tidings and mewsings of a cat-tboy (a catty boy, if you will) • Vulvar Hypospadias advocate • Exploring intersections of disability justice, intersex, and trans identities, some mewlings of being a system • neutroix hermafagdyke • one/none e/ey hy/hym kit/fae
Call me Whiskers or whatever idrc. This blog focuses on raising awareness, sharing personal experiences, and connecting with others in the intersex and ATM theory community. I love doing in depth research into topics, esp writing intersex educational essays. I am always learning. I tend to be very verbose as I'm hyperlexic, but I'm also dyslexic and dyscalculic so it's a struggle. While I am 21+, my account is not—occasional sex ed + kink discussion posts are tagged, and the latter are limited to interaction from bodily adults.
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I have read over 50 studies regarding anteriorly deflected urinary streams and vulvar/vestibulovaginal hypospadias. If you or someone you know has any questions, lmk (:
Most everything goes onto queue, tho sometimes some things skip the wait. As I have several communication disorders, it will usually take me several business days (weeks) to respond to posts because I can only manage my phone in short bursts, work full time, and am bedbound when I get home.
I use oneself, none, e/ey, hy/hym and kit/fae pronouns
Schrodigender's catoffboy. Call me a catboy or don't call me a boy at all. [PT: Call me a catboy or don't call me a boy at all, in bold /end PT]. I use it as an omninoun (link). I may occasionally use masc language for myself but I do not identify as a man. [PT: I do not identify as a man, in bold /end PT]. I'm not a man or a woman. Not your bro, not your sis. I am a SW and have done FSSW
I prefer not to be gendered or sexed by others at all, but I permit it sporadically from mutuals. I do not perform gender on the daily. Linaricgender and IntersexErrgender. Antanaver, obscurique, maintric, aliusmasc and ahuman. Neutroix tfemneumasc. TNC and ANC hermaphrodyke, hard femme, transfem guything. (s)t4t sapphillean tranny until I die. Transmisogynized
DNI/beware of cat:
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I write essays for fun.
Death, violent, rape threats / jokes, and suibait will not be tolerated. Neither will any form of bigotry—this means racism, ableism, sanism, classism, fatphobia, and queerphobia (including homophobia, inter+exorsexism, + forms of transphobia [transmisogyny, anti-transmasculinity, transmed / exclusionist beliefs, and transX/transID claims like “transitioning to intersex / Black / harmful / etc”]). I'm critical of TransID rhetoric and support alternative terminology. Individuals who use the belligerent language of bigots—"misandrodork," "theyfab," or "transandrobro"—will be blocked on sight. This is not a space welcoming to rad/LSD/basedqueer ideals or forms of fe/male separatism or superiority—namely MGTOW, masculinists, radfem, febfem, and perisex self-identified bæddels. Following or heavily reblogging from Plaidos (a known transphobe) or Strawberry-Crocodile (a known intersexist) forfeits the presumption of good faith due to the consistent lack of it on their accounts. Support for the Israeli government and its actions conflicts with the Land Back principles and other anti colonial values held in this space
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Individuals with BIID where their dysphoria is centered around the physical body rather than "not being disabled" are perfectly fine and welcomed here. I do not mind those with alters who understand that their body does not hold the responsibilities of enduring oppressions their marginalized alter would face (and thus will not be fully capable of understanding oppression regarding that minority), who do not describe their discomfort as being "transrace", and uplift voices of the minorities rather than speaking over ("I have a black/trans/IS/disabled alter so I get to decide what's bigoted" 👎)
More about me:
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I was UAAB and grew up as a trans girl, but now I'm growing into something else. I'm CTN and sociopolitically TMA, but don't use it as binaries (especially ones based on birth assignment "privilege") do not reflect my intersex experience, nor is oppression based solely on internal identity, but rather influenced by your material conditions and how you are perceived. I was raised a feminist and became a transfeminist before I ever came out. I believe in Transformative Justice and Community Accountability. Antigonist
