Dave The Butt

I remember when wearing men’s clothing felt daring and deviant - like something i had to apologize or ask permission for. I had to find excuses to chop my hair off or to wear a tie. I was worried what people would think whenever I left the house. I remember my mother begging me, only tree years ago, to change into something else, anything else, rather than wear a suit to a wedding (”I’m not ready for people to know about you,” she said, when I stared her down and adjusted my tie).

I used to walk into men’s clothing departments holding my breath. I’d walk quickly, head low, heart racing while I mentally prepared excuses in case anyone asked. I’m shopping for my brother. My cousin. My friend. I’d try to look vacant and disinterested, lest they see me wanting and know what I was, as if it wasn’t obvious. 

Be proud of who you are. Wear the things you want, get that haircut you’ve been too scared to get, and live life how you want to live it! 

Ways people draw elf ears:

okay but PSA about rabies:

i just wante d people to b safe cus i love and care about people and you mock me like this

My brother: What’s air ‘bnb’ stand for?

what about cats getting way too big to be held

sorry to be cringey but can we stop this idea that every furry is a sex hungry freak that likes bestiality and has really disturbing kinks. being a furry is just thinking anthropomorphic animals are interesting and cute. theres nothing inherently sexual about being a furry. just because someone says “im a furry” they arent necessarily confessing to you how they get horny for foxes with tits or diapers on dogs or something. so when u see someone make a fursona or draw an anthro animal, dont immediately think “they wanna fuck animals”. sometimes its just that….anthro animals….are fun to draw. 

Of all the things I keep trying to tell cis people, “don’t presume your child’s gender” is the one that they consistently, deliberately refuse to understand and it is so deeply telling.

I’m too tired to deal with this properly but I’ll try my best.