Hey! I noticed you getting upset about "feeling like a woman" - well, why do you feel that way? You can just not feel like one, of course.
And you should be critical of gender, rather than, well, taking the patriarchy's word for it when it says "xx=female xy=male".
Learn to be gender critical for real, instead of just criticizing the social aspect of gender. Focusing on sex to own the genderists just makes you, well, a sexist.
And males appreciate you believing this way. Trust me, Matt Walsh is cheering that girls like you exist.
First of all: your biological sex (male or female) is nothing but a physical fact about you in my opinion. Like your height. In my ideal world, your sex wouldn't matter very much at all. It would say nothing about your personality and your future. For example, if you were born female, your parents wouldn't immediately dress you up in pink and encourage you to be nurturing and unassertive, while treating your male brother completely different. In other words I want a world without sex stereotypes, or as you put it, the social aspects of gender. This is the opposite of sexist.
Usually "genderists" and gender criticals are both against stereotypes based on sex. I think this is one of the most basic feminist ideas.
So. I do not identify with the stereotypes and expectations that are placed on females. I am not attracted to men, I am not very interested in having children, I prefer to keep my body hair, etc. This doesn't contradict my sex at all, unless you believe my sex says something about my personality or vice versa...
If you believe my sex should determine my personality, we're back to square one -- that's a sexist belief. If you believe my personality should somehow determine my sex, it's the other side of the same coin. You're enforcing the same stereotypes you claim to be against.
Lastly, I don't appreciate the patronizing tone of your message. Telling a 22 year old woman she's an "upset" "girl" and demanding she "learns" to think the way you think isn't exactly owning the patriarchy.
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