told a group that he was straight and attracted to women, but he wouldn't feel comfortable bringing home an "AMAB woman" (yes he actually said that). It was quickly brushed over, and after he had left even trans women tried to defend him by saying "he probably didnt realise people would be offended" etc etc. In contrast to the examples above, he is not even aware that anyone was upset by what he said, never mind worrying about what consequences he might face.
Whenever I go to an event, I often spend the next 24-48 hours ruminating over every single thing I said to check if I did anything at any time that could even vaguely be construed as annoying to anyone. I have often put this behaviour down to severe anxiety, but I think I am realising that it is actually a rational response to a world where even the slightest social misstep could be blown way out of proportion and result in my later social exclusion. It's one of those things that existed long before I was aware of my own transness but while I was nonetheless transmisogynised by society, a crippling fear of the slightest imperfection that I assumed everyone else felt too but apparently they don't. I guess when other people go out of their way to smoothe over the damage your words or actions might cause, you don't need to stress about that damage because there are no consequences to it! It sounds very nice to be able to live like that.
I love this post because its absolutely correct about my/our reading back through every social interaction we participate in. Psychologists would probably pathologize that behaviour, but as you point out, it's a remarkably rational reaction to the way transmisogyny effects our day-to-day social interactions.
This is transfeminism!
Telling trans women they're "dividing the community" and engaging in "CIA shit" when they talk about transmisogyny and transfeminism is like telling Black people they're "dividing the labour movement" and engaging in "CIA shit" when they talk about anti-Black racism.
A labour movement that refuses to engage with racial justice will inevitably replicate the social systems of racial violence that dominate and permeate our society, and will therefore be unable to meaningfully challenge the capitalist system of which that racial violence is an essential tool.
In the same way, a queer lib movement that refuses to engage with transfeminism will inevitably replicate the social systems of transmisogynistic violence and will therefore be unable to meaningfully challenge the patriarchal system of which that gendered violence is an essential tool.
If at any point you find yourself telling a group of marginalised people, especially marginalised women, that they need to shut up about their concerns for the sake of "unity", you are in the wrong and you are dooming your activism to impotency and irrelevancy in the process.
Notably when the government did actually try to rip labour movements to shreds they did so by spreading racism in those movements, not anti-racism.
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why is it so hip and cool to say the r slur now last i checked it was a Slur 😐
you gotta be fucking with me, right?
literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"
you gotta be fucking with me, right?
literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"
you gotta be fucking with me, right?
literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"
this just makes me really uncomfortable. It is just the ‘man in a dress’ thing (also amab in a dress is literally man in a dress but with progressive language), except it’s not just drag queens or bad stereotypes, it’s now just reducing trans women into a ‘silly haha genderfuckery’ instead of us just being people. Can i just be a woman. Can i just be a real person. Can i live my life as a real human being that isn’t constantly seen as a political statement.
you gotta be fucking with me, right?
literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"
also the casual implication that someone coercively assigned male at birth presenting feminine is inherently "genderfuckery" or "mindfuck" as if that's a good thing like, as a transfem, i would in fact greatly prefer if people saw me presenting fem and just saw me as a woman (even if technically i'm nonbinary) but then again we all know TMEs don't ever think that far (also dishonourable mention to all the white emoji users in the reacts)
"gender challenging" is an insane euphemism for what it is transfems go through. boo hoo i'm so dysphoric because sexual assault is like a once or twice in my life thing instead of an ordinary condition for housing
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love your dollgirl
Girl whose most frequent mistake is inaction voice: wow I keep making mistakes I better not do anything
