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@lukabellinus
introductions ⋆˚₊‧⋆.⋆｡°✩
hi hi~
please call me Luka. im an adult who likes to read, write, and make art.
i use this blog to collect posts that are relevant to me and my trans journey. i like to yap in the tags.
my blog is 18+!
i love you trans people everywhere please never stop being you~ <3
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Trans flag quilt that I made recently for my partner 🏳️⚧️💖
You pull up to the transmasc meetup and it looks like this
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passing in public makes me feel like white shrek
literally how it feels
I have no words for how disgusting this is. No words if I attempt to articulate anything about this same reproductive violence and rape I will go off for paragraphs but looking at this makes me nauseous and fume.
The justification (link) is "It wasn’t about trans men and if you can’t see that i’m afraid you’re stupid."
Just so people can block all the rape apologists
In case anyone needed the reminder, rape jokes are harmful. You are building the pyramid that allows people to be subjected to rape
"you are illogical for talking about rape culture, it's actually a moral or ideological defect so I'm not going to listen to you, and I'm going to dehumanize you for it"
Hmm where havel heard this type of response before? Oh yeah, rape apologists
Apparently @/chhopsky (massive acc on twt btw) thinks you criticize rape jokes by ... Making rape jokes. Because rape jokes are okay if you're saying them ironically, y'all are just "confused" and "stupid"!!! And need it simply explained to you (: she "hopes this helps" (multiplied by who knows how many times she's spammed this at users) as there is absolutely no nuance in saying how things are fine so long as it's a criticism
Ts feels so similar to "oh well I'm *hate* watching this movie I paid to access so it's not bad for me to participate in it since I'm obvious about how I'm criticizing it!!" As if that's not still supporting (via funding) and/or reinforcing it
on top of how this normalizes rape culture in general. the thing that's so frustrating to me about these kinds of jokes (specifically around getting men pregnant, with covert or overt implications of coercion/rape) is that if you do this to a cis perisex man, nothing will happen to him because he can't get pregnant.
like the above "joke" is bad regardless, for the reasons laid out. but this specifically references birth control as a form of pregnancy prevention. a core part of this "joke" is the idea of impregnating a man without his consent and then leaving with no concern for his well-being.
the only men that this could happen to are trans and intersex men. at this time a cis perisex man is never going to be vulnerable to that specific kind of violence, and there are thousands upon thousands of trans and intersex men who have already been violated like this.
when people make jokes like this, they are appropriating ACTUAL transmasc and intersex suffering to project into onto cis men in their revenge fantasy. it is an act of dissociating the actual lived and ERASED experiences of gender-marginalized men and making OUR oppression become associated with THE PEOPLE DOING THE OPPRESSING.
trans and intersex men's experiences with sexual violence and pregnancy are already erased in ways that further hurt them and contribute to their deaths. so when those experiences are ripped out of our mouths and away from the context our bodies, and projected lazily onto this oppositionally sexist revenge fantasy. all the insistence that "its not about trans men you guys!!!!" misses the point because this joke logically can't NOT be about trans and intersex men.
these jokes literally do nothing to cis perisex men and are a dagger in the stomach to trans and intersex men. its not feminist or woke or nuanced. its the opposite of all three of those things. its just pure visceral catharsis and callousness retroactively justified.
Building on that, the fact that it could only be about trans and intersex men really highlights how bullshit the excuse of "it's just reversing the situation" is. Trans and intersex men who can get pregnant are not violently subjecting women to (actual or risked) unwanted pregnancy. We physically couldn't.
Obviously, this would still be a fucked up joke to make even if it was really "reversing the situation," because that shouldn't happen to anyone. Sexual violence isn't wrong because of who's doing it or who's experiencing it; sexual violence is wrong because it is violence, and that extends to the jokes that enable it. But in this particular case that justification isn't just inadequate, it's also blatantly untrue.
This is what gets me. "Women in men's fields" is about reversing what's happening. Someone posted a woman making a "joke" about being a family annihilator, where the man takes the position of what usually happens to women (being murdered, which men can be). So for the man to take the position of what usually happens to women in this scenario, the man would have to be at risk of pregnancy. That's LITERALLY how the WIMF meme works. That's how it's always worked. That the man whose field is being replaced by the woman then takes the "woman's" role.
