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Cal Calamia won the LA Marathon's nonbinary division more than a month ago, but the organization still refuses to award them a penny. Cis runners receive funds from a $25,000 prize pool, but trans winners get nothing.

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I feel like the argument that some people make about the much dreaded lesbian-transsexual intersection, the first part of which is "trans men belong into lesbian spaces" and that in its second part is either suggestively silent about the place of trans women or outright hostile, is an appeal to the status quo.
For the record, I'm not trying to argue about who belongs in which community here, and it seems like a lot of the trans guys that spend time arguing about this have recently come out and been ostracized as a result, which is a relatable motivation. The arguments that they employ, though, whether they draw on an innate afab-ness or socialization, are not coherent positions on sex-gender and the patriarchy, they are appeals to the status quo. Which is to say, they aren't necessarily the bio-essentialist credos they appear to be. They are simply different ways of saying "I was always part of this community, I still am, and always will be, no matter what". Which is an argument about the social realm. It is like it is and will be like it always has been.
The reason a certain type of trans guy on this site can tell a trans woman that he will always be more of a woman than her while in the same breath accusing her of gender essentialism is that the first assertion is about the social realm, while the second concerns some sort of conceptual mode of being within a community (fucking Butler...).
Anyway, turning that kind of reasoning on trans women gets ugly real quick, and not just because no matter how pseudo-intellectual it gets dressed up as, as male socialization or amab-ness, it's always just screeching about how you will always be a man. No, what is much more vicious is that it asserts "I was always a part of the female women afab peoples and consequently, haven't you always been surrounded and accepted by men? don't you dare deny it" - when the vast majority of trans women are the most socially isolated and marginalized people on this earth. But that's what you get from an appeal to the status quo: a reinforcement of pre-existing conditions, and in this case, a reinforcement of marginalization, a carrying over of the marginalization that comes from being unwilling and unable to be a man into apparent non-men-centric spaces (lol).
So what about the random trans woman that is completely socially integrated? Well first off, and I don't know if you've heard of this, but cis women in general are much more likely to be accepting of trans women than cis men, like I have personally encountered at least one teen trans girl who seemed to be completely integrated into her own group of girlfriends, so the assumption that any trans woman with a social life must be one surrounded by guys is premature; and secondly, even when that is the case... well, as everybody knows, any woman with male friends immediately loses her woman card.
The focus on 'baeddelism' is especially infuriating in this context, because first these people insist that we not cross social boundaries, stay at the margins of every community, and then weaponize that against us.
Need need need transmascs to understand that when trans women say shit like “I hate transmascs” it’s a generalization in the same vein as saying “I hate men” or people of color saying “I hate white people” and my god I hope you don’t have a problem with those. But when transmascs say “I hate trans women” that is just misogyny! Because you hold structural power over us! It’s like if a cis dude went “I hate women” or something similar. The main difference is that we are making generalizations about people who hold power over us and frequently wield it against us, and you’re using that power to reinforce the status quo, which is to say, structural transmisogyny and its constituent parts
every couple weeks there’s a new post where hundreds of transfems will say “hey this is a very blatant and obvious example of transmisogyny” and all the TME people will go “noooo that isn’t transmisogyny it’s just this cool funny deconstruction of gender lol!!” and then yall wonder why the transfems on this website call this “the transmisogyny website”. literally every two weeks it’s a new post. “wouldn’t it be soooo funny if a woman’s body had a man’s face?!” “wouldn’t it be so funny if somebody with a deep voice had to call the gynaecologist” can any of you fucking think for thirty seconds?
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hey real quick whats "the funniest gender" about someone with a flat chest being in heavy makeup. what's inherently comedic about someone with a mustache wearing "fake boobs" and a dress. why emphasize that the model is a cis man. just real quick.
The comments on this post are atrocious. Please have a single critical thought about how femininity and masculinity are treated in society and how that plays into transmisogyny!
And stop treating transmisognynystic caricatures as “cool” or “funny” for the love of god!
Maybe some people don’t know what gender is. That must be it!
You See It's Actually Funny Because I Think Contrasting Feminine Dress With Masculine Bodies Is Hilarious (no i do not think about how this reflects my view of real life people why do you ask)
the more i think about it the more obvious it is that theres a causal relationship between not knowing or understanding the transfeminine experience and freaking out about how egg jokes are gender essentialist or whatever. like of course you think it's horrible to be read as a woman, you've never walked through a supermarket in eyeliner and shoulder length hair and a woman's tshirt and felt utterly violated that you still get called "sir" by everyone who speaks to you. no one has ever told you what it's like to feel trapped in manhood, waiting for someone to give you permission to leave. you never noticed that your high school GSA was full of cis women and transmascs and one femme "guy" that was quiet and afraid to get close to anyone.
and so your only experience with transfemininity is with internet celebrities; people whose parasocial relationship to their viewers might mean a different relationship to egg jokes, people who do their transition and work through their self discovery off-screen instead of publicly for you to witness. so you imagine these things happening ex nihilo, trans women emerging fully formed from stonewall with no outside help. and you project your experience with womanhood- that its reductive, that its restrictive, that it's not something anyone wants to be called- onto a population you have never actually considered the lives and internality of. and you end up treating trans womanhood as a social contagion that no one should be exposed to and wonder why people call you a transmisogynist.