I've been transitioning for over a decade as someone who is ambigonadal with a partial androgen resistance. I was part of the transgender craze seducing your daughters before Abigail Shrier even started taking notes. I've been called a bæddel since before Tumblr discovered it. I have survived and prevailed through a forced detransition. I've had more than a handful of people consider me a queer elder. I will remove you as a follower if I catch you being an ass in my notifs to someone I've responded to
I'm autistic, part of a small medically adaptive, disassociative, biconscious atrium collective, and am disabled on many levels. I use mobility aids daily and struggle to get anywhere without them due to my numerous musculoskeletal and soft tissue deformities, along with FND. I also have some disfigurements but don't consider myself Disfigured. I also have exfoliative keratolysis. Radinclu
I cannot tell you if you are intersex or not. I don't mind spam likes/reblogs, but be aware that coming back onto here to a bunch of notifs may startle me. I'm really weird abt compliments and tend to get overwhelmed. If we're mutuals and you unfollow, please soft block (blocking then immediately unblocking) me
Some posts:
Examining Sax's .018% claim (link)
No One Can Produce Both Sperm and Eggs? Think Again. (link)
Unpacking the Ethics of “Tboy Strap” (link)
Vulvar Hypospadias (link)
Problems with CAGAB’s Epistemology (link)
Corrective Gender-Based Violence and Coercively Controlled Gender (link)
Some Tags:
#purrspectives for posts I've written or heavily added to. May occasionally contain others' posts if I completely agree w them and have no better way to convey
#transparency for criticism and #testimonials for praise
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trans men, did any of you also have the experience of the people around you, especially other queer people, trying to push you to be as feminine as possible when you started to get serious about your transition?
like in high school, during the months leading up to me starting T, my “friends” (mostly gay/bi cis people) started trying to convince me to wear skirts and feminine clothes that made me dysphoric. they also completely randomly started referring to me as a “””femboy””” despite there being absolutely nothing feminine about me.
there was no explicit “you don’t need to transition you’re valid as you are!” but it obviously seems like they really, really didn’t want me to transition…
Hey does anyone remember when a transgender adult man with cerebral palsy got top surgery of his own accord and then posted about it in celebration, and then transphobes:
Lied and said he was non-verbal
Lied and said he was incapable of communication
Lied and said he had not gotten the surgery of his own accord
Lied and said his "guardians decided [he] was trans"
Got MGT to call a procedure done on a consenting adult "criminal" just because he had cerebral palsy
Mass reported his video and his account, which he ran, until facebook terminated his account for "child exploitation" despite it being his account, him being an adult, and him not being exploited
Ableism and transphobia are inseperable. Just like ableism was used to prop up bigotry throughout history, now it is being used to deny transgender people bodily autonomy the same way it is used to deny disabled people bodily autonomy. It's not a coincidence that so much of the rights transphobic rhetoric is focused on labelling us as "mentally ill". They don't think any disabled people, let alone mentally ill people should have independence or liberation.
<p>Micah Leroy, who ran the account known as “Disabled Trans Boy” on Instagram, became the subject of a right-wing hate campaign after he po
I think every transphobe misogynist who does the whole “trans men never actually transition, they are all theyfabs who wouldn’t touch a drop of T and just wanna be special quirky girls” should pay for my FMS. Also everyone who says T is magic and trans men don’t need to voice train or as many surgeries.
