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Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).
A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
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Yearning for what you can never have is beginner level. Real yearners know the good shit is what you could freely have if you allowed yourself to, but never will.
If you need something last minute to complete your yearly reading challenge OR you wanna kick next year off with a quick read then for multiple reasons I remind you my short story collection exists. Read it, it’s very queer.
Me: "Damn people are REALLY BAD at knowing when to tag their eyestrain art/images...either that or they just don't care about photosenitive epileptic people like me. I feel really sad now."
Person: "But Allison, what if they just don't know or understand what qualifies as eyestrain and what doesn't?"
Me: "You know what? That could be a factor...While it is always better to be safe rather than sorry (so YES people should always tag eyestrain even if they're unsure if it "counts" or not) maybe you've got a point?"
Anyways! HERE'S YOUR HANDY GUIDE TO WHAT CAN COUNT AS EYESTRAIN! I'm pulling this straight from the Artfight rules page about what needs to be labeled and filtered as eyestrain because it's VERY helpful and VERY accurate! I also know not everybody has an AF account and might not always have access to this handy guide, and this is an important resource; That's why I'm sharing it here! (under the cut)
PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!
Full eyestrain AF page link
"But Allison! How were you able to screenshot that example if you're so sensitive to eyestrain?"
I dimmed the HELL out of my computer screen and looked away while taking the screenshot and did the same when putting it into this post, that's how lol. BUT YEAH ANYWAYS!!! Once again:
PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!
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do you have a favourite book that you love with all your heart but would never recommend to someone without knowing them super well because of the uh, content matter? mine is Throne of Bones by Brian McNaughton. and if you want to tell me yours…. I’m always looking for something to read 👀
the world needs happy, cocky tboys so much more than it will ever need sad, polite cis girls– so stop feeling like such a traitor when we both know you make a terrible girl. there are plenty of transfems who are happy to fill that role, you know. hell, become a guy and you can betray the male gender by wholeheartedly supporting women. ever think of that
I hope during this literacy crisis people understand the difference between "I don't like reading because I'm disabled and it's really difficult" and "I don't like reading because I think it's cool it be an ignorant piece of shit". In fact, there are many reasons why someone CAN'T read even if they really want to. Besides, if you've ever heard a chud talk about his favorite movie, you'd know the literacy crisis extends far beyond books and has bled into every single type of media. Just look at the discourse around Breaking Bad when it came out. Look at how many people deigified Walt and demonized Skyler because they were too stupid and bullheaded stop and think about the themes and messaging. I'd also like to add as a final note that I can't help but feel like the focus specifically on reading (Very important life skill, don't get me wrong) ignores the underlying issue of a lack of critical thinking skills.
I think people leave "aromantic" as an identity out of literally everything because they see it as part of the "asexual" umbrella and think that means they're including it, but the only aro people I know who consider themselves part of the "asexual" umbrella are people who are aro/ace. And frankly, I hear from aro people all the time who feel erased, spoken over, and dehumanized by the asexual community, so like, maybe just include aro people in things? Especially if you're making the distinction between "trans and nonbinary", "bisexual and pansexual", "gay and lesbian", like, just actually acknowledge that aromantic people exist.
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Some people are such a drain on other people that they have to actively go out of their way to be a nuisance to you even after you've cut them out. People who still stalk you from alts after you block them, partners who still check in with your friends and family after you break up, people who go out of their way to ensure that you can't cleanly move on to new things because they have to haunt you like some annoying poltergeist who has no life of their own other than to creep in the shadows and try to keep you from enjoying your own little life. And the craziest thing about these people is that they *always* think they're the victim. Like, dude, whatever this was, whatever role you think you played, it doesn't matter. The whole thing is over. The fact that you're still coming back and digging up dead things just so you can then turn around and cry that you're being perpetually victimized is just so fucking disturbing. Please get help, and maybe like a hobby or something, idk.
i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users
I once said (in defense of the enemies to lovers trope), "You shouldn't just hate the trope because of times it's done badly. You should judge it by when it's done well."
And someone replied, "Okay, but literally any trope can be written well sometimes."
And like, yes??? You're right there??? The point is *right there*???
You don't have to actively fill your TBR with tropes you typically don't like, but judging entire books by a tropes list before you even read them is wild, and dismissing whole complex plotlines because they technically overlap with a trope you've disliked 10, 20, even 100 times is limiting. I've read tons of books where a romance was handled badly. Do I just stop reading everything with romance? I've read tons of books where texting was written badly. Should I reject all books featuring mobile phones? I've read tons of books where the dialogue was written badly. Guess I should stop reading books where people talk!
Part of the act of reading (or engaging with any fiction) is *seeking out stuff you like* which means also wading through the stuff you won't. It's not supposed to be an endless content mill of "5-star dopamine hit" after "5-star dopamine hit". It's supposed to be a stream of different experiences that all have their highs and lows, allowing you to parse what you like about some and what you dislike about others and explore parts of yourself in the process of finding that understanding.
So, yeah, there are tropes I also "hate", but that doesn't make them deal breakers. I'm not gonna stop engaging with an otherwise interesting story because one character accidentally gets pregnant. I'm not gonna reject a compelling dystopian novel because a trope map declares it's got "fated mates". The whole point of reading a book is to explore how it *deploys* these tropes, how it subverts them, extrapolates on them, rebuilds or regurgitates them. The tropes being in there tells you nothing until you actually see how they're used, and that process is the whole act of reading. So, no, you are not obligated to read tropes you don't want to read (or anything for that matter), but aren't you curious? Don't you wonder if this trope you hate *can* be done well and what that might look like?
my best writing advice *about* writing advice is that you absolutely do not have to follow all the popular advice you see BUT ☝️ you have to make sure you're not following it on purpose
"I understand why people give this advice and how it can benefit prose or narrative on a purely technical level, but have decided not to follow it" is a valid and very exciting way to approach the artform, but you can also only reach this point if you engage meaningfully with whatever the advice is first
It's called bodily autonomy, you douchebags, fucking let old people do what they want. I hope she died with her back blown out and absolutely blasted on her substance of choice.
Yeah, bodily autonomy and the dignity of risk and the fucking fact that if you're dying anyway, there's no benefit whatsoever to wasting your last hours of earthly existence in the bland beige walls of a nursing home or hospital and it should not only be allowed but offered as a service to bring the dead or dying (or not dying yet) person out into the world to enjoy those parts of it that aren't allowed inside the bland beige walls of a nursing home or hospital.
Let them be taken outside. Let them be taken home. Let them be taken to their favorite places. Let them use their substances of choice. Let them see their pets. Let them do really inadvisable bucket list items. Let them risk precipitating their deaths. Let them go out on their own terms, and also let them hang out on their own terms in the meantime.
Also, deschedule ALL drugs for people on hospice. "You can't do that, you might die" "I have some news for you about the existing situation." I mean come on.
(Minnesota recently passed a "happy hour" law allowing nursing home patients to drink alcohol. It's a good first step.)
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