Mx.Reux

So my journey has begun...

In December 2024, less then 2 weeks before Christmas, My older Sister Jamie was told she had stage 3 Colo-Rectal Cancer. Summer 2025 after her first bout of chemo she was told She had progressed to stage 4. After switch hospitals due to hers leaving her insurance network her care drastically declined especially in human care. Laughing, snide comments, and tresrment nobody deserves.

She stood against it for about a year.... before signing her DNR and moving to Hospice in Febuary 2026..... She died on March 3rd 2026.

She LOVED going to shows, especially concerts, but also stand up, broadway, and film festivals. It was her final wish her ashes be spread or brought along to shows in as many venue spaces in the world as able so her days of seeing shows never end. MY FIRST show since she pased was Sunday June 14th 2026. I saw Davvn, Jack The Underdog, and Gold Steps.

They were all SO kind but especially Davvn who answered a message in Tiktok early in January. A message i never expected an answer from but meant so much to me. To be seen while grieving not only my sisters health and evenualy passing but the loss of most of my local community and found family for siding with a victim of abuse and being shunned as theur abuser was a 10yr friend and prominant in my queer community.

I do. I left my community due to an abuser/bully in leadership. I was pushed out then banned for speaking up and demanding a code of conduct and clear expectations to prevent harm and protect neurodivergent members.

We NEED to have clear expectations for behavior and a clear procedure to report to protect people from being victimized and have a safe inclusive space.

Working titled QUEER AND SPICY

Focused on intersectionality and safe space buklding for autistic queers and other neurodivergent queers

After getting his autism dianosis he finally began try unmasking and reached his breaking point after seeing a close friend directly made fun of for being disabled and called them out.

He was kicked out and the locks were changed before he was told. His landlord (his abusers mother) told police he never had even been a tenant though told the truth after police pressed as she was caught in lies.

When they couldnt have him kicked out of the lgbt center they tried an offical eviction notic (after he left and it was sealed) and restraining orders (denied due to lack of evidence). They also followed through on old threats of taking community from him and used lying and stigma of male victims to have him banned from 2 different groups he had been apart of for 10+ yrs.

He was shamed for buying food instead of living on pantry food, shamed for and non traditional gender expression (even long hair), his abuser used coercive rape when he said no cause of concussion and panic attacks, and had his medical infornation spread both truth and not without permission.

Homeless but not with a better job for him he is low on energy to both fight homelessness and demand justice. Please help him so he get go back to court and FIGHT!!!

All i want for christmas is to recieve validation... YAY ME I GOT WHAT I WANTED!! lol