Hello, I'm Oliver! I'm a chronically ill artist and writer from the UK. I create for OCs and an array of fandoms, mostly FE, Tales Of, LoZ and XC alongside numerous others. 18+ at times with mature labels. AO3:Â https://archiveofourown.org/users/Oliver__Niko
it's very frustrating seeing otherwise well-structured posts about media literacy and critical thinking bookended with statements about "nowadays", "nobody has literacy anymore", "this generation is so anti-intellectual", and the like, unquestioningly falling into better past fallacies.
Do we really think the 80s and its Satanic Panic were better at critical thinking? what about the 40s? the Victorian era? societies have always had problems with critical thinking and literacy, because most societies have dealt with propaganda, corrupt leadership, difficulty providing education (due to poverty or discrimination or other issues), and/or people who resist critical thinking (due to privilege or circumstance or what have you). we can criticize media trends without pulling a "well back in the GOOD OLD DAYS" about it.
Also letâs noooot talk down to people with low literacy skills, okay? You have absolutely no idea what led them to that. None of my grandparents could read past a maybe third grade level, because by the time they were 10 they had to work on the farm full time. My mom got pregnant at 14 and was pulled out of school. When my dad was 15, his parents left the state without him, so he had to get a job and quit school. Not everyone is lucky enough to have good parents and good teachers and community resources and all the other things that go into high literacy rates.
If you are really concerned about this, there are ways to help! Your local library may have adult literacy/computer skills classes, and they are often looking for volunteers! Local schools may have opportunities for you to work as a reading tutor. You could start a Little Free Library in an underserved community that needs the extra reading materials. Fundraise for your local learning centers. Attend public library board meetings. There is so much you can do!
Yes, thank you! Youth homelessness exist. Childhood refugees exist. Cognitive disabilities ad learning disabilities exist. Memory loss, brain fog and brain damage exist.
And let's not forget that most people on the English language internet are not communicating in their first language.
'Literacy' isn't something everyone can just get by 'putting in the work'. Fuck that 'pull yourself up by your bootstraps' nonsense and get a little less ableist about literacy right now.
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hello instagram artist. your challenge is to do a portrait study of a woman but youâre not allowed to stylize them so their eyes are really big and more cat eyed than the reference photo. Youâre also not allowed to make their noses more of a button nose or their lips full and pouty or their faces heart shaped with no double chin. Also you have to draw a fat woman. one thats actually fat and not just slightly curvier than the kpop demon hunters body type. good luck
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I Am Not Your Asian American Doll: a comic for AAPI Heritage Month 2023
I usually spend a lot of time editing and fine-tuning my comics so that they come across as polite and inoffensive. But honestly, Iâm really tired of the way Asian cultures and countries are treated / talked about while Asian people themselves are excluded, and thought it was about time I really let my rage out lol.
I was very nervous posting this because of my decision to not restrain/limit my tone in writing this comic, but I donât regret it one bit. Thank you for your support đđ”đđ°đ·
âI Am Not Your Asian American Dollâ turns one year old today! To honor its anniversary and this yearâs Maysia Iâll share some of the artistic choices behind the comic.
My main inspiration was the work of feminist artist Barbara Kruger, who you may know from âyour gaze hits the side of my faceâ and âyou construct intricate rituals which allow you to touch the skin of other men.â I wanted to pair really shocking, striking words with high-contrast monochrome images as she did.
I chose eyes (and lack thereof) as a central motif. In conversations about art and media history, the âgazeâ of the audience is a way to exert power. Who is made into the passive subject, and who gets to be the all-seeing viewer? Who is the subject being portrayed for? Hiding the Asian figuresâ eyes demonstrates their lack of agency and establishes them as the subject rather than the viewer.
The skyline on page 5 includes Namsan Tower, as some readers pointed out. (You may have also been clued in from the pageâs respective alt text, which describes this as the Seoul skyline.) Though numerous Asian countries have been victims of imperialism several times over, Korea was specifically in mind here. It was Western powers who Korea was split into the North and South, and their colonization and exploitation has led to extreme poverty even today, despite the countryâs glamorous facade and rising international stardom.
