oh we r in it now!!

and i hope she’s an older lesbian

David Robert Elliott 

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The ‘On Our Backs’ 2002 Calendar. December photo. Shot by Michele Serchuk.

Best I can do is dissociate

For other tips and tricks, instead of asking “why” you can’t change a thought/feeling (why being an offensive question, meaning it forces you to respond defensively - in this case defending the emotion you don’t like) you can ask “is there any leeway or wiggle room with this feeling/thought/belief for something else?” Oftentimes we know multiple things at once, and by allowing for a small amount of ambiguity we can start to accept the situation more fully.

God is the fire my feet are held to.

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song of the summer!!

linda gregg “new york address” 1985