Insane to me to see the take that rhps might be a bit transmisogynistic is somehow considered "chronically online" to a lot of people. Did we watch the same show? The one about a man in a dress who sexually assaults people and is from planet transsexual yeah. Yeah the one made by someone who has gone on record saying that trans women can appropriate the idea of womanhood but will never actually be women. That one.
idk what the discourse is here but here's a brief summary of twitter for the past 3 months
part 2: twitter's reaction
It's so common and applicable to basically any comparable situation that you'd think people would be better at understanding it: a lot of the time if a space has suddenly declared itself as discriminating against you, it is not massively appealing to go back there if it undoes that policy.
like obviously it's very important to support the people being discriminated against in places but it's really really tiring when you've been barred from a place and people's main thought is "we should let you back into this place that is obviously willing to discriminate against you" and not "maybe we should stop supporting this place that has discriminated against people".
like the second a place makes a no trans women policy you basically lose any desire to ever go back there again. so even if they do undo that policy you've effectively still been kept out permanently. it's really crushing and defeating.

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"Reinventing the Gender Binary"
CWs: Rape, fetishization, impregnation by assault, dehumanization, transmisogynistic degendering, misappropriating the language of racial justice, objectification, and worst of all, "infighting". I'm going to do something stupid---post about transfeminism on Tumblr again. The following is transcribed from two Bluesky threads:
I have a story.
About how "transfeminists reinvented the gender binary". About how "every trans person is subject to transmisogyny". About how "we're all faggots, deviants, perverts, so why demand specificity?" It begins with a transmasc individual saying "chicks with dicks" isn't offensive.
See, this individual identified as a chick with a dick. Or a man with a vag, depending. They revealed a lot about themselves over the course of the argument with a trans women. They were 19, married, a parent, and never availed of any transition care. They didn't consider this term dehumanizing.
When the trans woman they were arguing with told them that they didn't have the authority to deem whether a term fetishizing her was dehumanizing or not, they got very nasty. Trans women did not have any special claim over 'chick with dick', and to say so was to practically misgender them.
So justified, they talked about how trans women *are* just a sexual identity, a kink identity, and we did not have any special authority over transphobia or transmisogyny. Unlike them, who experienced real oppression. This is where they strongly implied that they had been impregnated by assault.
That's deeply traumatic, and violent, and something no trans woman will experience. So therefore, of course, we have no epistemic authority over misogyny. Or transphobia. Or sexual assault, and fetishization. Our suffering is always going to be a subset of "real" misogyny, see. Because no wombs.
This individual is young, and they do not know they are a TERF. Trans identity, to them, is a mask, a way to "escape being gendered". Oppression to them is intrinsically linked to reproductive exploitation, which is synonymous with misogyny, and trans women don't experience that. We costume.
Every time I hear someone say that "we've reinvented the gender binary", I sigh deeply. We never needed to reinvent it. Trans women, in the midst of the most queervoid-y of spaces, have always keenly been aware that our claims of oppression and experiencing misogyny are rarely believed.
You can say this was a young individual---but where are they going to learn better? Who is going to tell them that trans women's oppression isn't a costume, isn't a stigma for a kink, is more than just a mask we put on? That we are, meaningfully, women? Even without the wombs?
The gender binary is already there. The queervoided social spaces always cease to be queervoided when a tranny walks in, because these spaces recognize true trans people yearning to be free from (re)gendering and oppression, and "male pretenders who want to be gender I wish to escape, the freaks".
I am not the one who made the gender binary important. I am not the one who tolerated TERFs in my spaces, who encouraged the uncritical adoption of naturalized sex split from gender, and promoted a model of misogyny intrinsically tied to reproductive injustice.
I am the one who is offal.
Trans women are women who cannot be reproductive exploited, and we are too tainted to be allowed to be men ever again. So we are trash. Even to queervoids, because their "beyond the binary" ends at the threshold of a tranny demanding respect.
You think you are beyond sex? You think you have eliminated the need to divine what kind of gendered violence an individual is subject to?
I don't believe you.
