"come my darling, homeward bound,

when all is lost, all is found."

A heart beats inside a body.

The energy flow expands from the inside to the outside.

The multiverse isn't out there to begin with.

Thank you so much🩷 I'm so happy hearing that!! I should really post more haha.

I would love to share more!!! I've been in the community for a little bit over 6 years, it's just that I haven't shifted a lot to my DRs (yet) but I definitely have a lot of experience in terms of dealing with negative emotions and thoughts while being a shifter, hence all my posts talk about it.

I'm a bit skeptical that it would be interesting to listen to haha.

What’ll work for me, what won’t, I wonder all the time.

Sometimes I wanna give up after a couple days but this time I’m standing strong and I’m kinda proud of me for it

I'm proud of you too dear one!! It can get too much at times and it's important to realise that no matter how many ways there are, there is only one destination. Your DR.

You don't have to try every way. You can start with the ones that call out to you. If you want to shift by being relaxed, you can try shifting when going to sleep. But only if it feels the most like you. You don't have to force yourself. It is important to remember that while we experience many things, those things are also experiencing us.

Say what it is as it is in front of you.

So what if you woke up in your CR again today?

Did the world end? Did the sun fall down?

No right?

Chill.

You already know you want to shift. You already know you did through a future version of you.

You already carry the knowing.

Express what you feel in the now and move on.

Your desire is right with you. It's guiding you every moment.

There is no reason to be afraid. And even if you are afraid then...say it. It's just fear. It's just disappointment. It does not guide anything.

You guide it.

to be honest, i would love some advice on how to deal with s/o jealousy, specifically when it’s them in this reality being shipped with and or dating someone else. my s/o, here is extremely popular on youtube and tiktok, that sort of thing—and with being popular, he gets shipped often with lots of girls. the issue is that lately, the rumored relationship seems to be real and very possible.

in no way am i hating on them or will ever hate on anyone in any sort of way, i guess what im saying is..how do i get rid of the feeling? it sucks. i get a pit in my stomach and insecure when i see the beautiful woman he seems interested in. but i never talk about it because i dont want to seem parasocial or crazy. i get discouraged from shifting when i see it because it makes me sad that i might never experience being with him — i know that he’s mine in a totally different reality but it still sucks to see it. any tips on how to get rid of this mentality? i appreciate it so much!!

hiii! I got complimented!!?? brb my ego is on cloud nine at the moment!! thank you sm!!(⁠ʃ⁠ƪ⁠＾⁠3⁠＾⁠）

Dear one, why are you being sooo hard on yourself?? Of course it sucks!! These feelings are natural. Very very natural. No matter what reality it is, in the end that person is your s/o and you want to be with them so obviously it is hard seeing him with someone else. I get it, truly, like if my s/o was shipped with multiple people I would cry oceans because, well, he is dear to me and no matter what reality it is, my love for him never ceases.

Do not beat yourself up for such things. There is no need to put yourself down for feeling this way. Have a different look at it. You feel this way because the feeling arises from your love and want for them. What you should do, is talk about it. Talk about how it makes you feel. Holding it in will only make you feel worse and spiral even more. And it's probably why you feel so discouraged because those feelings keep looping inside of you instead of moving outwards from your body. We don't need that now do we? It does not make you parasocial or crazy. It will make you feel much better and the pit in your stomach will pass on it's own. Acknowledging your feelings is the first step to a healthy mindset. No matter how crazy or insane the feelings might be.

So, talk about your sadness, your insecurity. Express them to yourself. Cry if you need to. It's okay. It doesn't mean that you have a negative mindset. It just means that you're now aware of your emotions and you wish to let them pass. It does not make you crazy. It makes you human. Feelings always move us forward. Maybe you'll realise something interesting on the way as well. Who knows? So have some compassion for yourself and let yourself breathe. I know you can do it!!

You also do need to realise that this reality is one of many. Just because your s/o is with someone else here does not mean they're not with you in your DR or that you can't achieve being with them. Tell yourself some positive things along with expressing the negative. You can be with him. He is yours in your DR. You can do it. The version of your s/o here and the one in your DR maybe the same person but they're very different versions of each other with different life experiences. And you love them just the same. It's very beautiful little shifter. Plus, in your DR, you are the beautiful person he's interested in!! You still are that gorgeous individual right now, doesn't matter what reality it is. Do not forget!!

hi hi!

hi hi! first of all, girl is u me?? omg!!

I relate so hard to this. You came to the right person lol it's like I'm seeing my past self talking. I know it is such a disappointing feeling to go through all that over and over and I completely understand why that would take away your trust with yourself when it comes to shifting. I'm gonna tell you what I wish someone would've told me. I don't want you in the same horrible loop of persistence and hoping while your feelings are just wishing to be seen.

