"Is it normal to-" Doesn't matter. Do it weird if it isn't hurting anyone
oh god, please be weird. Life is short, way too short to worry if you're being weird or normal. If it isn't hurting you or someone else, do it weird

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"Is it normal to-" Doesn't matter. Do it weird if it isn't hurting anyone
oh god, please be weird. Life is short, way too short to worry if you're being weird or normal. If it isn't hurting you or someone else, do it weird

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things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever
change the color used to highlight text on your laptop
move the pictures on your wall
stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you donât have time to clean it all
slightly vary your commute, even just by one street
change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if itâs only to the chair in your room instead of your bed
drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real
shower with the lights off, without music
buy $3 flowers at trader joeâsâthey look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room
start typing things you donât post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you donât deem them worth sharing
wake up super early just once. you donât have to make it a habit itâs just extra satisfying to go to bed that night
listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015
Almost all of these are about variety. Humans need stimulation! We need enrichment! We literally cannot do the same thing every day!
The other day I was feeling miserable, so I hopped on a bus and rode it all the way back to where Iâd started, and my brain, which had finally had some proper stimulation via new environments, was suddenly ready to go again!
This is why taking walks/drives and trying new hobbies are good for you! Donât turn yourself into a sad zoo animal! You need some pumpkins to roll around in your enclosure!
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god i fucking love the quote âdont turn yourself into a sad zoo animalâ it has really inspired me!
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"Oh really? YOU'RE going to teach me Russian? Well you better bring the vodka and caviar, *sweetheart*." -Translation from @cripplepunk-sylveon
the god of death should really be depicted as fungal more often I mean come on they're life's principal decomposers they form symbiotic relationships with so many other organisms they adapt to whatever the planet throws at them to turn into food including recently plastic and more originally fucking trees keeping ecological balance like the goddamn avatar why isn't the god of death a fungus what are we doing here
tell me the name of god you fungal piece of shit
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"you were always such a good kid! we never had to worry about you :)" thanks! you actually should've, though. like about this specifically
You can really tell whoâs never experienced poverty and food insecurity when it comes to discussions around food costs and how unhealthy food is cheaper. Some fucker always comes in with the price of like⌠lettuce or⌠apples. And itâs like yeah bitch but can you work an 11 hour shift after eating some salad and an apple!?! Find me something cheaper, and more filling than the broke ass staples of boxed mac and cheese, hot dogs, noodles, bread, beans, and rice. Iâll wait.
It also ignores the mental toll that poverty takes like maybe your home made veggie filled recipe isnât crazy expensive but it also involves prep time and cooking time and organization in terms of fresh food that a lotta poor people canât manage.
Not to mention if you can only afford to get to the store once every couple weeks via bus or cab then you canât keep fresh veg on deck.
But ya know.. poor people are just dumb and lazy.
Iâve finally managed to come up with a system that means I actually cook and eat decent, âhealthyâ meals, and it requires: a freezer with loads of freezer space, plenty of free time, access to fresh vegetables, a functioning hob, multiple pans, knives, etc, a microwave, and a dishwasher. Any or all of those things may be unavailable to someone trying to cook on a budget, and behaving like youâve come up with some kinda âgotchaâ because you can get a bag of discounted salad if you go into a specific shop at a specific time on a specific day is just obnoxious
Food is food is food
Thereâs a separate conversation too be had about how and why the 'unhealthierâ foods are cheaper/more shelf stable etc and another one to be had re: everyoneâs fucking broke and yet works all the time and thus has no spare time/energy to spend on making 'betterâ food and so on
The "B" is *not* for "buses"
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it's so fun for me every time this appears on my dash because not only did i walk past it irl several times, it's on what is widely considered the busiest bus route in europe
I welcome all my bussexual and trainsgender friends.
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Watching the process of this absolutely stunning painting makes it even more beautiful.
The artist is Sydney Swisher
THE UNTAMED / éć 䝤 episode 44
Wei Wuxian handing the weapon he canât use to the weapon he wonât use so they fuck shit up without fucking themselves up.

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It kind of fucks with me that somebody killed Ăśtzi the iceman because Ăśtzi himself is like whatever but the silent presence of human hands that drew back the string of the bow that shot the arrow that killed him is crazy. the idea that there were various people involved in that situation and while one of them has had his last hours painstakingly reconstructed and studied to no end, the others now only exist insofar that an arrowhead had to get into his shoulder somehow. imagine killing someone and then suddenly your entire existence is only a vague shadow implied by the fact that you killed them. much to consider
Testing the mummified bone marrow of Ăśtzi to figure out his ancestry whole time thereâs definitely another person, maybe more than one, standing in the room with us but I can never see or speak to them because I only know them through the assurance that they were there too in the form of one single arrowhead. I hate prehistory so much itâs unreal
I hate it too tbh
soothing video my mother is listening to: Relaxing the face. Cheeks. Tentacles. me: What was that last part. soothing video my mother is listening to: Temples.
