npd culture is. are you nice to me and are you praising me because you actually wholeheartedly believe that i am great and inherently worthy and deserving of attention and love for how great my deeds and achievements are, or are you faking your niceness because you feel obligated to give me attention so that i believe you're a good person or are you doing it just to congratulate me because it's the socially acceptable thing to do? and why do you think your compliments matter to me anyway? are you trying to manipulate me? and what makes you believe i care about your opinion anyway? and why













