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god take all my suffering and give it to Jake Paul

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At what point does someone count as disabled? How difficult does something need to be, or how painful or distressing does something need to be, before it counts as a disability? Does a given action need to be 100% physically impossible 100% of the time, and if not then that person is just lazy and deserves to be expected to power through it? (I am the person who is frequently being expected to power through things, which is why I'm asking.) In addition, there are things like, say, lifting extremely heavy weights, that almost nobody on the planet can do. What proportion of the population needs to be capable of doing something before not being capable of doing it counts as a disability?
Bottom line is I'm struggling a lot and I have frequently been on the verge of suicide at the prospect of doing several different things, a few of which I have actually succeeded in doing at the expense of extreme physical pain and/or mental distress, and I don't know if I have the right to consider myself disabled or not.
generally the best advice to give people is to give them the tools to evaluate disability enough to be secure in the fact that they are disabled, not disabled but have a health condition, or just not disabled at all. but I'm gonna be honest, causing significant and long-term distress is a qualifier of disability. i don't know the actual limits of what you can or cannot do, but you have to admit that most abled people don't want to die instead of doing tasks. you can call yourself disabled. you are unable to do certain (basic? essential? necessary?) tasks that would support you to live independently. also wrt to your question about how "unable" does someone have to be at a task for it to count, consider the metric that you should be able to do it:
safely (i.e. not at risk to yourself or others. are you always hurting yourself trying to do this task?)
unaided (e.g. without specific medical tools, someone else with you, someone prompting you to do it, etc )
regularly (!!! you have to be able to do it more than once at a reasonable timescale. for example if you can eat without supervision once a week but 6 days a week you need supervision then that's not regular enough)
also to be frank, whether or not you feel comfortable calling yourself disabled has no impact on the fact that you are struggling. i wish being disabled was an acceptable reason for other people to acknowledge your difficulties, but often it isn't. the mindset you have encountered about "powering through" is classic societal ableism and they will tell this to anyone, no matter how impaired. i still think it's meaningful to realise that you are indeed disabled when you are, but you don't have to be disabled to struggle. and you don't have to have to meet a threshold of suffering or distress to be worthy or deserving of help. whatever you can do to make your life more bearable to live, i suggest you go for it.
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I lowkey hate when programs talk to me in a friendly way. "don't worry, nearly there!" Shut up. It should say "loading 64.3% completed. Do not turn off device" and absolutely nothing else. You arent my friend you are computer. Act like it
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There was a post literally talking about this and how tumblr was nuking trans account but right as I tested it, my app closed out. It was working perfectly fine earlier. Staff you are fucking wretched

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if theres one thing that really pissed me off from my 3 years of architecture i took in high school it's learning about how we used to have all these little techniques to maximize or minimize heat or warmth and now we just merrily abandoned all those to have the same copypaste style buildings everywhere that are often INCREDIBLY unoptimized to the local weather and climate so we can just throw more money at our heating and cooling bills
where i live it is hot as balls approximately 80% of the year. i do not want a massive butt-ugly grey mcmansion with a huge echoey open-concept kitchen-livingroom-foyer-diningroom-staircase that has huge windows so i can have an hvac unit the size of a barge heaving and straining to keep it at a constant 72 the grees. i want a north indian traditional style home with small windows to force the airflow to cool, decorative grates to limit the amount of sunlight, and a COURTYARD with a POND *smashes unspecified large object*
I hate learning about instances of "oh yeah we know how to do that, we just don't".
this is exactly why I love talking about historical passive heating and cooling techniques
oh wow the glass-tower office buildings we constructed when we thought air conditioning and central heating would never have downsides...have downsides?
and we're still building them?
while the Victorian house museum where I work, with thick walls and small windows and big wooden shutters stays ~10 degrees above (winter) or below (summer) the outside temperature for days on end with no help at all?
uh. okay then
(also public transit. the history of public transit in the US is infuriating, because we had it! and then we destroyed it!)
At the post office today:
Man with beautiful silver undercut and a coach bag: can I get a sheet of stamps please
Clerk: does it matter what kind?
Man, with homosexual despair: EVerything matters to me, unFORtunately.
I need people to understand this, even though it’s been repeated thousands of times before:
There will always be people who are more disabled than you.
This statement does NOT take away from your experiences and how they have impacted you. This statement does not say that your needs are not as important. This statement is not a personal attack on you.

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The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.
my bugbear of the day is that i think its odd when people say "femme trans man" or "masc trans woman" they automatically assume it means no hrt. nothing stoppin someone from going on estrogen and also being butch. you can be 8 years on testosterone and be camp about it. being gnc is a whole spectrum babey open your eyes.
Characters who are like “let’s run away together let’s get away from all this” when it’s already too late!!!!!!!
This is literally what people are talking about when they say AI will be used to mainstream widely held bigotry. LLMs are trained on frequency and probability -> straight relationships are more well represented in the dataset -> straight pronouns and terms become the "correct" normal.
This is a form of backdoor bigotry from both normative facts (there are more straight than gay relationships) and well represented bigoted beliefs (men are superior to women).
Combine this with the mass of people inclined to believe (and being encouraged to believe) that if AI says and does something it must be correct
I worked briefly in regulating AI back when the US actually believed in that and this was exactly the shit that I, the single queer enby in the office, spent trying to beat into the heads of all the white straight men around me.
It is worth noting that as one of its first actions, the Trump administration pulled federal funding and halted federal work on preventing bias in AI (and then proceeded to rip up all the guardrails I and my fellow ethicists had installed).
There is a reason the AI shitsunami has hit over the last two years and it's that someone went and erased all the regulations.
Sigh.
“imagine there’s no countries” fuck off john lennon how are we supposed to play the world cup without countries you ultimate scum

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"AMAB" i mean so what. i was jaundiced at birth too but nobody seems to want to assign social significance to that. they should though. they should assert that i will always have a jaundiced soul no matter how much urine i process. and mock me for my weak faggot kidneys #myweakfaggotkidneys
There's always something so painful about watching a pretty good actor fighting for their life to give a decent performance of an absolutely dogshit script. Putting their whole heart soul and pussy into delivering the stupidest lines you've heard in your life. My god. We have to get them out of there