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Anything goes uncredited all due to my habit to forgetting things or because I made it
I'm Dxoy and I go by they/it. I would prefer if you aren't flirting with me and that if you using heavy typing quirk /_1β<Β£ 7#!5 [PT: like this /End PT.], please add a transliteration/translation
Romance-Averse, Sex-Averse so do not trying to date with me, having sex with me, etc too
I may accidentally repost some anti endo, radqueer, queerphobes posts unknowingly due to misunderstanding some!
If I tagged any post with something like "tw csa", etc then that only because some people get triggered by and wish not to saw those, it's not because CSA or anything is worth censored
Have memory problem, can repeat things because I forget I done it before
No DNI but prefer not to get follow by blog with minors in DNI criteria
myrtle shipping term coining post (link)
My stances: (link)
Homeless resources:
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They also like swapping clothes with you. Smelling it, all the time. They seem like the type who would like to memorize your scent.
So aside from waking up in bites, expect to also feel their green sweater on your face and them walking in the room with your vessel sweater on to wake you up.
I love the idea of them wanting to understand what you smell like and wanting to recognise it and you without having to say anything -- they're definitely a "not speak, do" kind of person... I mean... obviously ^^;
the fact that SOME trans women and fems are enbyphobic and transmisandrist doesn't give ANYONE the right to misgender them, deadname them, or be otherwise transphobic/transmisogynistic.
i saw someone call a trans woman a "shemab" for holding those opinions, and that's not something we do here, folks!!! i won't tolerate that!!!
at the end of the day, trans women are our sisters and we should strive to be in community with them, as long as they show mutual respect. but name-calling and such behavior is NEVER acceptable.
"they just identify as non-binary to be cool" hey that's literally what Abigail Shrier said about young trans men in her awful fucking book btw
"they can just pretend to be cis to be safe" is absolutely mirroring the terf belief that trans women are just "men in dresses and wigs", who can just take it off whenever
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i have seen people word for word repeat transmisogynistic talking points as in directly βtheyβre trying to trick and rape lesbiansβ when talking about βtheymabsβ (nonbinary people theyβve arbitrarily deemed amab and also very often trans women they donβt find fuckable) while also pretending to care about trans women (and trans men sometimes but thatβs more rare) itβs so blatant theyβll start using the same language against all trans women the second theyβre able to theyβre just waiting until they wonβt face backlash.
"they just identify as non-binary to be cool" hey that's literally what Abigail Shrier said about young trans men in her awful fucking book btw
"they can just pretend to be cis to be safe" is absolutely mirroring the terf belief that trans women are just "men in dresses and wigs", who can just take it off whenever
"Non binary people support the status quo by not [medically] transitioning" and "non binary people who [medically] transition aren't non binary" > "trans people perpetuate gender norms" and "[gnc/non passing trans people] aren't even trying!"
exorsexism is confidently stating that all amab enbies are transfem and all afab enbies are transmasc. Like... no you're just reinventing the gender binary again
if this shows up on anyone's dash making this a teaching lesson for y'all that no, transitioning "towards the 'opposite gender' " is not the only option.
Saw this in the replies to a post and it felt... probably internalized but still Definitely something people need to learn
When I went to a restaurant with my freinds and I took an order, the waiter was super sweet to everyone...except me. They got quite snappy when I was indecisive about my order, and scoffed when I chose some soup instead of what they thought was an "actual meal."
She kept being passive aggressive towards me the whole time through the restaurant experience.
At around the end, I heard them whisper "these fucking nonbinary whores..." to another waiter while looking at me.
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So, I've been a little slow on the uptake here but I've come around to realising that the six non-Flowery flowers all seem to relate to Kris in one way or another. For a lot of them it's pretty obvious -
Aqua is a reflection of them as a very young child who doesn't quite understand how playing with knives can be dangerous;
Yellow parallels their absolutism when it comes to the mistakes they've made, and the sheer suicidal lengths they will go to in an attempt to "atone" for those perceived mistakes;
Orange reflects their tendency to project and make themself seem tougher and more self-sufficient than they really are;
Blue emphasises their artistic talent and flair for the dramatic, as well as offering a clue about the way they express their love for others;
and Seth reflects their need to feel "special" and their deeply-suppressed pride in their own intelligence and skills.
But I was stumped on Green for a good while, because they didn't really embody much beyond being a good cook and very chill person who everyone loves instantly. And it wasn't until I really thought about what ties these two characters together that it clicked into place for me.
Because Green is utterly mute throughout the entire chapter, never once speaking a single word of dialogue, and everything they do serves some other person that isn't themself, whether it be their fellow flowers or their supposed enemies. And it made me think - is that how Kris sees themself in relation to others? Is that what Kris feels like they need to be in order to be loved and accepted by others? Being quiet no matter who is speaking to you? Being helpful no matter who asks for it? Even if someone is being hurtful to you, or trying to take advantage of you?
And I thought, once again, about Bratty's dialogue about how the older kids would tell Kris to get them fast food, and then act surprised when they actually did it... I thought about the Promise they've become entangled with, and whatever strangeness is going on between them and Carol, and how they'll never really speak up for or assert themself when they dislike something. And it seems to me like Green is the ultimate projection of that, the ultimate "good" child who helps everyone and keeps quiet and gives people exactly what they want, and is universally loved for it. Green wins everyone over doing this, in a way that Kris has never quite been able to do.
And when you consider the heightened cost to Kris the longer they go along with this plan, the longer they keep Susie in the dark, the longer they go without properly articulating themself... in some ways, Green becomes the saddest and truest reflection of Kris out of all the flowers, because at least those other reflections can actually communicate and draw attention to their own suffering.
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