So my journey has begun...

In December 2024, less then 2 weeks before Christmas, My older Sister Jamie was told she had stage 3 Colo-Rectal Cancer. Summer 2025 after her first bout of chemo she was told She had progressed to stage 4. After switch hospitals due to hers leaving her insurance network her care drastically declined especially in human care. Laughing, snide comments, and tresrment nobody deserves.

She stood against it for about a year.... before signing her DNR and moving to Hospice in Febuary 2026..... She died on March 3rd 2026.

She LOVED going to shows, especially concerts, but also stand up, broadway, and film festivals. It was her final wish her ashes be spread or brought along to shows in as many venue spaces in the world as able so her days of seeing shows never end. MY FIRST show since she pased was Sunday June 14th 2026. I saw Davvn, Jack The Underdog, and Gold Steps.

They were all SO kind but especially Davvn who answered a message in Tiktok early in January. A message i never expected an answer from but meant so much to me. To be seen while grieving not only my sisters health and evenualy passing but the loss of most of my local community and found family for siding with a victim of abuse and being shunned as theur abuser was a 10yr friend and prominant in my queer community.