Okay, we got a new one, boys.
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I also like the idea of showing something as a problem before itâs shown as a strength. Almost every character trait has two sides, and by showing the âbadâ side first, it sets things up to not only make sense, but to also be very satisfying.

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your ship goes canon
your favorite ao3 writer drops 100k of your ship + your favorite trope
I mean, canon hasn't gotten anything right yet, why would I possibly think canonizing my ship would be their first win?
Not Your Orientalist Fantasy: The Inner Palace in The Apothecary Diaries
Ok my Apothecary fam, this is gonna be a long post but a positive one, so bear with me :3
Iâve loved historical fiction since forever, especially when itâs not centered around Western/white history. But loving the genre comes with a lot of frustration too. Depending on whoâs writing, when theyâre writing, and how well they researched (or didnât), it can easily fall into stereotyping or misinformation.
Recently, I read two historical novels set in empires that depicted versions of a harem:
đ Alamut by Vladimir Bartol, set in medieval Iran, and
đ The Architectâs Apprentice by Elif Shafak, in Ottoman Istanbul.
Both stories include spaces where women live together, sometimes as concubines, nobles, queens, wifes. Sometimes as political actors, sometimes just as plot devices. And both got me thinking: why did I hate those depictions, but love the inner palace in The Apothecary Diaries? Honestly, the way this story handles gendered spaces of power feels smarter, more complex, and more real than a lot of so-called âseriousâ historical novels.
â ď¸ I'm manga + anime only (for now), and this is based on that part of the series (Iâve read up to ch. 80.2 and watched both seasons). Please do not spoil me in the discussions <3
Orientalism vs nuance â how fiction fails (and why this manga doesnât)
"Harem" is a loaded term in the West. Itâs shaped far more by the Western colonial imagination than by actual historical realities. Yes, polygynous systems existed in many empires : Rajput and Mughal India, Qing China, the Ottoman empire, Persia, Egypt, etc. The word harem once meant protection, intimacy, and even a form of soft power. But colonial narratives twisted it into a fantasy, full of sex, silence, and subjugation.
In Alamut, women are brainwashed playthings in a pleasure fortress. Drugs, alcohol, and softcore orgies make it feel like a colonial fever dream. This doesn't surprise me because Vladimir Bartol, the author of the novel, never went to Persia and everything he wrote was inspired by Marco Pollo's writing. Oh ! Another white traveler.
In The Architectâs Apprentice, things are less cartoonish, but still... uneasy. The harem remains this mysterious closed space, romanticized and framed through the male narratorâs gaze. Eventhough the author Elif Shafak, is turkish and a women, I feel that some of her writing does carry stereotypes. And honestly? Even when weâre part of the cultures being depicted, many of us still carry a Western gaze. Thatâs colonization. Thatâs the power of dominant narratives.
So I always feel tense when fiction tackles these gendered spaces â especially when it exoticizes women of color as either voiceless victims or sexualized enigmas. Queerness is often fetishized in these depictions too â as a kind of Orientalist fantasy layered over the womenâs bodies.
But The Apothecary Diaries? It avoids all that. It doesnât pretend these systems were fair or ideal. But it also doesnât pretend they were empty cages.
The inner palace is a social world, not an orgie in disguise
What I love in Apothecary Diaries is that the inner palace isnât just a backdrop for seduction.
Itâs full of life, of power games, alliances, daily routines, and deeply human connections. You see friendships, rivalries, maternal bonds. You see court ladies trained in arts, etiquette, sometimes even politics. Gyokuyou helping Lihua when they are both pregnant. The bond between Lishu and Ah Duo, as a mother-daughter relationship. Maomaoâs friendship with Xiaolan and Shisui. All of it builds a world where women are active agents, even in constrained roles.
So many stories rely on shock value when depicting women in these systems : rape, abuse, trauma. Not to say these things didnât happen, but theyâre so often presented in voyeuristic, almost titillating ways.
The Apothecary Diaries shows us something rarer: the real problems and emotional costs of those systems, without sensationalizing them.
The quiet pain of Gyokuyou, who knows sheâll never have the emperor to herself.
Fuyou, a princess who uses the inner palace as a hiding place, waiting for her beloved, and cleverly tricking the emperor into leaving her alone.
Lihuaâs illness, shaped by the grief of losing her child.
These stories show us that suffering here isnât always loud or dramatic. Sometimes itâs slow, soft, made of waiting and quiet resignation.
And yes, even the deeply disturbing behavior of the previous emperor is part of this reality. His pedophilia was known and frowned upon, yet tolerated, simply because he held ultimate power. No one could stop him. Thatâs part of the horror too.