I don't believe you, because I have seen gendervoids enact this violence on trannies, time and time again.
I don't believe you are beyond gender.
[Red, in a different post]:
I don't believe you are beyond gender.
I don't believe you are beyond gender.
YOU MARK ME AND MINE IN THE SAME WAY THE CIS DO, IN THE SAME WAY OUR MOST DEDICATED EXTERMINATIONIST FOES DO, AND YOU HAVE THE SHEER, UNREPENTANT, UTTER GALL TO PRETEND YOU ARE IN ANY WAY MORE ENLIGHTENED THAN THE GUTTER OF THE PATRIARCHY YOU EMERGED FROM?
You are not beyond gender.
Fuck your pronouns. You treat a tranny like this, your gender is fucking "sexist". Piss on your "gender abolition". It's worth nothing.
I will, in fact, be even blunter:
Trans women are not trying to say transmisogyny is "the worst oppression". We gave up on trying to stress the severity of it a long time ago. We are, at this point, trying to communicate that we *are oppressed at all*, to people who refuse to believe it.
I have seen fifty-year old men pull out the "I was a woman longer than you, tranny" card. I've seen people of every identity and experience go "I'll always be more of a woman than you, tranny, and don't you fucking forget it." Trans women are surveilled, scrutinized, targeted, and not believed.
The most gender-enlightened of us all refuse to deign to recognize trans women as meaningfully impacted by misogyny, as anything but second-class citizens of womanhood and feminism, as meaningfully oppressed because we are woman-gendered, sure, maybe, but we are not FEMALE.
And we notice that.
Then when we notice that even fellow trans people are more willing to self-regender to talk over us than BELIEVE US ABOUT OUR OWN LIVES AND OPPRESSION, or GRANT US THE PRIVILEGE OF SPEAKING AS THEIR EQUALS IN THE STRUGGLE AGAINST PATRIARCHY, we are called "divisive".
Fuck that.
Hear me, here and now: You will get nowhere but a singularity of a "gender-enlightened" movement collapsing in on itself because for all the yearning for a post-gender existence, no one is willing to grant the tranny the dignity of womanhood, to admit that she, too, suffers AS a woman.
If you want to tie the core of misogynistic oppression to reproduction and deem transness as nothing more than "gender-play", fine. I wish you luck.
Cassandra has spoken.
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This is the important point I want to highlight enough to explicitly state it, and it's not "Trans women are the most oppressed."
I have frankly stopped caring who the most oppressed is, because I have found that marginalized communities cannot help but argue this endlessly in anti-solidarity ways. Especially since the ways in which we (as gender-marginalized communities) are all oppressed is so deeply interwoven and interlinked. You cannot understand transphobia, homophobia, or any of its intersections with other marginalizations without understanding the root of how misogyny, male-supremacy, and a patriarchal society operate.
However.
However, when transfems talk about how we are oppressed in unique ways that others do not necessarily experience (more on this in a minute), we are shut down in ways that aren't explicitly called out as "Oppression Olympics" or "divisive rhetoric" or "infighting" because it just makes sense to people that of course trans women, the non-gestational offal-women we are, don't experience as acute or severe misogynistic violence as those who have been saddled with the burden of reproductive injustice!
This is a point of fracture that is well-trod and yet not recognized as sex-essentialist, as 'TERF rhetoric' that is designed to make you dismiss transmisogyny and feel more aligned with transmisogynists than with your fellow trans people.
X screenshot very related.
And here's the thing ... my most-seen post on here is about my essay The Third Sex, an essay a lot of you have likely heard of, if you're familiar with my account at all, but perhaps not read.
The conclusion of that essay is, quite literally, that third-sexing, degendering, the discarding of sexual-chattel who are deemed 'defective', affects trans women most harshly, but it's a phenomenon that applies to all gender-marginalized individuals to different degrees. I talk about the treatment of infertile women in India, about lesbophobia experienced by non-transfem lesbians, and cite an essay by Dworkin (yes, that Dworkin) to show that even cis feminists have talked about this phenomenon, just in less concise terms.
I am, ultimately, of the mind that we should be a radinclu gendervoid gestalt in our struggle against patriarchy.
But it's not going to happen for as long as your refrain is "you will never understand the true pain of being a wombyn, tranny."
And if you don't realize who talks like that. If you don't actually understand misogyny, leave alone transmisogyny, and what its roots are.
Is this getting through?
It's actually so fascinating because in the same breath that transfeminists are condemned as exclusionary and TERF-like, actual outright TERF ideology will be deployed to exclude trans women
The term "gendervoid" might confuse some readers unfamiliar with the phenomenon being described here, so here's a quick try at addressing potential misconceptions:
Gendervoid as used here does not refer to a specific trans identity or cluster of identities, but instead a specific attitude towards understanding gender in trans communities.