As many guessed, pink was chosen for its association with sexualization and femininity, although of course fetishization of Asian cultures affects all genders. I also wanted to pick a dark, shocking pink that reminded the viewer of blood; in fact, it is used to color blood here on page 6. I was really happy that the color palette was limited but still legible. (But drawing the large food spread on page 4 with only three shades of pink was definitely a huge challenge.)
Here are some thumbnail sketches I made when planning the comic. You can probably recognize some of the final pages â and see how others evolved!
I want to thank everyone for their overwhelming support for this comic. I never could have dreamed of such an amazing response. To my Asian siblings across the world, you made me feel less alone. To non-Asian allies who lent me their ear, thank you so much for standing with us and listening to our struggles.
Usually Iâm extremely careful to write my comics in a palatable tone, but for this piece I decided to not restrain my anger. I understood that by making this decision I would be sacrificing readership, and that many people would be much less willing to listen to me because of my tone. Nevertheless, I truly believe that any and all of the harassment I received was a small price to pay for such an honest piece to be seen.
Thank you all, again! Please consider supporting my most recent fundraising project, an Inumaki Toge themed fundraiser for aid in Gaza.
Final note: THIS COMIC IS NOT FOR TERFS đłïžââ§ïž
I wish I could make white people(and not just white Americans) understand how diverse the pre-columbian Americas were. The history, religion, culture, politics was at least as complex as Europe's. There was the full gamut of religions, from monotheists to animists to ancestral religions. There were city building empires, village farmers, nomadic traders, and so many other ways to live. This is all just based on what we know, the fragments left behind and the stories of survivors of an apocalyptic plague. All this before the most extended campaign of genocide in history was waged in an attempt to wipe out those survivors.
Over 500 years spent trying to cut down a whole trunk of human culture.
Do you understand how much poorer our whole species is because of it? Can you imagine where art, religion, and science would be if we still had these vast bodies of knowledge? The stain of the colonial project will never be fully washed clean. We owe more than just the land to those we stole from. We owe them a whole future, a future that could have been brighter for all of us. If only greed and fear weren't allowed to rule this land.
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The test for allyship isn't how you treat an oppressed person who is your friend, family, spouse. It's how you treat an oppressed person you absolutely can't stand who is vile and loathsome in every way.
Do you gender trans people correctly even when they're being absolutely terrible people? Do you refuse to use the r-slur against someone who suicide baited you but is neurodivergent? Do you refuse to snark at a mentally ill person who is being genuinely unpleasant, "go take your meds!"
Do you allow members of marginalized groups to be terrible people without judging their entire demographic for it? One of the most invisible yet vital forms of privilege is the right to be terrible people as an individual rather than as a group. Do you acknowledge that there are bad people in every group, that it doesn't make their group less worth fighting for? Or do you shake your head if you happen to get mistreated by some who belong to a group and insist the entire group is awful and not worth your allyship?
Oppressed people can see how you treat those of us you like, but do you still treat the worst of us with the basic dignity you treat the worst of other groups with?
I wanted to give some love to Black queer men this year and how much they're made to be invisible, both in and out of queer spaces. I wanted to show that even when people won't look at their faces or learn their names, their love blooms through and is vibrant and passionate. I used some techniques I haven't ever attempted in pastels before to achieve that vision. I hope you like how it turned out! And queer Black menâgay, bi, trans, asexual and all othersâyou deserve to be seen and uplifted, now and all through the year.
i know folks are gonna call me a pedo for this one, but i grew up seeing my mom and grandma naked. they had health issues and at times needed care and help showering. and i truly think more kids need to be shown the nonsexual reality of naked women at a young age. there is nothing sexual about my grandmothers breasts, they were simply body parts. more women die of heart attacks because people are too afraid of breasts to do real chest compressions, because they are scared to touch their breasts. the sexualization of our bodies literally kills us. i need people to be more normal about naked bodies and i'm 100% serious.
What kinds of posts trigger moral & checking OCD (and psychosis)?
[PT: What kinds of posts trigger moral & checking OCD (and psychosis)? /End PT]
So many people write and reblog posts that have very direct triggers towards folks with moral & checking OCD. Here are posts NOT to make/reblog.
To get the terminology out of the way - moral OCD is a condition in which a person becomes obsessed about doing something "morally wrong", and develops compulsive behaviors over it. Checking OCD is a condition in which a person becomes obsessed over checking over their own (or others) actions, as to avoid a perceived disaster, and develops compulsions around it.