The ecosystem of the inner palace and the lives of its women reflect the world outside: sorority, friendship, sisterhood, but also rivalry, violence, loneliness, and class divides.
Itâs complex. And thatâs exactly what makes it such a compelling story.
Women navigating patriarchy with intelligence and strategy
Yes, the system is patriarchal. Of course it is. The emperor decides, men rule. But within this system, women still find ways to carve out space â to survive, to strategize, sometimes even to thrive like Gyokuyou.
Some rely on wit, alliances, or sheer luck to stay afloat. Others, like Shenmei, actively choose this world, seeking honor, influence, and status, even when their heart lies elsewhere. They become part of the palaceâs political machinery, navigating its codes and ambitions like anyone else trying to rise within empire.
And then there are those like Lishu, quietly protected â not because of their own agency, but because the palace, for all its rules, still offers more safety than the world beyond its walls.
And what I found particularly brilliant is how the series draws parallels between the inner palace and the pleasure quarters.
Both are systems where women are sexualized, yes. But both also offer women a kind of agency. The courtesans of the red light district, much like Indian tawaifs or Japanese geishas, are shown choosing who to marry, managing their careers, teaching the arts â even sexual education.
Remember when Maomao teaches a noblewoman about sex based on what she learned from the brothel? Thatâs cultural memory, feminine expertise, and class intersection all in one.
Class, gender, and masculinity deconstructed
I also love how the story explores declassed masculinities.
By that, I mean men who donât sit at the top of the patriarchal hierarchy. They donât hold full institutional power, nor do they always benefit from sexual or social dominance.
Take the eunuchs, for example. In a lot of Western fiction, eunuchs are mocked, caricatured, or reduced to tragic figures. But The Apothecary Diaries offers a much richer range of portrayals.
We have two doctors: one naĂŻve and kind, Guen and, the other competent and respected, Luomen. Thereâs also Gaoshun, who has a family â something rare to see in fiction for an eunuch but historically accurate ! These characters are layered, each have different stories. Some are influential and respected. They represent a masculinity that exists outside the norm â marginalized, yes, but far from powerless.
Even Jinshi, with his complicated background, plays with gender expectations. Heâs perceived as delicate, elegant, âtoo beautiful to be taken seriouslyâ â which creates a tension between his apparent softness and his hidden political strength. He performs fragility to disarm people, while holding real authority.
Lihaku, on the other hand, is more of a traditional male figure but his tenderness, his devotion to Pailin, and his friendship with Maomao make him stand out. As a man from a lower class, he also faces barriers and prejudice. He doesn't coast on masculine privilege alone â he has to fight for space in this strategic, stratified society.
Even the current emperor isnât reduced to a brutish patriarch who exploits women. He cares for Lishu, Gyokuyou, and Ah-Duo in different ways â as a father, a companion, a partner in trust. Heâs witty, clever, emotionally attuned. But he too is trapped by his role. He has to marry for political reasons. We see this when he visits Lolan because her family is powerful â despite clearly having no physical interest in her and no admiration for her personality. Itâs duty, not desire.
None of these men fit the traditional mold of patriarchal power.
And thatâs what makes it so refreshing. The Apothecary Diaries doesnât just explore how women survive under patriarchy. It also shows how men who donât fit the dominant script navigate it too.
Some of this is clearly designed to appeal to modern audiences â no, this isnât 100% historically accurate. But it still breaks many stereotypes about men in palace life with harems. Theyâre not just simping 25/7 for the women. Theyâre not defined solely by desire or power over the harem. They have their own lives, their own griefs, and their own constraints. And thatâs rare to see.
When the Gaze Isnât Male or White
Western historical dramas like Versailles, The Tudors, or The Crown are full of royal mistresses, political marriages, lovers used as pawns. And yet. We donât exoticize Anne Boleyn the same way we exoticize, say, HĂźrrem Sultan or Nur Jahan.
The reason? Racism. We romanticize white womenâs sexuality and political maneuvering, but frame women of color in imperial settings as either victims or temptresses. Itâs tiring.
I honestly think this complexity in The Apothecary Diaries and how it breaks stereotypes, is one of the reasons the anime is so popular. It has layers. And one major reason is that the story is told through the eyes of a woman.
Maomao doesnât romanticize or demonize the Inner Palace or the Pleasure District. She observes with curiosity, empathy, and sharp analysis. It brings in a rare kind of female gaze: one that sees both pain and resilience, both survival and ambition.
Thatâs the beauty of Maomaoâs narration. It doesnât flatten or moralize, it understands.
These types of point of view are essentials in fiction. Because how we tell history affects how we see each other. Because stories like The Apothecary Diaries offer us a view of the past that isnât filtered through a white, Christian, male lens.
Because these systems were patriarchal â but they were also complex, dynamic, and full of real human lives. And fiction that gets that? Is precious.