minti :3

Embrace as much or as little masculinity as you want. Embrace as much or as little androgyny as you want. Embrace as much or as little femininity as you want.

It fills me with so much joy when poc transmen/transmascs be pretty and cute and GNC. I've been having such a tough time feeling like I can be pretty while also being transmasc, so I just wanna uplift everyone else so we can all feel good about ourselves. Let's be pretty together!

Painterly doodle of a pretty boy! (Although, honestly, this person actually isn't really meant to be any particular gender.)

Yes, the leaks were real. No, I'm no longer coping. I think there is only one TADC ending and this is it. I want to focus on Jax in this post. It is pretty critical/negative, so watch out.

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My father will die without surgery.

My father will die without surgery.

My father will die without surgery.

My father will die without surgery.

My father will die without surgery.

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If anything happens to my dad, please remember that I begged you to donate, even a small amount, or to share my post. I will not forgive anyone who sees this post and doesn't support me with a single word or a small donation

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tom with dark skin

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Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions

but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery

sex is just as much a socially connected spectrum of characteristics as gender, it's just that the characteristics are physical ones, which makes seeing it as a social construct harder for a lot of people, i think.

thank you tadc for at least trying to make a show that turns to the audience and goes and its okay to not forgive your abusers and its okay to be happy that theyre dead while also trying to explore abusers as three dimensional characters. thank you for making it obvious that what jax did mattered even though she is transfem. im glad that digital circus has written a compelling character that is So Explicitely transfem. wow.