"Is it normal to-" Doesn't matter. Do it weird if it isn't hurting anyone
oh god, please be weird. Life is short, way too short to worry if you're being weird or normal. If it isn't hurting you or someone else, do it weird
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"Is it normal to-" Doesn't matter. Do it weird if it isn't hurting anyone
oh god, please be weird. Life is short, way too short to worry if you're being weird or normal. If it isn't hurting you or someone else, do it weird

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gonna be real if websites demand photo ID I will simply drop them one by one as they ask. like this is how I am set free
i actually think about this very tumblr post at least once a week
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I'm cute and it's tuesday

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every time we touchâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ,
i get this feelingâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
this post will find you when it needs to find you.
just some facts: you are loved. you are not alone. you are valuable. you are worthy of good things. you are deserving of self love and forgiveness. iâm glad youâre still here.
refusing to apply first aid to the wound because "it shouldn't have happened in the first place, so what we really should be doing is making sure no one gets stabbed ever again"
your insistence on bandaging this wound is ultimately just you running interference for all the stabbers of the world and that's honestly really shitty of you
Should it be illegal to not give blood or a kidney to someone whoâs dying, even if it was a child? Like, if a child in your family is dying but you wonât/feel like you canât save them by giving up your kidney, should you be arrested and either forced to give it to the child or go to prison?
If your answer is no because that goes against bodily autonomy which is a human right, then you understand why abortion should be legal. You are not required to give up your bodily autonomy for anyone no matter their age or their familial relation to you. Bodily autonomy comes first.
You think itâs murder? Well, even murder has exceptions. Self defense is legal if someone is trying to hurt you or even other people. If all abortion is illegal no matter how dangerous it is to the mother then self defense should be illegal too. Murder is murder, yes? No exceptions.
But Iâm pretty sure you donât want to give up your bodily autonomy or your right to keep yourself alive, so donât force that on other people, okay? Besides, your bodily autonomy could be next.
Swarovski can continue to fuck off.
In 2021, Swarovski (the company that makes the very sparkly crystals you see in certain jewelry, on figure-skaters' twinkliest outfits, on red carpet dresses), decided they didn't want the grubby fingers of small-time jewelers, clothing designers and costumers and crafters on their shiny beads and rhinestones anymore. They decided to limit their sales to "luxury" and couture creators, not girls who sell stuff on Etsy. The tenor of their press release on the subject was snide and insulting. Resellers (like your favorite bead shop) would no longer be allowed to carry their product; the average Jane on the street would not be able to purchase them. You could only get them if you had an authorized business agreement that bound you to very strict brand behavior. And those of us who still had good stock of the crystals would no longer be "permitted" to use the brand's name in our listings for sale.
Every bead shop and craft supply place and many, many small clothing makers--wedding shops, prom and dancing dress suppliers, the sort of salt of the Earth mom and pop time machines of shops that are the backbone of the field--scrambled to find something that could replace them. The last of the stock dwindled quickly, all of us grabbing what we could get while there was any chance of it, and then it was gone and we no longer had any access.
I was Big Pissed about it at the time. It was just so goddamn stuck-up, when wholesalers and indie jewelers had made them so much money, when some people I knew--when *I!*--had been brand-loyal for decades. But with no recourse, everyone pivoted fairly quickly, most of us to Preciosa Crystals. Those are Czech, quite sparkly, and considerably less expensive than Swarovski. The faceting method they use is different, but not worse; any differences are hardly noticeable when you're seeing them as a hundred pinpoints of light.
Well, out of nowhere, Swarovski just dropped this: https://www.harmanbeads.com/swarovski-brand-policy-update
"Effective June 1, 2026, Swarovski updated the distribution and brand usage policies introduced in 2021. Businesses may now purchase Swarovski Crystals without signing a Brand Control Agreement, and Authorized Distribution Partners may once again sell Swarovski Crystals to resellers, including bead stores and online retailers. Businesses may also use the Swarovski brand name when following Swarovskiâs Proper Use Guidelines. Designers, manufacturers, artists, brands, retailers, and resellers are now eligible to purchase Swarovski Crystals through authorized distribution channels."
They want us back. A lot of the companies who could have kept a brand relationship with them also have swapped to Preciosa, over the last half-decade, in solidarity with indie creators and out of a sour awareness that it could be them, next. And it doesn't hurt that Preciosa was able to expand their line quite a bit now that everyone who wanted sparkle had no choice but to go to them.
And I'm not seeing nearly anyone who intends to return. The feeling is, "Y'all told us to fuck off! Off we fucked! And now, that's what you can do, too!" I'm seeing a lot of "How many of us did you stab in the back?" comments from the people whose money they're hoping to attract.