The punch line apparently here is that it's "ridiculous" to ask a man if he's on birth control. But wait I mean cis men!! I'm OBVIOUSLY talking about cis men. 🙄 Because why else would it be ridiculous
(Intersex existence /woosh)
#Trying 2 be chill at the function but cant help noticing stigma against male pregnancy bleeding through the cracks of normal interactions
A Japanese transmasc rapper named Cocona has become a Brand Ambassador for Gucci. GUCCI!!!! And he’s in Milan Primavera, a really important and fancy fashion show, strutting around with a buzz cut and all his piercings and visible top surgery scars and I’m like genuinely so emotional about this I need all of you to see this!!!!!!! 🥹🥹🥹
He has been out for about 2 months, and in the time since his bandmates (as he is part of a musical group) have been nothing but extremely loving and supportive towards him, even rebranding from “Xtraordinary Girls” to “Xtraordinary Genes” as a way to support him :D
They now refer to him as their little brother and pet his buzz cut like a cat :]
I hope this can serve as proof to any trans people who may see this that there will always, ALWAYS be people out there who see you as you are and love you for it! It just takes a little time.
@this-is-trans-joy
This is trans joy!!!
whatever man. if id started hrt at 20 i wouldve wished id started at 16 and if id started at 16 i wouldve wished id started at 12. i need to stop fucking torturing myself. i'm grateful i get to do this at all
Transitioning is scary, but you know what's scarier? Remaining miserable and trapped in a body shaped to fit others comfort instead of your own happiness
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my gender is Uranus
idk if i've told this story here but cis people knowing literally nothing about transitioning is insane. one time i was talking to my friend, she's a total sweetheart and i am not talking shit about her but she legitimately didn't know that estrogen did ANYTHING to change your body. she was shocked when i told her it literally changes your physiology. she didn't know about the fat redistribution or anything.
i was like "girl? I have boobs?" and she goes "oh well i don't wanna be offensive but i just thought you used to be fat and it just happened to work out well?" LIKE?????????????????????????? and then i realized 99.999999% of people are the same way, allies and bigots alike. nobody is working to understand, they're just taking stances
FALL OFF??
The notes are wild
we've got a life to love living.
Journal Entries
This is the first time I'm revealing some of the entries (most of which I kept private) that I wrote before I medically transitioned nearly two years ago.
Ive been meaning to ask this for a bit but kept forgetting. I’ve been thinking about coming out to a family member for a while now and while I’m positive that it will go well, there’s always a chance that it won’t. Do you have any advice on coming out to someone?
First off, I'm proud of you; I know how difficult it can be to come out, especially for the first time. I didn't come out until I was 29, after nine years of knowing I was trans at 20, and having started gender questioning since around 12.
I don't know that I have any specific advice other than to say that being honest and upfront is generally the best thing to do. Coming out is allowing people to see who you really are, so truly let them know how you feel.
I'm also going to say that I want you to stay safe and be comfortable. If you feel like you're ready and in a safe environment to tell your family member, then I believe you!
Be safe, be you, and no matter what you choose to do, I trust you're making the right call for yourself.
Rooting for you!
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heyyyy... can we discuss how transitioning can give you some results you aren't quite fond of without getting "that's a terf scare tactic!!" as the only response?
Some guys do go bald on t! And, just like in cis men, it can be a traumatizing experience if you suffer from body dysmorphia and/or use your hair as one of your main forms of self expression!
So like, if you are balding or are bald while on T, give yourself some time to be sad about it. But then seek out support! Tell close people you trust that you're insecure about your hairloss and would like some love! Join that bald guy subreddit where everyone celebrates baldness and there are rules against terms like "bad genes"! Research aesthetics and ways to express yourself as a bald person. There's a chance you've seen like 2 categories of bald queer and are scared you'd ve miserable and dysphoric fitting into both! Research more!! There are more out there!! Create your own aesthetic!! Maybe even look into wigs! If you're feminine like me, wigs give you the opportunity to get fucky with gender expression without it being semi-permanent like regular haircuts (freak on the weekends, normal during work)! If you're in the 20s and balding makes you feel older, this is a perfect time to get into how the concept of youth as your golden years is a capitalist scam and become anti beauty culture!
And most importantly: block every account that mocks people for balding. Yes, even if the one they're mocking is an anti-trans detransitioner! You don't need that in your life.
You're still sexy, you're still hot, you're still you! AND you aren't in the wrong for feeling insecure or scared or even angry at the people who mocked the idea of balding rather than considering a genuine discussion of it! What you're going through, what you're feeling, it's normal and expected. I love you. Please give yourself some grace.
its literally fine btw. i get mad and make a post about it occasionally, but yeah. being a balding guy is totally fine and not liferuining. its not even outfit ruining most of the time.
it is 100% fine to never wear a wig or a hat or a headscarf or any of that for fashion reasons*. you can still just wear whatever you wanted to before & be bald. it is fine.
treating baldness like a sign of disease that must be managed or hidden is weird. this is just a way your body can look. and it’s *your* body.
people act like balding is the worst thing that can ever happen to a person have some internal shit to work out. that is not your problem.
*def wear one for weather reasons tho. sun and cold can affect your scalp skin too!