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B-but people with micropenises are my emotional support minority to bully!! 🥺🥺 B-but it's funny that their penises are small!! 🥺🥺 B-but I only make fun of BAD people by calling their penises small!! 🥺🥺 I have good reason to make fun of people with micropenises!! 🥺🥺 It's not intersexism if it's funny!! 🥺🥺 It's sooo funny because their penises are small!! 🥺🥺 Guys it's sooo funny come on!! 🥺🥺
Hmm I wonder why trans men would relate to characters who are insecure in their masculinity or feel out of place among other guys. I wonder why trans men might think that a weird man who wears baggy clothes and tries too hard to be masculine could be transgender. It’s probably because tmes are evil right
"wish you guys could have our backs" WELL, if you call them slurs the minute ONE trans man says or does something wrong or transmisogynistic and you say you are "not surprised", you are basically doing the same fucking thing but transandrophobic. Treat others how you want to be treated.
oh it's so nice to shit on trans men and generalize them when 90% are NOT transmisogynistic and also cherrypick marginal examples and make them the rule, right?/s
EDIT: what's funnier to me is that the guy that they are talking about did not even fucking say that, so not only they made a bigotted broad generalization, but they also misunderstood what he meant.
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Flag description: A six-striped horizontal flag. From top to bottom, the stripes are light pink, warm brown, (off) white, dark charcoal gray, muted medium blue, and coral red. Four stripes are equal in height. The two center colors, white and charcoal gray stripes, are each half the height of the other stripes and together equal the height of one full stripe
Flag meaning:
Pink: Wifehood, the identity and role of being a wife.
Brown: Domestic responsibilities and traditional wife duties
White: The idealized image of the "perfect wife" and the expectations attached to that role
Black: Failing to meet those expectations or fulfill those duties.
Blue: The pathetic, awkward, "soggy" yet endearing nature of the wife failure archetype.
Red: Being loved, cherished, and adored despite, in fact FOR, that failure
Pink > brown > white: sorry honey I burnt dinner, let's have ice cream
I used an off white and off black to be easier on the eyes / not so harsh
The argument that trans men and transmascs are overrepresented in feminist and lgbtq activism is a particularly rancid and stupid argument for a lot of reasons but one is because it directly conflicts with the idea that they "have no culture" and "do not contribute anything real to the community." Hmmmm it's almost like the enemy is both strong and weak or something... 🤔
If I see one more transmasc suggest lying about being intersex to pass better I'm going to lose my fucking mind.
"But what if they ask why my voice is so high?" Literally just laugh it off, make a joke or say something to the affect 'idk' or if your still a teen/preteen say 'my voice hasn't dropped yet'. That's what cis men with high voices do.
If you've done this in the past just please don't do it anymore.
I think it would certainly be an experience to have only an ounce of a dose, just once, of whatever self-righteous, ego-fueled power trip elasticveins is on that makes him think calling strangers insane, disgusting, weird, bitches who should grow a brain is "respectful" but I fear being an asshole (that's bigoted) to strangers simply bc they disagree w me regarding a fucking headcanon would make me sick to my core and I would hate my own existence until I felt I had done enough to repent at least three times the damage I had dealt during that time.
I think only positives could come from not receiving any more anons regarding him even if we are pointing out his bullshittery 🙏 just keep that in mind anons but don't feel guilty, I just have other things to be getting to rather than spending nearly a month on the same unhealthy thing. While I can't stop people from sending him anons, all I can do is suggest an request you don't poke the egotistical bear
the refusal to analyze manhood and masculinity as an axis of identity that intersects with all other facets of identity and influences the way one is treated beyond the most basic, surface-level “man = privileged” is an example of male defaultism and i’m tired of people pretending it’s not.
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flags coined by an indigenous queer belonging to the tsalagi and mvskoke nations, requested by an indigenous queer who belongs to the cheroenhaka nation
the purple and white motif used across these flags is to represent wampum. the red, blue, and white colorings and hue tones in the flags is representative of the cheroenhaka tribal colors, which represent loyalty and patriotism and are seen commonly in regalia
the acorn and feathers are symbols taken from the cheroenhaka tribal shield. the acorn and leaf represent the fall season, an season with important cultural events and significance. the feathers represent eagles, the four directions, and forced removal from tribal homeland
The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.
It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.
After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.
If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!
Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com
The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.