Dear one, it's clear that doing all this is not working for you and also making you feel worse as after every try you doubt yourself even more which ends up fueling the desperation. So let's stop for a minute and let loose. You're doing everything right little shifter. It's not you. It's the stupid expectations that are put on us that say "you have to do this in a certain time limit or you'd be back to square one" (let's all scream boooo!!!)

In the end only you know what you can or cannot do but sometimes, people need a little nudge. My advice here would just be to go a little crazy. You cannot ever completely let go of something that you want so bad. The good news is, you don't have to. Express your want. Express your desperation. Express your disappointment. Express that you don't trust yourself when it comes to shifting without affirmations anymore or whatever you feel like saying in the moment. It's okay. This will never put you behind. In fact, it's going to take the burden off your shoulders. Cry. Scream. Rage. But don't forget to have some compassion for yourself. Just pour your feelings out into the world. If you want to set an intention? Do that. It's always in the background once you set it. The intention is you. It is your want. Even if you don't set an intention, your want is always leading you to your desire and vice versa.

You affirm desperately because you love your DR so much and trust me, that's completely fine. (SO NORMAL!!) Don't fight the affirmations if your mind wants to say them. Just say them. Whether they are set in trust, desperation, doubt, acceptance or certainty. A little desperation makes us ambitious (sometimes I guess bleh). I highly believe that your desperation and doubt just want to be released. So talk about it. It will help you so much.

You don't have to do anything to shift. Just release and talk about what you're feeling in the moment. Your heart knows what you want. It's leading the body. In my experience, we already have all our desires within and to see them in the 3D (still hate saying it!) we just have to keep moving energy that makes us feel stuck. In this case it would be desperation and doubt. We don't have to do anything or saturate the mind (uhm i hate that sm! no offense but gods it is exhausting) so don't fall into that either unless you actually do want to do that. Our bodies naturally know what to do. This is why desperation arises, why doubt arises. To be expressed. If it keeps coming up, keep talking about it. It keeps the energy moving. This way, all those feelings will move forward and out of the body and you'd have actual space to embrace newer feelings of trust and confidence.

In no way will talking about what you feel will make you manifest negative things. Do not ever fall for that. Forced positivity is just as twisted. Let go of that cage. Expressing the negative is just as important as saying the positive affirmations. Say whatever you want to in the moment. Do not limit yourself. There is no external thing you have to do unless you wish to do it. The more you express what you actually feel, the more clearer your mind becomes and you feel "aligned" with your desire. We are always aligned with what we want as the want itself is alignment but clearing up space in your mind and body makes us see that much better.

You're not "not" shifting because you're desperate or you affirm in a certain way or because you're setting your intention wrong. So throw that out the window. We look for complicated ways to solve things but the simplest ways always lead us the furthest. Try this out for once and see where it takes you. It will help build the trust back up that you lost because of a horrible feedback loop. Trusting yourself to say what you feel in the moment will help you regain a solid foundation which in turn will help you when you hit any hard walls. That is, always knowing that you can go within and trust yourself to deal with the situation at hand.

Slowly but surely, you will see that you just had to be there for yourself and have some compassion for your journey. Waking up in this reality is not a failure. Realising this is already a success in your shifting journey. Remember, the body is not against your desire, everything that you do and feel is a step further in getting the said desire in the physical cause it already exists in our mind.

I believe in you little shifter! You can do anything you put your heart to. Take it moment by moment and before you know it, you'll be back home.

hi hi!!!

You have nooo idea how happy it makes me to hear this. Many people forget that emotions do not take them on a wrong path but actually help in remaining consistent to oneself. I am so grateful that my account can be such a reminder for you.

And you're right!! Once you just start feeling your emotions, just acknowledging them can take off a great burden from your shoulders. Your emotions do not pull you down!! The thing is you can't "fall" in a way that is irrelevant to your journey. You sitting in your emotions is still you moving.

The result may not be "immediate" (oh no!!the big word!!) but it's a start. And that's all you need. A little push is better than a big step anyway. Do not be discouraged with your experiences. (Or be!! lol whatever you feel in the moment) In the end, your knowing will prevail.

Desperation

/dĕs″pə-rā′shən/

noun

1. Love spilling from the cracks.

You say, "I know I am god and it is all within but I've tried everything and nothing works- I am desperate to shift."

I reply, "Of course you are. But what is want if not sharp talons clawing at your ribcage begging to be seen?"

You are god, but you are also human.

Everything exists within you, but you also exist in this physical realm.

You have it within, that much is true, what else do you think is begging to seen and heard?

Where do you think the desperation comes from?

What do you think the desperation truly is?

It is not an outside force that puts you to your knees hoping to get something.

It is the want, the desire within that is asking to be acknowledged.

Many people think desperation is because of fear, lack or worse, separation. How silly it is to even say that.

