I don’t think my last ask went through if it did ignore this one
However the radqueer traumaendo minor who attempted actually explained why he’s labeled himself that way
https://www.tumblr.com/wha-t-doth-life/820229696937689088/we-label-ourselves-as-a-traumaendo-mixed-origins
I’m unsure if you’ve seen it
nah it actually didnt go through, so i didnt see it. thanks for sending it again.
any of these things by themselves would already be traumatic on their own, but all the stuff they mentioned, especially that it was between 7/8, means this is traumagenic. either this is someone fishing for validation on their trauma, or they are in actual denial. none of which make them anything else than misinformed.
you are not ""traumaendo"" fuck off with that misinformed bs. (any 'you's do not mean the anon who sent that btw)
we have some of these experiences as well (as well as lung problems from being premature). this is bs because the "lung problems" didnt cause your system. they surely are causing problems in general, theyre a form of stress and can certainly make one more vulnerable to future trauma if it involves breathing (something humans need to survive, obviously).
"we have so much that proves our trauma is real" - if youre soooo sure, you wouldnt still be buying into endo bs and also trauma is the wound, not the event. you know if you have trauma, youre traumagenic, this rly isnt that hard.
what these people dont grasp is that your experiences are very real. if it hurt, it was traumatic. you dont even need "the worst thing ever" to have happened to have developed a CDD... but what one shouldnt do is label something as "less than trauma" when it had very real consequences to your health, and also somehow these people always factor every possible thing that has ever happened to them into what caused their system... but thats not how that works. the trauma needed to develop a cdd has to be repetitive and long-lasting, BETWEEN THE AGES OF 6-9, IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT THE HURT IS, TRAUMA IS SUBJECTIVE AS AN EXPERIENCE, but that doesnt mean i should label myself "roomgenic" because i was in my room a lot as a kid. we were neglected, that caused additional hurt to us and added to the reasons why we developed like we did, that doesnt mean the room itself caused it. do you get where im coming from here???
bullying can be traumatic, harassment can be traumatic, grooming can be traumatic, psychotic experiences can be traumatic and incredibly stressful, STRESS ALONE CAN BE VERY TRAUMATIC ESPECIALLY IN A LONG TIMESPAN AND IF ITS HAPPENING CONSTANTLY. THAT DOESNT MAKE ONE ""TRAUMAENDO"" WTF.
this just confirms that this is a horribly misinformed, pro rq minor who should not only remove themselves from the "endo" communities they are in, so they can get a grasp, but also leave the rq community. there is so much wrong with what i screenshot here.
this person obviously seems very used to traumatic pain while denying their trauma entirely, and wants to stay in the hurt, thus the rq identification, a group that will only hurt them more, something very common for people with trauma in general but that doesnt make their opinion justified or less misinformed.
this does not justify telling someone to kill themselves!! Let me make that very clear!!
I DO NOT AGREE WITH THIS PERSON BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN WE SHOULD ALL GO AND TELL THEM TO KILL THEMSELVES!
NOT ONLY IS THAT HARASSMENT, BUT ALSO THAT WILL ONLY LEAD TO EVERYONE POINTING AND GOING "SEE? I TOLD YOU ALL THOSE ANTIS ARE HORRIBLE PEOPLE" AS WELL!
THIS DOES NOTHING FOR OUR ARGUMENTS! DO NOT WISH SOMEONE HARM!