- acceptable statement everyone understands

"don't leave your children alone on an ipad"

- a somewhat less acceptable statement

"the internet should not be responsible for raising your kids"

-somehow a controversial take that makes me the bad guy.

I've argued with antishippers as to why neglecting your kids is wrong and apparently saying that makes me the bad guy.

Fuck those guys specifically.

❤️🧡🤍🩷💜

i thought i would be safe there since theyre "anti harassment", but instead they harass me for having delusions that my ocs are real people. they even called me saneist slurs

as much as i dont like antis either, some proshippers are just as bad. "fiction never affects reality" is such a saneist way of thinking, fiction does affect psychotic folks like me and were tired of being denied. what you need to say is "what people draw/write/whatever of fiction based characters is none of your business as long as its not harming real people/creatures", at least it doest sound ableist

i genuinely dont care what people write about fictional characters in the least, regardless if theyre coping with their own trauma or just having fun, but some proshippers need to stop being so ableist and anti psychotic

There is a lot of ableism from the proship community.

Please note this is about the community, and not the stance of it, I do not really focus on, nor do I care about labeling shipping stances myself as my view on fiction is very nuanced.

Saying things like "fiction doesn't affect reality" is 1. exclusionary to those with delusions and others, and 2. dangerous to representation.

I can’t be the only one who has this happen, right?? This has happened to me so many times. Am I obligated to say something to them? Or is that not my responsibility?

Honestly when this happens I assume either 1. They actually don’t care that much, they’re just trying to avoid discourse and aggression, 2. They aren’t including me in their dni because I see Zim as a kid, or 3. They just genuinely don’t realize they’re following someone who ships zadr(or more zadqpr but it’s all the same to them I think)

most notable of this is mouthwashing, but also i think voltron was a victim to antis and many more that i can’t think of right now

i honestly think of antis like an invasive weed. take for example, moth plant. it smothers trees and kills them, just to get above the canopy to keep itself alive. the only way to kill it is cut it from the root. it would kill an entire forest if left unchecked. sound familiar?

If liking a FICTIONAL villain and finding him attractive doesn't make you want to date a REAL terrorist, murderer, abuser, etc... Why liking some minor characters would make you a person who wants to have sex with REAL minors???? (I already said one time that I like characters OLDER than me, but I wanted to say this for all the people who are called "pedophiles" without reason)

if you don't know my stance on shipcourse it's that I FUCKING HATE IT IT'S DISGUSTING IT'S USELESS IT'S DUMB I HATE ALL OF YOU THAT FOCUS MORE ON INTERNET DISCOURSE OVER REAL LIFE *breath*

I am shipcourse unaligned because it's genuinely DUMB from either side

"fiction doesn't affect reality" well that really depends?? on the person??? and the fiction???

"people shouldn't post about this and that in any way" that's censorship and it's used to erase queer people, most of the time??? and also don't be on the pro-harassment side???

but at least tag it. I don't want to see shipcourse in what I consider a safe community. Shipcourse CAN AND IS triggering for people from any side.

if you really HAVE to talk about it, TAG IT!!!!

yes this is about anti endo soap (idk if there's multiple ones i just know one, whom i blocked) but I'm sure there are others like that, and I've been lucky enough not to see them yet

I don't mean to hate on you but PLEASE just tag your shit man PLEASE. tag shipcourse tag anti proship tag proship WHATEVER