And personally I'm sitting over here all rubby hands, mean snickering, because they really thought they were going to be able to outclimb the people who actually provided all their profits, and now here they are, hat in hand.
Just from a purely business standpoint, switching suppliers is a pain in the ass, and companies typically only do it when forced to or when the alternative is much cheaper.
Swarovski forced its customers to switch to Preciosa, and theyâre not going to convince them to switch back just by being available again. Loss of trust aside, itâs just too much hassle when everyoneâs already buying from Preciosa. They really didnât think this through.
And that most people don't like being called, through implication, trashy small-time gutterdwellers undeserving of well-made craft supplies.
Swarovski made its opinion very clear. They don't get to take the insult back.
2020 Swarovski lays off 6,000 employees, 20% of their workforce, blames COVID. At the height of the craft boom.
November 2025, fires 400 more.
Wow. Wonder why theyâre reversing course. đ
This deep dive into the latest Swarovski restructuring explains the 400 job cuts in Wattens amidst B2B struggles and its successful LUXignit

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(4) May you find the courage to disappoint people who expect you to stay small
âno oneâs ever mad at me unless they tell me soâ is the best assumption iâve ever made
sorry for tagwatching but you still have to act like they arenât mad at you imo! bc itâs the mad personâs duty to make it known if they want anything changed. it is never anyoneâs duty to be a mind reader.
If I am mad at someone and am remaining Quiet about it, it is because I Do Not Want them to know that Iâm mad.
Please respect my boundaries and assume that I am Not mad.
If youâre worried that I am mad, consider the possibility that I am mad for reasons I know are stupid and do not want to make it your problem.
Ohhh that last addition opens my eyes in a big way, thank you.
I love when people ask "how did you learn this skill?" I just started, there's no secret. that's it. a vast majority of the time the only thing holding you back is your trepidation to start.
Reminds me of my favorite quote from a TV show.
If you had the chance to permit the building an elaborate High Speed Train system that linked every Major city together, but you knew that doing so would increase the amount of real life Train Murder Mysteries by 300%, would you still do it?
small price to pay for my personal convenience
there were 2 passenger deaths and 8 employee deaths on trains in the whole of 2024 according to the national safety council
if we assume that Train Murder Mysteries applies solely to train passengers or employees then a 300% increase would range from "still zero" to "30 people per year"
meanwhile, studies suggest that increased public transit can cut traffic fatalities in half, so even if we only consider the ten interstate highways with the highest fatality rates (2,260 deaths in 2020), beesmygod would be saving on net approximately 1,100 lives per year, though that could go much higher depending on the extent of the rail network thank you beesmygod, your personal convenience has made you a national hero
The Evolution of Mouri Ran
I know Gosho changed a lot of charactersâ personalities over the years and itâs always been some sort of downgrade, BUT thereâs something interesting about trying to recontextualize it as growth/trauma.
Ran is a prime example of this. We all bemoan that she lost her badass streak, that sheâs become someone whoâs too nice, but if we view it through the lenses of going through the stages of being apart from someone she was pretty codependent with, generally growing up as a teen, and the reality of her murder filled life, itâs suddenly not so much of a downgrade in my opinion.
A lot of her early badass moments were motivated by anger and irrationality. They were cool as fuck, but also at times, irresponsible. For example, leaping out of the Agencyâs 2nd story window and ruining a strangerâs car because she jumped to conclusions about the man being connected to Akemiâs âdeath.â The way she let jealousy overtake her when that girl claimed to be Shinichiâs girlfriendâŚshe was incredibly overzealous back then.
Thatâs not to say she wasnât the same kind girl as she is now. Instead, we can view this as a girl struggling to be apart from someone sheâs ALWAYS been with, ever since her ability to create lasting memories began, a.k.a. the age of 4. Not only is this the boy she has a crush on, but the one who defended her from bullies, the one she faced down a man with a knife (fuck Toichi for that btw) at the age of 6 with, the boy who always came back after leaving for his âjobâ unlike her mother, and someone she believed she didnât need to worry about because he could take care of himself unlike her father.
ShinRan were so codependent on one another & Shinichi still is because he spends his days literally sleeping in the room next to her. But Ran? For her, Shinichi is no longer there. Itâs no longer him running after a case & then coming back the next morning to tell her how it went. Itâs Shinichi going radio silent for days, weeks at a time. Shinichi who loves to brag & show off to Ran refusing to tell her a single thing about what heâs doing. At first, she reacted with anger, leading to her impulsive actions at the start of the story. She lost her balance.
