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1 minute old and don’t know how to eat or drink? Scream

At the start of my employment, my boss showed me videos of people stealing, and we both had a chuckle about it. How silly they were! There was a camera overhead, and it’s not to watch the shoppers. See, we can’t actually stop shoplifters. They get away with it maybe nine out of ten times. But we, who are watched and tallied and witnessed? We are always caught.

At first it was hard to hold one hundred dollars bills. An amount I had never seen before. An amount that didn’t exist in my household. It’s normal now. Here is something that is not for me.

“What the hell, I’ll take another,” says the man, pondering our 200 dollar watches. What the hell. Total comes to 580 and not even a flinch in his face. I have been working for 11 hours today and made only 110 dollars. It will go to my rent. Today I work for free, it feels. When I get my check, I will have 35 dollars left for food and saving.

The six hundreds he hands me go into the cash register. For a moment, I imagine having money. Then I put it away, counting out his change.

I know for a fact we sell our products for double what they are worth. That I could be making commission. That they could hand me those 580 dollars and change my life and not even mark the difference in their checkbooks. He’s not the only sale they make today, but I am the reason they made it. He’s not the only one spending 600 dollars, but if I hadn’t spent two hours with him telling me about his life, he wouldn’t have spent any. I go home. I don’t own a watch.

I have watched and rewatched a video on how to make salmon four ways. My shopping list is always the same. Pasta. Rice. Tuna. If I can afford butter it was a good week. I dream of the world I will never walk in, where I can throw the best fish fillet in the cart with a shrug. I hold hundreds in my hand and look up at the camera. I put them under the cash drawer.

I go to work. I scrap together my savings. I eat my bowl of rice slowly. My manager takes a paid week off from work just for his birthday. He owns a yacht. 

i was part of their college program. i moved to the state for it. they legally owned the building i was living in and still charged me rent. i ostensibly was being charged to work for them. it was a 2 bedroom apartment and they placed 6 adult women in it in forced triples.

as many as one in ten disney employees have experienced homelessness while working for the company. despite huge efforts to unionize, strike, or otherwise demand fair treatment; disney has refused to increase employee quality of life.

disney admits publicly that a good portion of their success is because the employees (“cast members”) are dedicated, passionate, and selfless. this is never reflected in pay. even “face” characters (ie those that are princesses etc) make barely above a minimum wage.

at the time that i worked there, i made $8.50 an hour. at one point i was asked to create a human shield around a bag because a bomb dog had alerted to it. for eight fucking dollars an hour.

i now work a very cushy office job. i have bought the salmon and cooked it all four ways.

i go to the store. i am nice to the person behind the counter. she looks up at the camera while she counts out my change. there is nothing fundamentally different about her and i.

This time of year can be frustrating for people in the aro/ace community.

I will be here, whenever you need to talk. 

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I dont think I need to wait my whole life to feel attracted to someone so I can go ‘oh silly me, all the experiences I had before this point have magically vanished since I was mistaken all along!’.

Also, I personally hate the conclusion of this article.

Here the lesson of the Russo-Finnish War is that a diplomatic compromise may be necessary. Ukraine may have to provide a guarantee of neutrality and agree to give up some of the territory that is already de facto in the hands of Russia: Crimea and the Donbas region in the east.

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In some sense, everyone will dislike such an outcome. Much like the Soviets in Finland, Putin will be frustrated that he failed to conquer and annex the entire country. The Ukrainians will be unhappy with the loss of their territory, as the Finns were. The U.S. and its allies will dislike removing sanctions against Putin despite his evident war crimes (although may be partly mollified if it calms the global economy).

But that outcome would stop the fighting, get Ukrainian refugees home, and allow the nation to continue as a sovereign albeit neutral state. Sometimes neutrality has advantages: Finland was able to serve as the negotiating place for the 1975 Helsinki Accords, which among other things guaranteed new human-rights protections for Soviet citizens.

Although there are obvious differences, the lessons of the Russo-Finnish War provide important lessons as we consider how to conclude an awful chapter in European history. The keys will be not just the continuing spirited resistance of the Ukrainians and more outside assistance, but also a willingness for compromise on all sides.

The writer is incredibly ignorant. Finland would have never agreed to give up its territory had there been a real choice or it wouldn’t have fought so fiercely in the first place.

The article does mention that like Ukraine, Finland received help and volunteer fighters, but it neglects to mention that most of the actual physical, tangible help arrived too late or not at all. Some of the material help meant for Finland hadn’t even been shipped yet by the time Finland ran out of ammunition and was therefore forced to sue for peace or face the inevitable defeat. Many of the volunteers who did arrive in Finland in time were not fit for action (such as Christopher Lee who famously volunteered and never saw combat in Finland).

“Outcome would stop the fighting, get Ukrainian refugees home, and allow the nation to continue as a sovereign albeit neutral state.” Are you serious?!

It did not stop fighting in Finland. It led to another war with just as devastating results for Finland, and that’s what led to Finland’s “neutrality”. Finland’s neutrality was not by choice and it would not be a true choice for Ukraine, either. Finland was forced into “neutrality” that led to Finland being unable to pursue the kind of relationship with the West it had wanted (even before independence Finland pursued a relationship with the West and wanted to be seen as Western which it very much wasn’t considered at the time – Finland being part of the West is still a very new concept) and left Finland under the influence of the Soviet Union despite “neutrality”. Finland may have been independent, but it was firmly under the Soviet Union’s thumb until its fall. Is this the future you want for Ukraine?! A sovereign nation only in name where media and people need to censor themselves? What a disgusting, deplorable suggestion.

The refugees cannot go home in this situation. If you give territory to Russia, people cannot go home. That happened in Finland. 420,000 people lost their homes forever. That was roughly 12% of Finland’s entire population at the time evacuated from the territories the Soviet Union took with the blessing of the West.

Try to, for a moment, imagine having to give up 12% of your own country’s territory (including your country’s second largest city) to an enemy and needing to resettle 12% of your country’s population while trying to recover from a war. Imagine being one of those people, forced to leave your home, your home region, forever. Having to start a new life potentially with nothing while many people around you inevitably grow frustrated because on top of their own problems and losses you are there. This is what happened to Finland. Is that the future you want for Ukraine and the Ukrainian people?

We all know what happened to ethnic minorities, dissidents, and the residents of the conquered territories in the Soviet Union. They died in millions. That would have likely been the fate of the Finnish people, too, had they remained in the ceded territories. We’ve already seen Russia deporting and killing Ukrainians in the occupied territories. People cannot safely go home if these territories are handed to Russia.