welcome to the npd/aspd confessional!
howdy! my name is reign, and iâm a radically inclusive/critically inclusive queer fucker with a whole host of mental shit going on, but especially npd and aspd! npd and aspd can be really tough- it feels like in order to be accepted for having them, you canât talk about the dark things that come with them. and that really sucks!
so, because i felt i didnât have a safe place to air my darker npd and aspd-related symptoms and struggles, i created one! this is a no-judgement space for ppl with npd and/or aspd to anonymously share the dark thoughts, urges, and actions youâve had/done. npd and aspd can be ugly- but here, you are not ugly. nothing is off the table- except bigotry and exclusion. any asks which contain racism, ableism against ANYONE, queerphobia, queer exclusionism of any kind, or any other kinds of bigotry, will be deleted without a second thought.
additionally, i will be making combo flags for aspd and npd! i do not have bpd so i donât feel its my place to make any combo flags for bpd (or any other pdâs for that matter), so thatâs why i wonât take any requests for those, but i will take requests for npd and aspd ones!
disclaimer- i know these disorders can caused fucked up thoughts and urges and yes, actions. just because i donât judge people for their disorder, doesnât mean iâm incapable of holding them and myself accountable for the actions they may take. everybody, no matter what disorders they have, has the capacity to fuck up and make up for it. iâm not here to tell you what you did was okay, but iâm here to say this is a safe space to talk about it without being treated like youâre irredeemable.Â
this blog was inspired by other blogs like @npdsafe @cluster-b-culture-is @cluster-c-culture-is @npdbubblygum @psychonarc @carnivoroustomatoes and @decolonize-the-left so if i could get a boost, that would be appreciated /nf
DNI-
racists, islamophobes, anti-semites, anti-theists, sexists, queerphobes, basically bigots of any kind
ableists- demonize any personality disorders or paraphilic disorders, demonize mobility and accessibility aids, participate in âcringe cultureâ unironically, demonize autistic people, against usage of functioning labels completely with no nuance, anti-nontraumagenic systems, anti-thoughtform systems, stuff like that!
TERFs, TIRFs, radfems, gender-criticals, transmeds, anti-mogai, anti-xenogender, anti-neopronouns
queer exclusionist of any kind: anti-pan, anti-aspec, anti-SAM, anti-lesboys/turigirls, anti-mspec lesbians/gays, anti-nonbinary
against words like transmisandry, transandrophobia, and treiphobia
conservative, right-winger, centrist, anti-BLM/ACAB/landback/decolonization, pro-ALM/Blue lives matter
believe fiction doesnât affect reality and/or ship incest, pedophilic, or abusive ships in a glorifying way. i donât consider myself antiship because of the rampant ableism among antis, but i will dropkick pedo/incest shippers if you come within a 100 yard radius of me.


















