a literal slice of pie

Apparently, from what I hear people say, in the new Tumblr update, if someone reblogs your post and adds a comment of their own, that reblog is counted as a new post and it belongs to the reblogger. Not you. You, as the OP, do not get the notifications if someone else later reblogs from the person who reblogged your post with their own comment. You can’t see what comments people leave on the reblogs of the post you originally made unless they reblogged directly from you.

If this is actually true, it will just open doors for harassment. And also it takes the credits away from the OPs. Tumblr’s etiquette has always been “reblog don’t repost”. So this new update, if true, contradicts the whole core values of Tumblr as a community.

Respectfully, we don’t want this @staff @support @tumblr @changes please listen to your users.

guys holy shit okay so I was looking through the succession war arc because I wanted to find that panel of the CANON HXH LESBIAN KISS but I got sidetracked and started reading chapter 375 where I found something that ended up changing my entire life trajectory :

Anyway. If you struggle with negative self-talk I feel for you. It’s hellish, and it’s not something that can just be bludgeoned out of someone by telling them it sucks. We know! I’m not out of the weeds just yet by a long shot, but here’s some of the stuff that’s been helpful for me:

Fake it til it’s real: cliche, I know! but it really has helped for me, even though it makes me suuuuper uncomfortable at times. but literally tell yourself that you’re super charismatic and sexy and everyone loves you. or whatever version of that feels good for how you’d like to be seen. it’s gonna feel silly and untrue for a really long time, but it helps!

Reframe: I struggled to phrase this one, but what I mean basically is like… taking that notion of “hey negative self-talk sucks for the people around you too” and turning it into “wow, it is kind of mean to my friends to just assume they’re lying when they say they love me. I don’t want to be mean to my friends. I’m going to take the risk of trusting them”. Try not to go too far in the direction of “oh god I’m being mean to my friends” and stay on the path of “I want to and CAN do right by them”

Separate from it: I like to kind of act like my negative self talk is something of a different entity from me. Your mileage may vary on this one. I was a really mean really sad teenage girl once, and for me that kind of feels like the place the negative self talk comes from. So instead of being like “I guess I just hate myself and always will”, I can be like “I have this wounded inner child who is lashing out. I’m going to be gentle with her, but I’m also not going to listen to the things she tells me we are, because she is 16 and hasn’t experienced anything good yet.”

•neutrality first. I'm just a person. I'm not a monster, I'm just a part of the world.

•having prosocial beliefs about human beings. I believe all human life is valuable. I don't think any human being deserves to suffer. I know that punishment is ineffective for changing long-term behavior. People are their best when they have their needs met and are treated well. It's good to treat everyone with kindness. It's pretty easy to swing this one+neutrality into "I am a human being, I want to treat myself how I think human beings should be treated"

•meeting my basic needs and not hurting myself to the best of my abilities. This might not apply to everyone, but I regularly self-injured and intentionally starved myself. It's pretty natural to dislike someone who hurts you all the time. This one is not easy to stop, but even the intent to stop is progress.

•doing "nice gestures" for myself now and again. Getting myself flowers or watching my favorite show, explicitly with the intent of doing something nice, like how you would get a gift for a friend.

•neutral/positive self-talk around basic self-care like eating and cleaning like "here, I made this for you" "thanks" and "thanks for taking out the trash". If you can't talk to yourself like a best friend yet, try talking to yourself like a roommate that you want to stay on speaking terms with.

•acknowledge the emotion behind self-criticism and respond kindly to it. Self criticism is often rooted in our values, so recognize which value is motivating you and acknowledge your alignment with it. In an example where you ran out of time because you got distracted by something else important: "You didn't call them back. You're so stupid." Instead of countering/explaining/defending, try "It is disappointing that I didn't get to talk to them today, I really value my friendship with them."

•acknowledge that you are experiencing difficulties and they are sad/frustrating/unfair/scary/disappointing. This one can be hard, because sometimes it feels safer to blame yourself than to acknowledge the impact of the difficulties facing you.

•When you are self criticizing because you actually did something wrong (against your values), label the behavior instead of yourself. This will help you recognize and change the behavior over time. If you chose to do something cruel, you can brainstorm what you could have done differently, and resolve to make a different choice next time. If you label yourself "I am cruel" that doesn't lead to any good changes. (If you brainstorm what you could have done differently, and you can't think of anything that you could have changed... You may need to reread the *previous* bullet point about acknowledging the difficulties you are facing)

•be gentle in your language around other people. You are not morally responsible for criticizing other people, and it is deepening your habit of self-criticism. Judging and criticizing other people feels good in the moment and can even feel necessary, but it's a habit of thought that impacts how you think about yourself and others. If you need to evaluate if someone is safe for you to be close to, or if they would perform well in a role, stick strictly to those criteria only describe their behavior. You don't need "they are evil" or "they are stupid", in the rare instances where you do have to evaluate others, you only need to acknowledge their patterns of behavior.

•try to find more sources of joy in your life, so you can hopefully move away from taking joy from being negative (celebrating something bad happening to someone you don't like, griping about a terrible show you hate, gossiping about a person you don't like, etc). I'm not saying these things are evil, but if you're struggling with negative self-talk they may be contributing (intense criticism is a habit of thought, and even though it's about a different subject you are deepening the same mental rut). If it's one of very few sources of joy in your life, you probably won't be able to safely stop without finding replacement sources of joy, don't beat yourself up about it, but do keep an eye out for sources of joy that don't require that way of thinking.

•find like-minded people, or introduce friends to these concepts! Being surrounded with non-judgmental people boosts your progress.

1 ) Flirty Gon x tsundere Killua ( as in a TSUNDERE , not the " idiot , cut it out " thing that killua always does)

2 ) perfect boyfriend Gon x helpless princess Killua ( like this is a ship between two characters, I wanna see Gon's struggles and trauma being involved too, also BOY Killua is NOT some delicate flower, yes he's a sensitive character, but he's not weak )

3 ) neglective cold Killua x baby girl Gon

4 ) Bad boy Dark Killua x jellybean Gon

5 ) Dark Gon x killua ( I HATE stories that portray Gon as some abusive insensitive asshole with poor heartbroken killua .. eww )

The previous three dynamics just kill everything I love about killugon.

6) Alpha Killua x Omega Gon ( or any dynamic that somehow wife-up Gon in a traditional way, sorry I just can't imagine Gon like that, it's like erasing the core of his personality, and it feels too weird. I always thought such roles seems to fit killua so much better as he's canonly a character that eagers to nurture and support others as a personal goal )

Note : I'm being general here , I still can like\enjoy such dynamics if they were well-written and not being too much. As in I feel that both are equal and taking and giving in this relationship. I also hate sexualizing, it makes me feel uncomfortable , and I feel like such dynamics are just created to sexualize the boys.

Also this is the repeat dialogue.