The attitude of gendevoids can be summarised as a dismissal of the possibility of gender-based marginalization within trans spaces. It basically amounts to "because we're all trans, we're enlightened and have moved past that, it's a cis people problem"
The issue described here is that this unspoken attitude is itself a mechanism to ENABLE the gender dynamics it claims to reject, by silencing people who point out that there's a gender basis for their exclusion from the Gendervoid.
The fundamental problem is that the gendervoid ends up defaulting to bioessentialist notions of sex, and analysing the positionalities of trans people purely in a cissexist framework.
And this is why gendervoid spaces end up hostile to TRANS WOMEN.
I'd love to be a gendervoid as much as the next queer, but unfortunately I'm a tranny and therefore Marked by my Sin (which is either "clinging to womanhood" or "male essence" depending on which is more convenient for the interlocutor to bludgeon me with).
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Hey I believe in tme/tma. if you think this makes me a trans radfem, not only should you unfollow and block me, you need to stay the fuck away from other trans women too.
Honestly if you label any trans woman talking about transmisogyny at all, a trans radfem, unless she explicitly identifies as a trans radfem you are being transmisogynistic and actively unsafe for transfems to be around.
The Construct of the transradfem is increasingly transmisogynist. if you suggest that using tma/tme leads to grooming, you are disgustingly transmisogynistic.
Rad feminism is a specific ideology, with specific political goals.
Even the most militant transfem separatist is theorizing about a safe space for transfems that does not currently exist- Transfems as a political group do not hold the power to create such a space and the fight currently is for transfem inclusion in spaces that currently violently exclude us- and to compare that movement with Terfs, a political ideology that actively seeks and exerts constant political pressure to exclude trans people from the safe spaces that have already been constructed, One that is succeeding and actively influencing policy, is an obvious spit in the face of transfems.
The transradfem is a transmisogynist construct first and always.
Transmisogynists, and the general public do not take transfems seriously- They do not take transmisogyny to the be the violent oppression it is- and the typical person's response to transfems bringing it up is take the position that said transfem is complaining about minor issues in an attempt to center herself.
it is so plain to the trans women that are being constructed as privileged entitled members of the community with an outsized need to make it about themselves that that is what is happening- and the denial of that pattern is a reinforcement of the behavior in transmisogynists.
I won't pretend that there aren't transfems being rude- transfems being condescending and bitchy- transfems discussing and theorizing about transmisogyny in ways that exclude and do not cater to transmascs. Why are they not allowed that? Why the fuck do you have a problem with transfems focusing on their own issues???
TME people constantly misunderstand what that (tme) means, what transmisogyny is, and assert they face it too- Correctly asserting that they are not 100% exempt from Transmisogyny- and taking it to the logical end, that that incidental transmisogyny they face is the same as the systematic and structural transmisogyny Transfems face.
I don't have to know exactly what they experienced to know that they are uneducated and have an incomplete and dismissive construct of what Transmisogyny is- just based on the way they speak about it. That is a completely reasonable assertion, and one that is fair for all transfems to make.
Be honest. have you done explicit direct work to both acknowledge and address your transmisogynist bias? if not you can consider yourself uneducated and your opinions of transmisogyny are beyond meaningless, they in fact will be biased and bigoted. always.
if your response to being called on transmisogyny is to think the transfem is asserting it to play a game of oppression olympics, instead of actually considering how your words affect her first, You are playing directly into your transmisogynist bias to believe the transfem has ulterior motives.
idea that intersex people are rare is intersexism
[large text: idea that intersex people are rare is intersexism]
intersex people get routinely mutilated after birth, put on non-consensual hormonal "therapy" later in life, our medical history may be altered or hidden from us, doctors often lie straight in our faces to not tell us our diagnoses or push us to "consent" on "treatment" by fearmongering or witholding information about this treatment, the official definitions of intersexness are constantly narrowing to exclude as many variations as possible.
we aren't naturally rare, we are made rare, and then this "rareness" is used as excuse to not include us anywhere. to not address our discrimination. to not think about our experiences.
intersex people aren't rare. we're (often violently) erased and separated. and this is intersexism.
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bitches on the internet will be like "oohh that sounds like some terminally online Tumblr Discourse™️ to me" and it's just talking about transgender women being given rights
just blocked like a chain of shitheads on this so i need everyone to know that transgender women being given respect and safety and striving for a recognition of intersectional transmisogyny is not equivalent to a desire to force incest kinksters into the closet or to play identity cop about the word lesbian despite the fact that there seems to be people who conflate the ideas. if i dont post this the shitheads will start following me on here so i gotta head them off