SAMUEL

This is genuinely have some of you mfs sound. Stfu. Ignorance is not bliss, it actually harms people in the long run.

you aren't a bad person if your source is an abuser.

you aren't a bad person if your source is a rapist.

you aren't a bad person if your source has a problematic creator.

you aren't a bad person if your source is anything, anything.

we are ALL being targeted, just bc trans women are more visible doesn't mean trans men/mascs aren't fucking suffering too.

forced pregnancy.

corrective rape.

Familial & partner abuse

50% of trans mascs have been sexually assaulted.

"T slur voice"

"confused girls"

the problem isn't just about trans women, yall need to open your fucking eyes and see we (trans men/mascs) as a community are hurting!

Like gateway systems, which are systems who feel like their headspace is an existing world, aren't that uncommon. Hell that's what we've identified as since like 2016.

We view our headspace as a real place metaphysically. It might not have the same properties as the physical world and it's a complex thing, but yeah we would consider it to be a real place overall and more a dimension we inhabit.

This isn't even a system-specific belief. There are singlets who might have inner worlds that they consider real, see astral travel/astral spaces. We've met plenty of maladaptive daydreamers too who feel their paracosms are real.

“Transmisogyny is the special intersection of transphobia and misogyny that trans women face by being trans and women. Transandrophobia can’t exist because it’s not any special intersection. It’s just transphobia. What else is there for it to intersect with?”

Misogyny as well.

i really think a lot of y'all forget when you make up hypothetical trans dudes like this, you actually mean "people who are precieved as men in society." which does not only mean trans men. and never means "stops facing oppression", especially if the minute you're found out you are right back at point 0.

why do we overly emphasize how trans dudes are so priveleged because they could be mistaken for not an oppressive class, but nobody else? what about butch women who are mistaken for men or certain trans women?

if we continue down this path it'll soon be "hey well you look masculine so stop talking about your issues because you obviously have access to male privilege, the only one ever ofc, and thus are unable to talk about your experiences or define them"

thats what people mean when they say this btw. when they make up fake trans dudes in conversations around transandrophobia? they are making an imaginary scenario to obsolve them of their oppression so they can further not care about their issues. why do you think "okay but forget this man is [trans/intersex/black/etc], then what?" is such a common point? they want to stop caring about issues of others because they believe in a bullshit oppression hierarchy and want to place themselves at the top, which lets bring it back to OP's point is incredibly ironic since they're all typically white and will never acknowledge their privelege in that.

i've seen people say black trans men are less oppressed than white women. literally fuck that.

Oh my the priveleged trans dudes for being seen as nothing but their bodies and if they change it they're a gender traitor and unfuckable and horrible. the privelege of trans dudes to have the youngest most niave members of the community constantly targeted by terfs and chasers alike to try and detransition them and "save" (re:groom) a poor little girl!! the luck of trans dudes to be beaten to death and then it be called a femicide!

be fucking serious. trans dudes do not face an easier time at fucking all, especially if you include different countries in your goddamn activism, you're just not fucking listening. this community loves to downplay trans dude's oppression and just erase everything that happens (which is exactly what the oppresssors are also doing, dickhead) as if that makes it any less true that it's happening. as if our voices constantly being stomped does anything but further our suffering, not just trans men but the trans community as a whole.

Look, it's very simple, trans women suffer just as much as y'all, but with the added demonization. It's that simple.

And yeah, Ik the "help" is not actual help. I'd just rather be tortured and detransitioned than be tortured, detransitioned, then killed for being an evil rapist or pervert. That's my thesis. That's what I say to every one of y'all, and y'all just don't get it, because y'all think "this one woman once switched sidewalks for seeing you come to them" is equivalent to "the whole media narrative of the right is based on me being evil and actively and maliciously destroying society"

and yet you have learned nothing from your time in that ideology. most people self reflect and deconstruct their own views but yea switching a few things around and keeping the same core toxic beliefs of radical feminism is fine too.

women, and ppl perceived as women, who are masculine are 100% demonized by the cispatriarchal society

from lesbians being watched with dubious eyes in changing rooms (their attraction being automatically masculinized and deemed the same as a kind of predatory male attraction) to the whole talking point about the corruption of young women

fr now, who do you think are the "evil transess grooming little girls into mutilating themselves"? it's not fucking trans women, I'm sorry to break this to some ppl

we are seen as ruined women, and by existing as our true selves we are "grooming" the women they see as nothing more than breeding cows

are we already forgetting the Seduction of The Innocent already?

they are not even pretending to help us. they are consciously erasing our lived experiences, erasing our very existence, and ppl with this kind of rhetoric are nothing but complicit

I will never forgive the way our own community helps in the very real effort to paint us as the sneaky villains of this charade

the ridicule, the hatred, how many ppl build careers by mocking young transmasc and non-binary teens just trying to find their footing? how many found rich audiences by portraying us as lol cows trying to take away the legitimacy of our own community?

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO DON’T LIKE IDENTIFYING AS TRAUMAGENIC

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO CONSIDER THEMSELVES BOTH

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO CONSIDER THEMSELVES NEITHER

There's a reason that I'm talked over and infantilized in cis man dominated spaces. There's a reason that there isn't a single person like me in my STEM department. There's a reason that I am forever terrified of forced pregnancy.