Really? Separation? Your desperation does not arise within you because you are lacking or seeing yourself as separate from the source. It is impossible to be separate from the source as you are it and the desperation is also, within you, within the source.

You feel desperate because you love your desire, the experience of it and you wish to have it in the now, to experience it now. In this physical reality. Whether it is an escape for you or a way to feel happy, it is yours. Desperation is not separate from the desire. It is not against your desire, neither is it pulling you away from it.

I know everyone thinks that if we truly have the desire, you wouldn't feel desparate or we would just be at peace but that's not actually true. When if you could shift on command there will still be moments in this reality or in your DRs where you will feel "out of control" or desperate. Not because we cannot change the thing, but because it is just an emotion that stems from a want or an experience.

You already have your desire in the mind. You have everything there. But the feelings? They are the body. They are the physical reality you wish to move. The movement that you want to see. Feelings are the movement. So when you place a reason to your feelings, such as saying that I'm desperate to shift because I haven't yet or vice versa, anything really, you're placing a reason to something that has no meaning. You can give it any meaning of course. But an emotion in the end, just wants to be felt and expressed.

I truly hate how it is portrayed here. The physical aspect of manifestation I mean. People can be so cruel in the name of persisting. You don't even need to persist to shift. You don't need to persist in anything to get your manifestation. Your heart already knows. Your body already knows. Your mind knows. Once you want something, it will show up sooner or later. That one moment of want is in every action that you take. Not specific, not only when. Every action. The feelings that come up, is the want in all aspects. Feel them. Feel the desperation. Say that you are desperate. Acknowledge it. Get angry. Get jealous. Feel whatever is brought upon the body. Every feeling is leading you to your desire. It is not pulling you away.

You have to realise this. Everything happens within you. You are everything the same way you aren't. You have your desire, the same way you don't. It is all the same. The feelings of having and not having are all within you. It won't change the truth that everything already exists within you. That you already have it. So let the body do it's thing and flow with the feelings, with the ocean. Not against it, but with it.

Everyone credits the mind and discards the heart as always with the same repetitive advice. It is awful to see. Why do we always put our emotions in boxes and disregard them simply because they're "interfering" with our "end state"? Is the state so weak that it can't handle the desperation your desire makes you feel? If this so called state can't handle the desperation then it can't handle the desire either.

Words are thrown away to people who are genuinely suffering and loosing their minds affirming and are being told that their feelings mean one thing or the other when in truth, feelings are just to be felt and expressed. So what if you are desperate? It is an emotion and it will pass, it does not affect manifestation or shifting. What if you're begging to shift? It is also an expression that is being expressed, it does not affect your next shift.

We need to have some compassion for people who are actually sharing what they feel and think instead of telling them to keep affirming and persisting. So what if someone is not in the right mindset or needs to work on their self concept? Are they not capable? Are they not shifting right this very moment?

Everything you do is a part of your shifting journey. The desperation, the begging, the hoping, everything. All of this is not stopping you from shifting and neither is it putting you behind. It is a part of it. Every emotion you feel and every thought you think is leading you to your next shift. There is no reason to become a robot to manifest instead of a just being a human.

I'm in no way putting people down who manifest through persisting in one thought or robotic affirming. Obviously it works. I've manifested plenty by doing that as well. But like I've said before, it did not fit me in the long run. So this post is especially for people who's feelings are too deep to ignore. Who are tired of persisting and keep beating themselves up over and over for feeling hopeless or thinking that there is no way out just cause they feel something other than the knowing that they've shifted.

You manifested (and still manifest!) things all the time as a child. You didn't affirm then. You didn't persist. The only thing guiding you was your want in emotions and in thoughts. But now you have to affirm or ignore emotions now? I didn't realise there were rules to it that changed as we grew up. Don't fall for such things and cut yourself short.

Feelings are way more intelligent than we give them credit for. They were here before words, before the mind learnt how to form them even. You feelings are not a result of anything but yourself. They arise to be acknowledged and felt not to be discarded. If ignoring them works for you, then do it. Not what I'd recommend but whatever floats your boat. (not trying to be passive aggressive here!)

But you can always just let yourself exist little shifter. There is no need to do what someone else says. If you think that this post is useless then there's no need to listen to me either. Do what you want. Feel what you want. Please let yourself exist. Shifting is not a result of something. Ignoring your feelings is not a necessity at all. Having negative emotions or saying negative thoughts will not put you behind. They are just passing waves of energy. Let them pass. In the end you know the truth. You know one day you'll do it. That is the desire itself manifested.

Chill. Seriously. Chill.

You can say that you didn't shift. That you don't have hope anymore. That you don't believe you'll ever shift. Literally anything babe. Words are words. You're just expressing feelings. That's all words ever do. That's literally the point of them. To express the feeling.

