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moon-covey

Taylor Swift + lyrics that mention reinvention

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Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.

But queer is more inclusive

a-tired-humanist

And faster to pronounce if you are talking instead of writing.

another-exclus

It’s not more inclusive, and if your excuse of using a slur as a blanket term is “it’s faster to say”, GENUINELY what is wrong with you

a-tired-humanist

It’s called economía del lenguaje.

It’s also the respected academic term?? The acronym isn’t static and it’s usage is varied by things like generational difference, location, and knowledge of the community. Even just in the U.S. in the last few decades the common usage gone from GLBT to LGBT to LGBTQ, to LGBTQA/LGBTQIA/LGBTQIAP/etc (Which, let me tell you as someone who has given presentations in the past using these updated acronyms, are all real mouthfulls), to LGBT+.

Also yes, queer is more inclusive! Especially coming at it from an academic standpoint, people didn’t always use or identify with the terms we use now and you can’t always try to cram them into our modern perceptions of sexuality. We can argue for years about whether a famous historical figure was gay or bisexual or straight and trans or whatever, but if we can all agree that they were somehow queer then using that term allows us to move past the debate and into productive discussion. And not everybody everywhere shares the same terms for sexual and gender identity, or even the same concepts of those things, so queer really is a more inclusive term in a lot of cases.

Like yeah if you’re talking specifically about gay or trans people you can just say gay or transgender, but if you’re talking about more than one identity or someone who doesn’t conform to our perceptions of ‘LGBT,’ or a person or people whose identity you don’t know, queer is just the better word.

jabberwockypie

“That’s SO gay”, “Oh my god, you’re not a LESBIAN, are you?”

Your words are slurs, too. Why do you get your words, but I don’t get mine? What makes you so special?

I’m here, I’m queer, go fuck yourself.

levynite

queer is not a slur, stop drinking the TERF koolaid

darthsuki

matronofthevoid

every time one of you fools spout about ‘queer is a slur’ a terf laughs because their fucking plan to make that word ‘taboo’ is fucking working you dipshit.

letmetellyouaboutmyfeels

I did not get my degree in queer literature for you all to keep pulling this bullshit.

moki-dokie

baby gays,,,, i beg of you to learn your queer history and stop listening to terf bullshit

every single one of our labels has been used as a slur against us.

terfs and -phobes are always going to try and hurt us with what we identify as. but the fact remains these are OUR labels and always have been.

we’re here, we’re queer, get used to it.

hyperactivehedgehog

I don’t know if this is just because I’m not American but I’ve never heard queer used as a slur. Ever. Meanwhile gay was the insult in the 2000s here. Everything you didn’t like was ‘soo gay’. Queer wasn’t even a word most of us knew back then.

It just baffled me that people would think an identifier is automatically a slur just because someone uses it to mock someone. If we did that gay would be a slur. Stupid would be a slur. Autistic would be a slur.

The reason people are upset about the word queer is that it’s a unifying term. You can say you’re queer and all people will know is that you’re part of the community. But you can’t say you’re LGBT, you have to say you’re gay or trans or ace. They don’t want you to be ambiguously queer. They want you to say which kind of queer you are so they can decide whether you’re undesirable.

tapacamino

yeah in the 90s and early 2000s kids would call each other “gay” as an insult. But no one ties themselves in knots over whether “gay” is a slur. So yeah, please ffs learn your history.

anarchistmemedistro

rabidchild67

They want you to say which kind of queer you are so they can decide whether you’re undesirable.

rubyfruitjumble-deactivated2016

some of yall r SOOO sensitive!! and it’s a good way to be. u have big hearts. I love u

perfectquote

“stop returning to toxic situations just because you have history with them”

— Unknown

mrsiamnotperfectlyfine

ok hey wait

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“Books are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“E-books are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Audiobooks are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Video games are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Subscriptions to magazines/newspapers are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

For real, get a library card for your local public library and you will have almost unlimited access to all kinds of media for free. Libraries also often have many different kinds of classes you can take, often for free or very cheap. Oh, and don’t forget the computers and internet access you can also use for free.

In conclusion, yet a library card.

SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL PUBLIC LIBRARY!!!

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Don’t forget movies, internet, zoo tickets, etc. we also have fun kits for old people.

headspace-hotel

At my library you can even check out musical instruments.

bitchesgetriches

The Library Is a Magical Place and You Should Fucking Go There

typewriter-worries

“We have a whole new year ahead of us - and wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could all be a little more gentle with each other - and a little more loving - have a little more empathy - and maybe next year at this time we’d like each other a little bit more.”

— Judy Garland, The Judy Garland Show, originally aired by CBS on January 12th, 1964.

i think that my emotional fragility makes me acutely aware of my humanity. my ability to be vulnerable, to hurt and be hurt, and my ability to persist and grow through it all is a prime example of the unbreakable human spirit.