Do NOT make/reblog posts with phrases such as:
"Reblog/donate/share or else you are letting me/someone I know die/suffer."
"Reblog or else you're [insert bad thing]"/"Reblog if you're not [insert bad thing]"
^If it is an urgent donation post that you feel deserves to be shared, at the very least, add "tw reblog bait" and "tw OCD trigger."
"Reblog/like/comment/share or else [insert creature] will find you/stalk you/come into your house/etc"
"[Insert thing] is coming to your location. You cannot stop it. It will be outside your window soon"/"[Insert thing] is in your walls."
^These ones can also trigger hallucinations, delusions, and paranoia in people with schizospec disorders/psychosis! It may seem like a "haha funny meme" to you, but to people with OCD or psychosis, they could fret heavily over this, and wonder if they are going to be in danger if they don't reblog/like/comment/share.
"It is illegal to be/have [insert thing here]." (Example: "It is illegal to be nonqueer during pride month", "it is illegal to have internalized ableism during disability pride month", etc.)
^Once again, this may seem like a funny meme to you, but instead, it just tells people with moral OCD that their existence is wrong, or that their intrusive thoughts are a crime (thought crimes are not real!)
So when the first thing she says upon him picking up is, âI need you to teach me how to make seafood risotto,â it takes him a few long seconds to register what heâs hearing.
And, of course, if the ringing of his phone was enough to wake him, itâs no wonder it would be enough to wake Goh, too, who grabs anxiously at his arm, mouthing, Whatâs wrong?
Gary gently sets his other hand on his shoulder to quell him, and asks their daughter, âYouâre aware the Internet is more awake at this hour than I usually am, right?â
âOh, Papa, please,â she begs. âI wouldnât have called if it wasnât an emergency!â
âRisotto is an emergency?â
âYours is the best, so I need to know the secret. All the recipes Iâve looked at donât make any sense, and I only have a couple more hoursâŠâ
âWhy didnât you just ask me yesterday when it was a respectable time?â
âI thought I could figure it out on my own, but I was wrong and so I really, really, really need your help. I promise Iâll make it up to you! Iâll, um, send you three bags of that coffee you like in Lumiose City.â
Gary glances over at Goh, and whispers, âYour daughter does bribes like you do.â
âTell her she woke me up too, so I should get a bribe as well,â he whispers back.
âI can hear both of you guys,â Lemon says, annoyed. âAre you gonna help me or not?â
âSwap one of those bags of coffee for some Lumosian chocolates and you have a deal.â
Goh grins at him. âYouâre the best.â
âOkay, okay, fine. Iâm video calling you now, okay?â She doesnât give him a chance to respond before sheâs hung up on him. Ten seconds later, the screen lights up again with a video call; when Gary accepts it, Lemonâs face fills the screen, serious and determined.
âFirst of all,â Gary says, âwhatâs the occasion? You do realize there are probably a hundred places you can get five-star quality seafood in Shalour City, right?â
Her cheeks go pink. âW-well, sure, but I donât want Lime to think I didnât put in the effort, you know? Itâs our first anniversary ever, soâŠâ
Itâs so like herâalways striving to be the best, no matter what it takes. Everything at one hundred and fifty percent. Especially when it comes to the people she loves.
âIf you want to make a romantic gesture,â Gary tells her, âa good meal alone isnât necessarily gonna cut it.â
Her eyes widen. âItâs not?! Should I go back to the store?! I think I have time... She told me she would be back from her training session at twenty-hundred hours sharp.â
âYou could go back to sleep,â Gary murmurs, carding his fingers gently through his husbandâs hair. âI donât mind getting up so you can have some peace and quiet.â
But Goh shakes his head. âIâm awake now. Besides, itâs good to hear from her.â
There was a time when Lemon would call him every day. Just to tell him how her journey was going. Sheâs older now, though, and preoccupied with other things than reassuring her dad that she is safe and she is happy and she is doing everything she ever dreamed of and more. By Garyâs estimation, she still calls him at least once a week, but he is acutely aware that, even after all these years, Goh has a hard time letting her say good-bye. Even if he knows as well as Gary does that this is how she was always meant to spread her wings.
