Welcome to the Cup Blog here since circa 2013 with incidents at a semi-regular pace.
Previously cupsmp
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I am multifandom so I post whatever I like forever. Main postings right now: House MD, Scrubs, Pitt, ER, Psych, St. Denis Medical, Severance, BG3, The Sims, Minecraft, Some mcyt, Some DSMP, Tommyinnit, Supernatural, Anime/Manga (DBZ, Lucky Star, WHA, Gachiakuta), TADC, Clair Obscur, and more!
What Am I Writing Right Now: I have some unfinished DSMP/OSMP fics I am slowly working on to finish (The Legend of the Exiled God (& His Diner, I Rose From The Fire, A Gas Station Phone Answering Machine series), House MD (A Study into Dying and Coming Back to Life (+ Other Medical Mysteries), Returning Home, Pt3 of Occupying Space Series), Psych (Mechanisms of a Soul, In Sickness and in Undercover Cases). + other WIPs (unposted). If you want to hear about OCs and OC writing, follow the sideblog!
DSMP/MCYT CCs: All DSMP characters are removed from the ccs at this point and to me they are our (fandom's) OCs. I do not support Wilbur Soot, Dream, and many other CCs at this point due to their horrific actions. I still watch and support Tommyinnit mainly and a few other random ccs.
Writing Requests: Open 2026 (Thematic Challenge).
Sims 4 Build Requests: Open (non-specific challenge; feel free to send an ask!)
Banners in order: lotings message, battenna post, my sc, my sc, sunblazes post sc, my sc faggottonystark tags, my sc, mysc wibur, mysc, banner by @scaryfaggot, blinkies cafe edit by me (all 3). this blinkie i forgor who made but i stole from @metfell bc its about me yay
Name: Cup
Age: 27 - grad student
Pronouns: they/he/it
bi/ace and nonbinary and i prefer masc or neutral terms primarily.
I am autistic I may ask for tone clarification and I often use tone indicators. I also have auditory processing issues so sometimes I can mishear certain words or misunderstand a sentence -> If i do this with quoting a video/stream/etc let me know!
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Past Zines/Fandom Exchanges: Dreamoire Zine (Characters: c!Eryn, and c!Wilbur), DSMPPoetryZine (Writing: c!Ranboo, c!Sam, and c!Wilbur). Mcytblr Summer Au 2022, Mcytblr Holiday Fic Exchange 2022
Past Surveys: [DSMP Nicknames (if anyone can find the link to the results of this lemme know!)]
Series of tiktok comments funny out of context: 1
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Tagging System:
Chatting: my musings
Favorites: fav
Saves/References: save, writing reference, art reference, read later
Maintags: Art, writing, politics, mutual aid (ie palestine gfm)
Liveblogging a stream: CC.LIVEBLOG (ie tommy.liveblog for tommyinnit)
Non-main fandom tags: cup.FANDOM (ie cup.wha or cup.spn)
Fics (general): cup.fics or cup.poems
Surveys: cup.survey
sims builds: cup.builds
mutuals: tea.cakes
anons: tea.cups
discord/etc messages with friends: cup.chats
I tag common tws as tw [trigger]. Let me know when to add one.
DNI: I block bigots, terfs, rude people, dream/wilbur soot/lovejoy/etc freak cc supporters. I also block proshippers. Sometimes i just block because im annoyed but its not really that deep or personal. If we were mutuals before I usually try to soft block (nuanced).
Boundaries on my writing/art/sims builds: You may always rec the things I do without needing to ask me first. You also dont need my permission for fanart but I'd appreciate a tag and I can def link it in my fic! Webweaves/inspired works please cite me/tag the fic or me. For sims builds I only need credit if you're going to do an inspired build from one of mine. If you're just say renovating the build/using it for your sims or blogging id appreciate a tag because id love to see it but not necessary to credit me. Any more specific boundaries are on my ao3
Boundary about my graduate program: though i am happy to direct people to resources if i know of any off hand please dont ask me diagnose you in my ask box it makes me very uncomfortable especially because i am not finished my education and do not know you.
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[pulling back my sagely hood to reveal a second sagely hood] we've got knowledge [pulling the second hood back and an ostentatious wizard's hat decompresses before unfurling] and secrets [removing hat to reveal the skull] calavera [lifting skull to reveal smaller skull] calaverita
Hello everyone hiii. So i did a poll and people seemed interested in me doing writing requests again. So heres the writing request challenge for myself.
1. The request format.
You can request POEM or PROSE (the prose will be short probably, unless i get randomly inspired. One chapter max 4k words min 1k words ideally)
You then can request fandom. In thr fandom you can request the focus be on 1 or 2 characters together. The focus can be platonic or romantic ship (except any fandom ive said i cannot do that for).
Then you must pick a theme. A single word or phrase. Ie. I request a poem of character A from fandom X to the theme of water. I must write your request following that theme literally or metaphorically.
2. The list of fandoms + characters open to be written about. And which can be romantic shipping
- house md: house, wilson, cuddy - romantic ship okay
- Disco Elysium: Harry Dubois, Kim Kitsuragi - romantic ship okay
- dream smp (to help me over my fear of finishing fics hump): c!Tommy, c!Tubbo, c!Jack, c!Ranboo, c!Dream, c!Wilbur, c!Eryn - no romantic shipping allowed other than canon c!beeduo..
- The Pitt: Abbott, Robby, Santos, Samira, and Langdon. - romantic shipping is okay
- supernatural: sam, dean, cas, chuck, michael, lucifer, cain, amara, and crowley. - romantic shipping okay except not any for Claire (on my character list) or wincest or samifer or cassifer.
- Psych: Shawn, Gus, Lassiter, Jules. - romantic shipping is okay except i dont personally enjoy Gus/shawn other than qpr sorry.
