Sidewinder

this is my fave post on this whole website

transmisogynized people (black transmisogynized people especially!) are killed at incredibly high rates compared to people who are TME, both by murderers and by ourselves. this is reflective of a world that outright fucking hates us. if you need an explanation as to why some of us are so paranoid it destroys us... there you go?

just another of the million reasons I'm over the "oppression olympics" claims when trans women talk about transmisogyny. if you shut your eyes to the unique oppression we face then of course we look like a bunch of needlessly combative, paranoid fucks. without an understanding of transmisogyny, the answer to "I wonder why I've never met a trans man who's like this" is "I guess trans women are just inherently irrational"

(losing a trinket important to me): it’s just plastic. It’s just material. Someone else will find it and it’ll brighten up their day. If i really want to i can replace it. Loss is natural in love. Life isn’t fair and i’ll tear up earth and sky if i knew i could find you again under the covers of my pillows. But like, it’s $16.67 to replace. I’m okay.

you have to realize that you CAN keep everything perfect and safe, but you’ll never get to fully enjoy them. Sweaters get stretched. Stuffed animals get worn. Earrings get lost. and love turns to grief. If i want to be happy, i have to know that sadness is the little brother who holds her hand.

Nvm. Trinket was found and i’m now keeping it locked up forever so i can’t ever lose it again

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haha just like chicken

My "I <3 instant loss" shirt is raising a lot of questions answered in panel 2

yesterday my uber driver told me he stopped wearing glasses and just decided his eyes were better and I was like man as the passenger in this elantra I would like you to keep more secrets from me

Also the audio quality is just way better and more consistent than Skype’s.

Discord uses it’s own servers to host calls instead of relying on a user host like skype :0

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@baeddel-unkillable

REAL masculinity is about [traits and behaviors that anyone can have that youre gendering for reasons that are ultimately misogynistic]

in seriousness though there is no way to position a "virtuous" ideal of masculinity to supplant patriarchal ideals of masculinity without reaffirming those patriarchal ideals. straight up you need to stop thinking "am i being a Man correctly? am i performing Masculinity right?" or "that guy isnt being a REAL man because hes not KIND or whatever" no matter what specific way you define masculinity