Once sheâs out the door and jogging down the street, she demands, âWhat else do I need?â
âWell, you got flowers, right?â
âItâit completely slipped my mind!â She comes to a screeching halt; the expression on her face reminds Gary of how Goh looks when he is lost in thought. âUmâŠlet me think⊠She wouldnât want roses, but maybe⊠Ohh, I donât know. I canât think!â
âThey say peonies are very romantic flowers,â Goh chimes in. âEspecially for anniversaries.â
âReally? Wow, thatâs perfect, then! Okay, so whereâs the nearest flower shopâŠâ
âYou know things like this and youâve never thought to get me flowers for our anniversary?â Gary teases. âHow unromantic.â
Their attention is brought back to Garyâs phone at the sound of a groan from their daughter.
âWhatâs the matter, Lemon?â
âI donât know anything about flowers,â she despairs. âWhat do peonies even look like?!â
âTurn the camera around,â Goh tells her. âIâll point them out to you.â
She does, and they locate the most colourful of the blooms they can in almost no time at all. Which turns out to be a very good thing, because now Lemon is thinking about all the other things sheâs forgotten about:
Gary barely withholds a snort of laughter at that; Goh is slightly less successful, and earns a glare from Lemon for it.
âCan we focus here, people?â she demands. âIâm running out of time! Papa, what should I make for dessert? It has to be something quick and easy⊠Thereâs just no timeâŠ!â
If sheâd planned a little farther ahead, of course, that wouldnât be a problem; and Gary has no doubts that sheâs been planning this for a good while now, but having a plan and knowing how to execute it are two totally separate thingsâand that second one has always taken her a lot more practice than the first.
âIâll brainstorm ideas while you get the things you need from the store for the risotto,â he says. âFair?â
Sheâs agreeable to that, and her shopping goes off without a hitch. Despite how busy it clearly is, she is an efficient shopper, finding everything she needs without getting lost even a single time. But by the time theyâve picked up all the ingredients they need for Garyâs risotto recipe, they still havenât settled on a dessert.
âWell, what does she like?â Gary probes. âSomething sweet? Something tart?â
âUmâŠsweet, maybe?â
âMaybe?â
âI donât know! The only dessert Iâve ever really seen her eat is when we make sâmores while weâre camping!â
Gary raises an eyebrow at that. âThen why are you asking me what to make for dessert? You clearly already have the perfect idea. Iâm sure even if you canât make a campfire, Victini could help you roast some marshmallows.â
âButâŠthatâs not very romantic, is it?â
âRomance isnât about doing whatâs in the movies, Lemon,â says Goh gently. âItâs about seeing the person you love for exactly who they are, and making them feel loved for it.â
âAnd,â Gary adds, âto share in things youâve enjoyed together. If you eat sâmores together that often, thenâŠI bet she already associates you with them. So, thatâs something she loves because it ties her to you.â
As they speak, her eyes go wide with realization. Her voice is little more than a whisper when she admits, âIâŠwasnât really thinking about it like that.â
âThatâs because youâre like your papa.â Goh glances up at him, eyes glimmering teasingly. âAlways about the big, dramatic gestures.â
âYouâre not really one to talk,â Gary grumbles.
âMaybe so,â he allows. âBut the point is, the small things add up to bigger things. Right? So if you want your feelings to reach her, thenâŠyou already know better than either of us do exactly how to do that.â
A beat passes, and then her expression shifts againâsteely resolve, her characteristic determination.
âOkay,â she says. âBut I still need you to stay on the phone and help me cook the risotto, okay?â
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HELLO IM STILL ALIVE holy shit this has been the longest fucking week of my life i finished my last final saturday morning and then had to instantly move out in like 3 hours... THEN I HAD TO KEEP DOING LAUNDRY AND PACK WHEN I GOT HOME CAUSE MY JOB I NEEDED TO FLY TO STARTED MONDAY 8 AM ... and no one told me how hard it is to adjust to a work schedule ive been passing out crazy style after work every single day... WHATEVER. SHALVIS!!!
I love having friends who reject diet culture. I love going out when everyone buys food and drinks that they enjoy. I love people who will pipe up and suggest we stop for a snack or grab a meal. I love ordering what I want and no one making comments other than how good it looks (and maybe asking to steal a bite off my plate). I love revelling in how full we are after a good meal and taking a break to appreciate how fortunate we are. I love sharing snack from our bags with one another. I love enjoying the pleasure of food and drinks and good company.