🌸Lotus Notes🌸

i am extremely well-adjusted and mentally healthy as long as nothing goes wrong ever at all even a little bit

[…] When a person fails to begin a project that they care about, it’s typically due to either a) anxiety about their attempts not being “good enough” or b) confusion about what the first steps of the task are. Not laziness. In fact, procrastination is more likely when the task is meaningful and the individual cares about doing it well.

I’ve been yelling this for years

many times, there's no need to seek answers in things like tarot, the approval/disapproval of someone, following trends, a nod telling you you're "doing it right". go with your gut, go where your nervous system feels safe. be honest with yourself. trust.

“some things aren’t meant to last” ok but consider this: I love permanence and consistency

I do think the majority of us should strangle the shame that lives inside of us like wringing water from the rag until we are soft and dry and weightless

I can see why someone would worship a tree. Not every tree but some of them tempt me to idolatry. Like... Anyone else get this

Righty-tighty, lefty-loosey

blog goals: making someone feel a little less sad

me when I have a medium day: let’s spice it up with a little treat

Reblog if you deserve a little treat

we are literally on this earth to have fun and love each other how sweet is that

life is not success. life is not grades or achievements. life is refreshing naps, drinking your favourite drink, movie night, hugging your best friend, laying on grass, funny videos, seeing your plant bloom, the days getting longer, candles, finding a piece of clothing that’s just so you, complimenting people, personal handshakes, that one song, cleansing showers, smelling flowers, cute book or coffee shops, cute prints, finishing a notebook. this is truly what life is. the smallest things.

i romantically stand outside your window and hold up my iPhone to blast our song. a 30 second ad plays first

this is the bedtime version of “running the dishwasher twice”

pay the ADHD tax upfront; embrace the second-best solution rather than the perfect one you’re half as likely to do or use

so no one is going to talk about the time dostoyevsky said “and i seem to have such strength in me now, that i think i could stand anything, any suffering, only to be able to say and to repeat to myself every moment, ‘i exist.’ in thousands of agonies- i exist. i’m tormented on the rack- but i exist! though i sit alone in a pillar- i exist! i see the sun, and if i don’t see the sun, i know it’s there. and there’s a whole life in that, in knowing that the sun is there.” because hOly fuckkkk