If you are anti-darkfic, you are anti-survivor
Iâve had a bee in my bonnet since this incident the other day, and I figure itâs probably time to get it out of my system.
Darkfic is not a new phenomenon. Itâs as old as the hills. For as long as there have been fic writers, there have been fic writers using the medium to explore themes that are taboo in mainstream fiction. Torture and gore, death and destruction, rape and sexual abuse. Every author has their own motives and inspirations for the content they produce, and thereâs no âaverageâ darkfic writer. But what I can tell you - anecdotally, from a full decadeâs worth of experience drifting in and out of various darkfic communities - is that when you involve yourself with these authors, you start meeting survivors. Lots of survivors. In what I think itâs fair to call a statistically significant concentration.Â
For some, their survivor status is incidental to their controversial interests; for others of us, past trauma and mental illness are intrinsically tied to what we read and write. Darkfic can be a lifeline, a validation, a liberation, a profound and unbeatably intense catharsis for the shit weâve got stored in our heads. Darkfic enclaves within fandom are places where we can air our darkest and most desperate fears and fantasies in a safe, supportive environment, in the company of others who remind us that we are not broken or defective just for wanting the things we want.
And hereâs the thing: literally no one in these communities wants to force outsiders to join us. We recognise that our content is stuff that the majority of people donât want to see, and we do our best to protect the rest of fandom from involuntary exposure by using appropriate trigger warnings. We donât want to hurt anyone, we donât want to ruin anyoneâs innocence - we just want to be left alone to do our thing. But tumblr callout culture has taught people that âspeaking outâ against things they donât like is cool and brave and socially progressive. It has created an environment where virtually the automatic response to distress, discomfort or personal offense is to look for a perpetrator, a culpable oppressive villain to whom the offended party can deliver a vicious âsmackdownâ while their friends look on and cheer.
Iâm not going to argue just now about whether thatâs ever an acceptable way to treat people. Regardless of anyoneâs personal feelings on callout culture as a whole, thereâs an intersection between darkfic and trauma survivors that you guys all need to understand before you go targeting darkfic authors as convenient representatives of everything you think is wrong with the world. So let me lay this out as simply and clearly as I can:
When you oppose darkfic because it âharms survivorsâ, you are talking directly over large crowds of survivors who will tell you they find darkfic to be a validating, healing experience.
When you claim that darkfic is self-destructive and unhealthy, you are privileging your personal beliefs over the lived experience of other people.
When you accuse darkfic authors of glorifying and supporting real-life abuse, you accuse survivors of glorifying and supporting their own abusers.
When you blame darkfic for supporting rape culture, you are making victims responsible for the actions of their oppressors.
When you set conditions around the creation and enjoyment of darkfic - aka âitâs only okay if youâre a survivorâ - you create a culture of coercive disclosure, where survivors are expected to trade their right to privacy for the right to live free of harassment.
When you criticise darkfic authors for using survivor status as an âexcuseâ, you are locking us out of our own communities and denying our past traumas for the sake of a political argument.
If you are anti-darkfic, you are anti-survivor. Iâm sick and tired of watching vulnerable members of my community get harassed and bullied by people who claim to be acting in the interests of survivors. Iâm sick of being told that survivors like me arenât survivors at all, that our very existence is toxic and harmful, that we have no right to speak and be heard on an issue that affects us so intimately.Â
Anti-darkfic fans, you need to pull back. You need to realise that your comfort and safety, while important, are not more important than the comfort and safety of other people. You need to understand that it is your responsibility to learn how to peacefully coexist alongside people who experience the world differently from you, even if their experiences make you unhappy or uncomfortable. You have no right to ask us to stop existing so that you can feel at ease. You have no right to demand that we prioritise the needs of some survivors over others. You donât own fandom, and you have no right to dictate who does or doesnât get to participate.
You are not brave heroes speaking out against the spread of moral degeneracy in fandom. You are bullies, deliberately and systematically targeting trauma survivors with your abusive tactics. It really is that simple. And it needs to stop.
