Polite Nerd Mantis Guy

Nonlesbians saying that the definition of lesbian is women loving women or nonmen loving nonmen will never not piss me off because lesbianism is NOT defined by what it excludes. Its not defined in three words. Its not a bite sized concept. Its a culture, a lifestyle, a fucking religion for some of us. Its not just girls kissing and I'm so sorry to burst your bubble

Happy pride! Please be respectful towards GNC people. They're not secretly trans or secretly cis. They are what they say they are.

I forgot to post this. But also appreciation to the studs. I've seen appreciation for the butches and that's valid and good, but what about the studs? I adore you guys and we love you for all you've done in fighting for the community since the beginning. For constantly fighting societal representation of black queer women. We see you and appreciate you.

fucked up my T shot today and last week (only got like half my dose each time) and i am so upset. goddammit

i think we should talk about degendering more as a very real form of transphobia. you should not be calling a trans woman "they" when she's explained her pronouns to you. you should not be calling her a "person" instead of a woman. she's not too gnc, she's not too androgynous, you're not "confused" about her identity, you're degendering her. I fear we've gotten to a point we've forgotten the very basics of this movement is "trans women are women" and "trans men are men", and not just "trans people are someone who's pronouns you have to memorize so you don't offend them." you see her as a man in a dress and it pisses me off

her eyes were the sickly green of the sky before a tornado, and to his horror he discovered she could throw cows around just as easily

to his horror? weak shit. outta my way gayboy im boutta get it

the state does not need to assign you a sex, nor does it need to keep inalterable record of it btw

a very interesting terf objection to this one boils down to "but how would the state know who to protect?" because it speaks to the incredible privilege of being in a class the state actually ever remotely wants to protect. most oppressed groups do not want the state to have a registry of them, lol

the patriarchy has done a great job convincing white cisgender women that it's in their best interests to maintain it

oouuuughhhh I know I'm meant to be supporting female-gaze men/male characters in media but the problem is straight women and me have very different taste in what makes a man beautiful

As a virago straigh woman i fckin agree feels very isolated

we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word

A girl can be a handsome fella. This is obvious