Thereâs also the factor that Ranâs personal experience with crime was not as frequent as it is now. She was never told about her attempted kidnapping at age 4, which the drugging, I personally suspect, still affects her to this day. Yusaku said that the drugging caused her to get lost, which is a consistent character trait of hers at 16. She made herself forget about Eri becoming a hostage & Kogoro shooting her. She forgot about the case in New York, not just from her fever, but what I suspect is the guilt that her good actions lead to bad things. In the end she didnât regret it, as she went on to save serial killer that was trying to kill her but that doesnât mean she didnât have an irrational feeling of guilt like Shinichi did towards Akemi and Seijiâs deaths.
Oops I got side tracked from my main point. What Iâm trying to say is that Ran has a habit of locking away memories of crimes that personally affected her and of being kept out of the loop by the people she trusts the most. Now, those crimes are happening all the time, and sheâs no longer someone who watches Shinichi solve mysteries, but the one who watches Conan & by extension everyone else to make sure they donât get in danger. She does this because she thinks itâs the right thing to do, to keep kids away from crime scenes. However because Conan needs to solve these things, she canât look away.
Plus, sheâs at the stage where she CANâT lock away the memories of her music teacher choosing to get poisoned by her childhood friend, CANâT forget having to point to a DIFFERENT teacher who killed coworkers for the sake of a little girl. She has to stick by her dad as he finds out his friend killed his other friend because she was sexually blackmailing him, a police officer. She had to watch her dadâs other friend weep as he finds out his fiancĂŠ killed herself because she found out they were twins. She had to watch her father get arrested because a woman set him up for murder, drugging him to make it seem like he was cheating on his wife as well. Thatâs just canon, weâre not even bringing up the Movie 22 arrest.
Ran had to race against the clock to stop her mom from getting raped! Sheâs watched Sonoko & Kazuha nearly get murdered for simply being at the wrong place at the wrong time! Sheâs watched Heiji shot for Shinichiâs principles while Kazuha cried in despair. How many times has Conan gotten kidnapped? Gotten injured and shot? Conan, who Ran took in due to her kindness but is basically family, whoâs so much like ShinichiâŚwhat girl wouldnât change? The girl who got into her teacherâs trunk due to a hunch, dodging bullets & using her body as cover to save a suicidal Ai; how could she stay the same prone to violent anger, jump to conclusions, punch any problem that comes her way type of girl?
Thereâs nothing WRONG with that version of Ran. Thereâs a reason most people wish she stayed that way. She was much more flawed, and people like flawed characters. The current Ran liked to talk things out, doesnât argue with Shinichi, and prefers to remain silent. This treatment is reminiscent of how she treats her parents, especially her mother. Sheâs been let down by the one person she thought never would, so sheâs trying to stay strong by hoping that it will turn out the way she wants. She forcefully puts her parents together & similarly demanded to have some kind of lifeline to Shinichi so she would KNOW he wouldnât leave her. That he would come back. The easiest way for her to stay calm is by having a relationship with him.
Ran isnât the same anymore not only because Goshoâs terrible at keeping consistent characterization, but also because as sheâs becoming a more emotionally mature teenager, the person sheâs codependent with seems to have chosen his âjobâ over her and has left her alone, dropping in without notice every once in a while, never asking how her life is going (because unbeknownst to her he already knows everything) and refuses to tell her anything about the stuff he would have boasted in the past, making the divide between them deeper.
That lack of trust is exacerbated when she recovers memories that confirm her codependent friend has kept valuable information from her before (the New York case) and she also remembers her father shooting her mother, which led to the situation that caused her family to break apart. Movie 2 may not be completely canon, but the backstory is, and I choose to believe Ran recovered those memories in a similar fashion, albeit in a less flashy sort of case. Imagine finding out you cannot trust your own memory, wouldnât that leave a shift in you?
Your father gains national recognition, and you gain a family member and meet all sorts of new friends, but the danger everyone is put in goes through the roof. People you looked up to and trusted are now murderers. You escape death through sheer luck & your presence does not keep others from getting into trouble. Your boyfriend who refuses to tell you anything, tells you that heâll come back to you even if it kills him, and suddenly youâre reminded of all the times youâve yelled and screamed at him to come back, to keep his promise. You donât want to be left alone.
You watch as people kill each other over petty misunderstandings and asshole interactions. One small action made in anger or irrationality can lead to the destruction of everything you know. So you become more patient. You stop using your strength to threaten, you let go of your pride so people wonât get offended.