It's okay to feel this way. Whatever the feeling is. Relax or don't if you're pissed off right now! It literally doesn't matter. Feel. Scream. Shout. Be negative as hell. Let it out.

You think that way cause you feel that way. Let it pass through.

It is okay to complain that you didn't shift and that you still see your CR. It's not holding you back. In fact it's actually helping you by you allowing yourself to feel what you feel and decreasing frustration and burn out along the journey.

Stop harming yourself in the name of persistence.

Pause and breathe.

One thing I've noticed about shiftblr after coming back here almost a year later is that people are still afraid to admit what's going on in front of their eyes. In the name of persistence and deciding, everyone keeps putting so much pressure on themselves for the situation to get better, to feel better, to shift. And while that works (for some) it is the harder road to satisfaction.

Many shifters here have tried everything, have lost hope, keep asking for advice on asks (no judgement!), keep persisting but still say that they have/see no movement. Of course there will be none. You're begging yourself to shift. I can relate here honestly, I was you and sometimes I still am you. But ignoring emotions and the "3D" (I hate calling it that) will only make you feel worse.

While affirmations and persistence works for many, we are all different. Moreover, they are methods, not the thing that "get's" you your manifestation or your next shift. I always get horribly sad still seeing people struggling and getting the same advice of keep persisting. I used to say the same thing back in the day but not anymore. What's wrong with saying that you didn't shift if you wake up in your "CR"? What's it going to do? Make you not shift? If shifting is your entire being, then why is that sentence the exception?

Expand your awareness people. Acknowledging what's in front of your eyes will not put your behind. It's just acknowledging. You're saying what you see in the now. Whether it's saying that you didn't get your manifestation or that you didn't shift. They are just words. Feelings you feel hence you express them. They will not change the knowing in you that eventually you will shift. Because, in the grand scheme of things, you did shift, you did get your manifestation.

Stop being afraid of being afraid of your feelings, of your words. I've only recently started doing this as well. Before I too used to say that I've shifted when my reality showed me the opposite. Affirmed, persisted. Now, I'm not saying that it won't work, it works for a lot of people. But I was always burnt out. Tired. Angry. Frustrated with myself for not being able to persist. Have you ever thought that these feelings are not the "old story" (Hate saying that too) showing up but just your body telling you that, Wait, hold on, I need a moment. The body knows more things than the mind. It communicates in every word and every feeling. Why do you think you keep going on even after so many "failures"? Listen fellow shifter. Your want is already your desire blooming in you.

The feelings you ignore in the name of your persistence are your compass. The "negative emotions" are the path you'll walk on. It's insane to me that everybody claims that you already are the thing but you have to keep believing and persisting to get it? You already are the thing so whatever you say, whatever you do will lead you to it. The "3D" is not out to get you. It's waiting on you to start moving. Thoughts are movement. Feelings are movement. Expressing them is the fastest movement of all. No emotion, no matter how negative is holding you back. It's always pushing you forward. So express it. Express your disappointment. You anger. Your frustration. Your hope. Your tiredness. These are not high blocks that are keeping your manifestations from you. They are building blocks. They are the path you're walking on. "The stairs you climb."

Say what you feel when you feel it. Say what you want when you want to. Positive or negative. Do it in your own way. Say that you didn't shift. Say that you wish to shift. Say that you hope you will. Say it. You will feel a lot better admitting what you feel in the moment instead of slapping affirmations that you don't believe on it. It's a huge misconception that saying the negative will manifest the negative. People need to take a breather. Words do not mean anything unless you give them meaning. You shift every moment. Saying that you didn't shift when you wake up in your CR will do nothing but just make you feel lighter over the release of energy that you once held within you. Move with the feelings, not against them.

Yes, it is true that you're already in your DR. But you're also here. Why make it harder for yourself focusing on one thing and ignoring the other? It is one of the reasons why everyone is so burnt out. Express your feelings. Talk them out. It doesn't matter if you shift every moment. That sentence doesn't mean anything if you feel like it's not true. So express your displeasure. Stop holding back. Seriously. Just start talking about whatever comes up. It will clear your head, make you feel lighter and overall help your shifting journey. You'll shift. You know this already. That's why you keep trying. And if you're disappointed along the way? So what? Say it. The ending you already know.

Nothing stops a shift. Not even saying that it isn't here. If you feel like it isn't, then say it. You already feel that way hence the words. Holding it back will just anger you further. I speak from experience here. Do not let the world tell you what you can and cannot do. The compass is you. The path is you. The movement is you. The shift is you.

Ω 𓊈м𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑡. σ𝑙𝑦𝑚𝑝𝑢s𓊉 Ω

peaceful days and soft wind,

can feel as cruel as a scream in these intricate stone walls.

what must you do to be free?

run away.

be a runaway god.