3. Misc rules/etc.
- I will not do NSFW or explicit fics for these requests
- I have the right to ignore any request if I dont like it I am doing this for fun not for money.
- if I think of anything else ill let yall know ig.
just saw a 'comments' tab on someones blog you know where the following and likes tabs would be if enabled and it was just showing all the replies theyve made on peoples posts. this is fascinating when did this feature come out
if you've made replies on posts there is now a tab on your blog showing every post youve replied to and your reply.
if this is not what you want, either go to your blog and click comments and disable it from there or just go to your individual blogs setting pages. just change it from blue to grey if you dont want everyone to see your replies AND the post you're replying to
PLEASE BE ADVISED that it is set to disabled for blogs that have not made any replies but it will turn ON if you reply with that blog in the future.! i just tested it with my main, which was greyed out but it turned on the moment i left a test reply
figured i'd get the word out bc i have not seen a single mention of this and i'm sure there are plenty of people who maybe comment on things they don't want on display for everyone to see on their blog lol. you can still look at your replies with it toggled off just no one else can, like locking the following and likes list
so for some reason this feature was actually announced on the tumblr engineering blog. interesting choice not to reblog it to the staff or tumblr blog, esp considering they asked for user input on how to implement it, but i suppose considering the response to the last update maybe the replies would be too overwhelming...
so couple of clarifications. comments are disabled as default for primary blogs that have their likes disabled. they are seemingly enabled for all other blogs that have replied to posts
posts you comment on may show on your followers 'for you' page if you leave your replies publically available. they may, in the future, show in on your followers dashboard if your follower goes to their dash settings and enables this. apparently, if your likes are enabled, your followers can already see those on the dash if they've gone into preferences and selected to do so, which I was unaware of, and that seems to be disabled at default, but it's possible i disabled it previously and forgot about it ig
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#what is it with being euphoric and being horny pretty much being the same thing in our generation #are we THIS starved of affection? are we THIS full of love to give? #maybe its the world being fucked up #and our constant need of escapism being turned into wishing for eternal vacation
People who grew up in conservative religious communities, especially those raised as girls, are taught that there's something wrong with them if they experience sexual desire, that it's shameful and a sign of brokenness to be horny, and that the only sex they can expect to ever have will be an experience they will have to disassociate from, but won't be able to say no to, with zero focus on their enjoyment, and that will eventually end in them getting pregnant over and over again, whether they want it or not.
So with that context, you might be able to deduce why being able to be openly horny and have sex that is not only not painful and traumatic, but is genuinely all about what they want and like, may be freeing for many people who were raised to be sex dolls & walking wombs.
Also, if by "this generation" you mean gen z, you guys are actually incredibly sexless compared to previous generations.
Having a healthy, active sex life is very good for you. Masturbation is good for you. Sexual pleasure is one of the few sources of dopamine we have that companies can't charge us for or monetize. It's always 100% good when people are able to have exactly the kind of sex life they want and sex is not in any way an inferior way of expressing/experiencing closeness & connection, and horniness isn't an inferior emotion either.
Can I add that being euphoric, happy and fullfil in a same-sex sexual situation is a big deal when you were raised to think gay sex is this shameful low thing that will kill your soul and degrade you as a person?
Most churches that are not as intolerant, that don't raise you to be a tradwife baby machine STILL paint gay sex as a vice that will make you miserable inside. So saying "I'm actually happy AND horny" is important.
Shame around sex is an issue in religious communities, even if you are straight, even if your church isn't as conservative. I have heard from multiple people how hard is too switch from "I have to resist sexual temptation" to "I can enjoy sex now" the minute you are married and "allowed". And I'm talking about churches that don't condemn masturbation or feminine pleasure. Shame around sex is a problem. Celebrations of sex are necessary.
also, not to derail this conversation from the importance of unlearning sexual shame, but the original post isn't even that horny? there's a mention of a trans man, his boyfriend, and a vague implication that they might have sex in the future, but the post isn't about sex - it's about decoration in their bedroom and the fact that they're very happy together, doing mundane things like fixing a wobbly candle holder.
the way queer people are often hypersexualized against their will, i'd be wary of a person who sees a trans man say "i'm fixing this candle holder in our bedroom so it doesn't fall off the wall when i have sex with my boyfriend" and thinks it's the pinnacle of hornyposting and a sign that a whole generation is unable to express affection if it's not through horniness.
with that being said, i second all the previous additions about how horniness is natural and good and it should absolutely be encouraged instead of suppressed. it just doesn't sit right with me to see queer people and queer relationships as something that's inherently so sexual that even a mention of sex between two men is a sign of some kind of cultural hypersexuality.
It takes so little for people to feel like you're being aggressively hypersexual & in your face about it when you aren't cis & straight.
Cis straight people can make small talk with their coworkers about how they're "trying for a baby" (fucking often & raw) and it's fine but god forbid a queer trans person as much as implies that they're sexually active.
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Guy who has a non-research degree in a field that never studies human subjects: Here are my opinions on what needs to be done for me to respect this field I've decided to become a denier of.
[Extreme breach of scientific ethics]
[Violent abuse of power]
[Method that actually doesn't obtain any information]
[Controlled double-blind studies of phenomena where that is literally impossible]
[Seeking empirical proof that a word has the meaning that it's defined as]
[Study that would have a dropoff rate of 100%]
Additionally, how do we know that [best currently available theory] is true, and not [dominant theory from 100 years ago that repeatedly failed in the face of evidence]? I have found some minor methodological flaws in [studies that were not designed to prove the best available theory, but rather examine edge cases within that theory], so we should really consider [nonsense with no evidence backing it whatsoever].