You were always kind, but before it was unconscious. Now kindness is your weapon of choice. Believe the best in people, because that is your shield. You are no detective, you just want to spend time with your family. You arenât dumb. You have inklings of whatâs going on but they donât want you to know, so itâs easier to not think about it. Believe whatâs on the surface and refuse to look deeper, not because of laziness but because you know whatâs been asked of you. You are your fatherâs child after all.

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We really do need to bring back the word "trolling" and warning ppl not to feed the trolls
That TikTok of ppl pouring tomato sauce directly on the counter, adding spaghetti & mixing it with their hands while commenting how great of an idea it is? Yeah, we used to call that trolling, it's pathetic & bc all they want from it is attention, the best thing is not to give them any. Block & move on.
I keep seeing it on here too. Someone comments something outrageous on a post & gets dozens of ppl to respond, filling the entire comment section & making it unusable. And on Instagram, a comment saying "I hate colors" on a post of someone showing off colorful art gets 100 replies while positive comments get none. Congrats, you've fed the troll. Now stop doing it.
Trolling used to get you banned from forums. Now they call you an influencer and give you brand deals & ad revenue. That's why it's more important than ever not to feed the trolls, especially in spaces where any attention is good attention and getting yelled at by 10k ppl in the comments counts as "engagement", boosting your troll post in the algorithm.
This is important to remember with USA election season gearing up again. (I'm sorry, non-USA peoples.) The bothsidesism assholes will start getting louder and they're either trolls, idiots, and/or want you to not vote, and in any of those cases, just block the fuckers.
Swarovski can continue to fuck off.
In 2021, Swarovski (the company that makes the very sparkly crystals you see in certain jewelry, on figure-skaters' twinkliest outfits, on red carpet dresses), decided they didn't want the grubby fingers of small-time jewelers, clothing designers and costumers and crafters on their shiny beads and rhinestones anymore. They decided to limit their sales to "luxury" and couture creators, not girls who sell stuff on Etsy. The tenor of their press release on the subject was snide and insulting. Resellers (like your favorite bead shop) would no longer be allowed to carry their product; the average Jane on the street would not be able to purchase them. You could only get them if you had an authorized business agreement that bound you to very strict brand behavior. And those of us who still had good stock of the crystals would no longer be "permitted" to use the brand's name in our listings for sale.
Every bead shop and craft supply place and many, many small clothing makers--wedding shops, prom and dancing dress suppliers, the sort of salt of the Earth mom and pop time machines of shops that are the backbone of the field--scrambled to find something that could replace them. The last of the stock dwindled quickly, all of us grabbing what we could get while there was any chance of it, and then it was gone and we no longer had any access.
I was Big Pissed about it at the time. It was just so goddamn stuck-up, when wholesalers and indie jewelers had made them so much money, when some people I knew--when *I!*--had been brand-loyal for decades. But with no recourse, everyone pivoted fairly quickly, most of us to Preciosa Crystals. Those are Czech, quite sparkly, and considerably less expensive than Swarovski. The faceting method they use is different, but not worse; any differences are hardly noticeable when you're seeing them as a hundred pinpoints of light.
Well, out of nowhere, Swarovski just dropped this: https://www.harmanbeads.com/swarovski-brand-policy-update
"Effective June 1, 2026, Swarovski updated the distribution and brand usage policies introduced in 2021. Businesses may now purchase Swarovski Crystals without signing a Brand Control Agreement, and Authorized Distribution Partners may once again sell Swarovski Crystals to resellers, including bead stores and online retailers. Businesses may also use the Swarovski brand name when following Swarovskiâs Proper Use Guidelines. Designers, manufacturers, artists, brands, retailers, and resellers are now eligible to purchase Swarovski Crystals through authorized distribution channels."
They want us back. A lot of the companies who could have kept a brand relationship with them also have swapped to Preciosa, over the last half-decade, in solidarity with indie creators and out of a sour awareness that it could be them, next. And it doesn't hurt that Preciosa was able to expand their line quite a bit now that everyone who wanted sparkle had no choice but to go to them.
And I'm not seeing nearly anyone who intends to return. The feeling is, "Y'all told us to fuck off! Off we fucked! And now, that's what you can do, too!" I'm seeing a lot of "How many of us did you stab in the back?" comments from the people whose money they're hoping to attract.
And personally I'm sitting over here all rubby hands, mean snickering, because they really thought they were going to be able to outclimb the people who actually provided all their profits, and now here they are, hat in hand.
Hubris, nemesis. Glad to know about this so I don't buy Swarovski anything ever.
It's also worth reading the section in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swarovski titled "Involvement with Nazism".