#growth mindset #growth #growing up #maturing #fragile #emotional fragility #emotional intelligence #psychology #philosophy #humanity #beauty #success #motivation #motivatedmindset #survivor #sa survivor #you got this !!!#it’ll all be okay #it’ll pass

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P R O D U C T I V I T Y

30/30* - personal favorite, I always use this to study and manage time.

i-Say - earn rewards by simply doing quizzes after signing up

Essential productivity apps for any student*

Top 5 productivity apps for iOS (video)*

Top 5 productivity apps for Android (video)*

StayFocusd*- limits the time you can spend on time-wasting websites

Time Warp* - keeps you from procrastinating

Self Control* - blocks websites

The science of productivity (video)

The science of procrastination and how to manage it (video)

7 brain hacks to improve your productivity (video)

The simple science of getting more done (in less time)

Productivity tips

About power naps

How to pull an all-nighter effectively

O R G A N I Z A T I O N

My Study Life* - It’s a planner to help you remember when your homework is due and stuff like that

Free printable planner

To do list

How to make a study schedule

Class folder organization

S C H O O L // S T U D Y I N G

Inkflow Visual Notebook* - I haven’t used this one, but it’s for note taking (if you’re a visual learner it’s probably quite useful

Free Flashcards Study Helper* - Create flashcards and carry them around to study anywhere

Apps for students*

Tips and trick to help you get good grades

Learning how to study

Cornell note taking method

BBC Bitesize

Studyblue - flashcards, quizzes, review sheets, study guides, etc.

Essay writing

Textbook masterpost (and other stuff too)

Wolfram Alpha for research

Memorizing dates

Making a good study guide

Note taking like a pro

Online calculator

Finals survival guide

How to survive finals

School survival guide

Free online courses

Scholarpedia

Mathway

Khan academy

Quizlet

Homework help

Exam survival tips

Studying for an important exam

Answering multiple choice questions

Guide on punctuation

Science simplified

How to answer exam questions

How to study

Useful websites

CrashCourse

How to write an essay

Duolingo

P R O J E C T S

Public speaking

Annoying Power Point presentation mistakes

Power Point presentations

Prezi

Emaze - similar to prezi

Rawshorts - video presentations

If it has * it’s an app

man fuck calculus !!! this is the only class i’ve ever failed,, this is fucking awful.

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in case you need to hear this today-

“one of the most difficult lessons i’ve learned is that not everything you love is meant for you.

being in love with someone and being right for someone aren’t the same thing.”

-whitney hanson

#poetry #prose #poetry and prose #whitney hanson #love #heartbreak #healing

healing-is-cool

You are going to laugh until your stomach hurts again. You're going to be in awe of a sunset. Watch your favorite show while you eat your favorite food. Find money on the street. Discover a great band you haven't heard of before. You will find your way back.

mrsiamnotperfectlyfine

healing happens without you even being fully aware of it !! it hurts a little less everyday, i promise !!

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François Martin-Kavel

French, 1861-1931

Femme Nue Au Voile Bleu (detail)

mrsiamnotperfectlyfine

god i love women.

thyrell

we talk about the dangers of needing to be the smartest guy in the room but i think even more deadly is the urge to be the FUNNIEST guy in the room.

thyrell

the problem with being a guy who is always doing a bit is that if your bits arent literally always funny 100% of the time some body is going to kill you. and you are going to deserve it

she gave and she gave until she became nothing but a mere ghost of a girl who once lived, a girl who once loved.

- kc 1/7/22

#the giver #the giving tree #youth #young love #spotify #i’m growing up #ghost #poetry #poetry and prose #dumb teen poetry #i miss you and i hate it #taylor swift #phoebe bridgers #leith ross #sarah kinsley #i feel so lost #someone sedate me #stupid teenaged love #lizzy mcalpine

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i know it’s better i learn the lessons sooner rather than later but fuck, i did NOT want you to be the one who taught me them !!!! i wanted you to teach me that i’m easy to love, i wanted you to be the one who made it all worth it; instead, you’re the one i have to unlearn, the one who showed me that sometimes things don’t work out the way i so desperately want them to. fuck you for teaching me those lessons and fuck you for making me feel loved and showing me that someone was capable of making me feel like that. i hate you and i hate that i love you.

#stupid teenaged love #i miss you #go fuck yourself #dumb teen poetry #poetry and prose #prose #poetry #god you suck #i know it’s for the better #phoebe bridgers #taylor swift #waiting room #mr perfectly fine #we’ll never have sex #first love #i hope you think of me #i hate men #just come back !!!!

isawken

“bring back bullying” it never fucking left because some of you have no kindness or whimsy in your dehydrated hearts!!!

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